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jayyy-lmao
April 18th, 2013, 10:26 AM
Is it ok to change your mind?
Like, you think you're one thing now, but you're not 100% sure, and in the future you think you're something else. Is that ok?
See the thing is, I'm pretty sure I'm gay. But I don't fully know, I find it hard to believe you can know 100%, and is it ok to, like, change your mind?
Is it ok to tell people, like close friends and parents?
PinkFloyd
April 18th, 2013, 10:33 AM
Yeah, totally fine. Hormones are going crazy for every teenager weather your a guy or a girl. When I was 12 I was positive I was gay, but now I'm extremely repulsed by any ideas that go along with it. Well what I'm saying is that it's totally normal.
Gandalf
April 18th, 2013, 10:40 AM
Is it ok to change your mind?
Like, you think you're one thing now, but you're not 100% sure, and in the future you think you're something else. Is that ok?
See the thing is, I'm pretty sure I'm gay. But I don't fully know, I find it hard to believe you can know 100%, and is it ok to, like, change your mind?
It's your life, you should do what feels right and good for you. It's perfectly fine to be unsure. Don't rush for labels, be yourself and any doubt will clear with time. :)
justin 13
April 18th, 2013, 11:37 AM
You are right, I'm also sure I'm gay, totally. Not wanting to be even curious about chicks, but it is just me tho.
johnsmith1
April 18th, 2013, 02:44 PM
You're still young. Your hormomes are on overload as you're growing, so you can easily wander about many things and change your mind over time.
Toogley Schmurp
April 19th, 2013, 06:54 AM
You can be what ever you want to be, whether it's gay, straight, bi, even furry.
txtwister13
April 19th, 2013, 06:11 PM
of course you can change your mind! life would be a lot less fun if we couldn't change our minds
xmojox
April 19th, 2013, 07:27 PM
Why even hang a label on yourself, Jenny? Just don't even worry about it for it now. Have fun learning about yourself and discovering who you are. I list my sexuality as "unlabeled" because I don't have a clue.
teen.jpg
April 19th, 2013, 10:11 PM
If you're confused don't label yourself. Just wait it out.
RyanJF1
April 19th, 2013, 11:54 PM
Don't worry about identifying yourself. It's perfectly fine to be confused, and I understand where you are coming from.
I am confused between being bisexual or gay. I just know I'm not completely straight.
jayyy-lmao
April 20th, 2013, 02:15 AM
Don't worry about identifying yourself. It's perfectly fine to be confused, and I understand where you are coming from.
I am confused between being bisexual or gay. I just know I'm not completely straight.
Yeah, this is pretty much where I'm at, to be honest.
Synyster Shadows
April 23rd, 2013, 03:13 PM
It doesn't matter what you are, whether lesbian, gay, bi, etc. Just pursue happiness and whoever will help you fulfill that.
workingatperfect
April 23rd, 2013, 03:25 PM
Of course it's ok to change your mind. You're young, you're still a long way from figuring out who you are. A lot of people go through that confusing stage where they think they're one thing and then oops, no they're not, but they're not this thing either and oh my god what am I lol. :P I myself through I was straight, then went through a few years where I considered myself bi, only to find that I was only sexually attracted to girls. Now I prefer not to label myself, but generally go by straight.
Twilly F. Sniper
April 23rd, 2013, 05:02 PM
It really is.
I've switched between pansexual and bisexual a few times myself.
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