rejection

[hickboy]

Hey everyone. What gets girls? I keep getting rejected. I'm nice sweet and I'm respectful
How do I stop that from happening and actually get the girl to like me:D. I'm not dirty and don't stink. But they still reject me please help!!:D

[Ace of Spades]

Are you confident? Self-confidence is a major factor I think.

[TopThrill]

Try, try, try. Then try again. Just don't be super creepy, and get to know some girls. You'll know when the time is right.

[hickboy]

Yes. Im confident but I'm not the kind of guy who thinks he can "get girls". I respect all girls but I don't understand why they reject me.

[clueless_one]

I'm in the same problem. I'm nice to everyone guys and girls, respectful. But yet can't get a girlfriend. I try to look good and have a shower everyday so I don't stink. I'm also confident, talking to lots of girls. Due to being rejected lots of times i've become scared to ask out any girl now. I'm not sure what to do. But looks like i'll have to keep on trying. :cool:

[Aves]

I'm sorry if I strike a sore-spot in anyone. Being kind, respectful, and sweet won't get you any girl. It's the truth. Girls, if you would go for anyone who is just these three, you're a bit desperate. You have to be interesting as well, that's the biggest thing. If you're interesting, you can get almost anyone. Sure you have to be nice, but you'll get further off of being interesting as well.

Don't think of yourself as the guy who can't get girls. That'll ruin chances left and right. Don't be depressing and bring up around girls that you keep getting rejected. More importantly, don't just going around asking any random girl. Make sure you actually feel something for the person you're about to ask out, or have a strong feeling you two will have a good connection.

[clueless_one]

I'm sorry if I strike a sore-spot in anyone. Being kind, respectful, and sweet won't get you any girl. It's the truth. Girls, if you would go for anyone who's these three, you're a bit desperate. You have to be interesting as well, that's the biggest thing. If you're interesting, you can get almost anyone. Sure you have to be nice, but you'll get further off of being interesting as well.

Don't think of yourself as the guy who can't get girls. That'll ruin chances left and right. Don't be depressing and bring up around girls that you keep getting rejected. More importantly, don't just going around asking any random girl. Make sure you actually feel something for the person you're about to ask out, or have a strong feeling you two will have a good connection.

So your saying that if your nice, kind, respectful and sweet TO EVERYONE you will look DESPERATE. Excuse me, what if that is what I do when I'm myself. What does that mean?

I will spend my whole life alone. Maybe thats that then. I'm an only child right now being all alone and now I will grow up alone and die alone. Is that what you mean... :mad:

[Aves]

So your saying that if your nice, kind, respectful and sweet TO EVERYONE you will look DESPERATE. Excuse me, what if that is what I do when I'm myself. What does that mean?
Please don't misinterpret what I said. I said that if a girl just goes for a guy who's nice, kind, respectful, and sweet, the girl is a bit desperate. And it's true, because they're not looking for someone who's personality fits theirs, just that the guy is nice. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nice to everyone though.

I will spend my whole life alone. Maybe thats that then. I'm an only child right now being all alone and now I will grow up alone and die alone. Is that what you mean... :mad:

I did not mean this in anyway. I'm sure that you will find somebody. I really do. Just be you. I re-worded my original response to more reflect what I mean. I left out a few words. I truly am sorry, but did not mean what you took my post as.

[clueless_one]

Please don't misinterpret what I said. I said that if a girl just goes for a guy who's nice, kind, respectful, and sweet, the girl is a bit desperate. And it's true, because they're not looking for someone who's personality fits theirs, just that the guy is nice. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nice to everyone though.



I did not mean this in anyway. I'm sure that you will find somebody. I really do. Just be you. I re-worded my original response to more reflect what I mean. I left out a few words. I truly am sorry, but did not mean what you took my post as.

Now I understand you. But what if the girl is looking for a nice, kind, respectful, and sweet guy. Then will the girl be desperate in that case. I don't think so.

Even then I'm just acting myself and if i'm nice, kind, respectful, and sweet, in the way that your saying it no girl will go for me because they will look desperate. You know what they say to get a girlfriend. JUST BE YOURSELF. So what am I supposed to do.

So therefore I will never get a girlfriend therefore being alone forever.