Love...

[Jman437]

It's simple: I don't believe in love. I don't believe that another person can love another just because yes. I mean, it's stupid, there has to be a reason, right?:what:
I just don't believe there's something that makes you like another person just because it likes, without any ulterior motives...

[BebeFleur.]

Movies are often fake. So much of the screen is for pleasure, not information about the real world.

Do you not believe in love in general or just love at first sight? Either,way, it is okay, you can have your own opinion. :)

[Jman437]

Movies are often fake. So much of the screen is for pleasure, not information about the real world.

Do you not believe in love in general or just love at first sight? Either,way, it is okay, you can have your own opinion. :)

love in general, I find the idea of liking someone without having ulterior motives a nonsense...

[Left Now]

Love is just something between God and humans...Humans just can like each other but this likeness will make them to do anything for what they are liking it...

[BebeFleur.]

Most people have a reason. I like this one guy because he is funny and smart. Other people like people for their appearance, personality, amongst other things.

[Left Now]

Yes....

[Jman437]

That's the point: love is stupid and impossible. Liking someone without ulterior motives? Stupid and an enormous nonsense...

[Hunter_Steel]

I proved that theory wrong with my girlfriend. I love her no matter what. I have no ulterior motives, I just love her because I love her. There doesn't have to be an ulterior motive for it to happen. It just does happen.

~Hunter

[Jman437]

I proved that theory wrong with my girlfriend. I love her no matter what. I have no ulterior motives, I just love her because I love her. There doesn't have to be an ulterior motive for it to happen. It just does happen.

~Hunter

You don't have, but that doesn't rule out the possibility that she doesn't too.
Contrary to popular belief, love just doesn't happen, one must have an ulterior motive to love another, the motive is always there, you just don't know where. Love without them is only true in fairytales...

[Cognizant]

I used to think I believed in love, but after my parents divorced I have changed my views on it. I mean, I still think it exists, but there's a dividing line between "really like" and "love".

[Jman437]

I used to think I believed in love, but after my parents divorced I have changed my views on it. I mean, I still think it exists, but there's a dividing line between "really like" and "love".

I'm sorry your parents divorced, man, I really am. How are you holding on?
I used to believe in non-family love, that is, before I was rejected and ridiculed by my biggest crush to date...

[teen.jpg]

You just havent found "the one" yet. Love isnt something you give up on. You have to find it.

[Jman437]

You just havent found "the one" yet. Love isnt something you give up on. You have to find it.

All my friends have a girlfriend, they already found the one, why I haven't found her yet, I mean, if they attractive enough to get a gf, so am I. And, what's up with "the one"? That's only real in How I Met Your Mother, a freaking tv show. In reality, there may not be someone for you, and there's nothing you can do about it! And yes, contrary to popular belief, love is something you can give up on, because I'm the living proof of it. I've given up!

[Eric57]

All my friends have a girlfriend, they already found the one, why I haven't found her yet, I mean, if they attractive enough to get a gf, so am I. And, what's up with "the one"? That's only real in How I Met Your Mother, a freaking tv show. In reality, there may not be someone for you, and there's nothing you can do about it! And yes, contrary to popular belief, love is something you can give up on, because I'm the living proof of it. I've given up!

Dude, you are being way too hard on yourself. How old are you? You are probably in middle school or high school, right? Trust me, most people do NOT find "the one" at that age. It does happen, but not often. Just because your friends are in relationships right now does not mean they have find "the one." The thing is, those are middle school and high school relationships and it is rare for them to really go beyond that. Most people find "the one" later on when they are in college, after they graduated college, or even after that. It is not likely that your friends have found "the one" yet.

Also, "the one" doesn't just exist in TV shows and movies. It exists in real life too. I haven't found that person yet, but A LOT of people have. You see it every day. Just because relationships end, people get divorced, etc. doesn't mean it doesn't exist... and just because you haven't found that person yet doesn't mean they aren't out there for you.

Personally, I think you are way too young to be as cynical about love as you are. Love exists and so does "the one." You just have to keep looking. It may take time, but it will happen. I know you don't believe that, but trust me, once you meet that person, you'll know it and change your mind.

Stop being so hard on yourself. It just makes things worse.

[Jman437]

Dude, you are being way too hard on yourself. How old are you? You are probably in middle school or high school, right? Trust me, most people do NOT find "the one" at that age. It does happen, but not often. Just because your friends are in relationships right now does not mean they have find "the one." The thing is, those are middle school and high school relationships and it is rare for them to really go beyond that. Most people find "the one" later on when they are in college, after they graduated college, or even after that. It is not likely that your friends have found "the one" yet.

Also, "the one" doesn't just exist in TV shows and movies. It exists in real life too. I haven't found that person yet, but A LOT of people have. You see it every day. Just because relationships end, people get divorced, etc. doesn't mean it doesn't exist... and just because you haven't found that person yet doesn't mean they aren't out there for you.

Personally, I think you are way too young to be as cynical about love as you are. Love exists and so does "the one." You just have to keep looking. It may take time, but it will happen. I know you don't believe that, but trust me, once you meet that person, you'll know it and change your mind.

Stop being so hard on yourself. It just makes things worse.

I'm not saying I would like to find "the one" yet. I want to find "the one" before my 30s, I'm worried about the future. The reason I'm writing about this is that all my friends have a date while my only date is a "sticky magazine"(Ted Mosby- How I Met Your Mother). It really sucks to be the only conscientious guy in my group and the only one without a girlfriend.

Really, "the one" is out there for me? "The one" will come along? As I said, there may not be someone for you, and there's nothing you can do about it...

I still don't believe that someone can love me without any ulterior motives, and the idea that there's someone for you seems stupid and ridiculous to me... And I will not change my mind until someone proves me wrong. Oh wait, it will never happen...