i dont know who i am anymore

[crushed_47]

I don’t know who I am. I can’t be myself and I can’t be who people want me to be. I’ve tried so hard to be what other people want, that I forgot how to be myself.
What do you do when you can’t be what other people want, including what you want? It causes you to hate yourself. Nobody wants to be around me anymore.
I’m a different person with different people because different people want me to be different things. I try too hard to please everyone. I cannot be myself no matter what and I don’t know what being myself means anymore.

[TheWizard]

Chande

If you keep doing the same thing you do now can only expect to get the same results in the future.

You have to decide who you are and go live it. If others say anything about your new life then tell them to fuck off. Do something that will let you be who you are. Take up skydiving, flying, pool, etc. Just be who you WANT to be.

[*-tick tock-*]

i was kinda in the same dilemma
do stuff that YOU think is fun (swimming, skiing, bowling, eating, etc)
that way you can build urself back up again
if people have a problem with it. fuck them. they have their lives.. u have urs. live it the way YOU want.
im not trying to be harsh or anything so please dont think i am.
im just saying. do stuff what u like to do and what keeps u entertained. i mean, i know its hard making people happy, but you and the people around got to find something yal both can enjoy and be free...

[crushed_47]

thanks guys

[bahari mtoto]

Be who you want to be and do what you want to do and people with your same interests will be drawn to you. And the people that leave you because you're different aren't your real friends and their not worth your energy and time.