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Left Now
April 18th, 2013, 04:12 PM
In school,every time i can hear about some of my classmates experiences about being with a girl and talk to her and...
But....Me....?
I think i do not have any sexual feelings,neither for girls nor for guys...I just act with guys like regular people and for girls i feel real shy and upset to have any connections...in many cases in my own family,i do not shake hand with my girl relatives because i know this act such an insult for the girl who wants to shake hands with me,even she like me to shake hands with her...
Or for example one time a girl called my number by mistake and then she excused and i said goodbye to her.After that days i tell this to one of my classmates and he told me"What a stupid you are!You could be her friend...you lost a good luck.."but then i told him "Man...she just called me by mistake...and after all i am not interested in relations between young boys and girls..."and then he said"Well...after all you are not that handsome to interact a girl enough...(You know many boys in my school wear jeans with t shirt while i wear suit(coat and pants and simple shirt and simple black shoes)and this is why they call me old fashioned)"
Anyway is it really wrong...I mean i like my way of behavior with people and my opposite sex but...Is it really bad ?

itcouldbeworse
April 18th, 2013, 04:45 PM
I dont think that it really is that bad it may be viewed different in others eyes but you are who you are and there is no changing that. Maybe in the future your feelings and thoughts will change but for now your still in school and you shouldn't have to worry about that

Gwen
April 18th, 2013, 06:27 PM
That's not bad, you be how you want to be. Don't let them make you think your wrong or anything. If you don't feel comfortable doing something, no one should force you. Be yourself.

Left Now
April 19th, 2013, 09:20 AM
Thanks guys...It is really good to be myself...