Worst relationship expiriences, Go.

[LouBerry]

So, when I moved to the school I go to now in 2nd grade, there was this boy. He used to chase me around the playground and all that. Then after YEARS of chasing this boy, in seventh grade, he asked me to be his girlfriend, then dumped me. Four. Times. Worse, he told me I was ugly and wouldn't be good enough for him, because he was part of the in-crowd. Well, my friend Sarah and I checked our Myspaces today, because why not , you know? And I have this message from Cody, and he confessed his love for me and it was so sweet, and I'm thinking, wow this has to be from like, 2009. NOPE. He did it in September, and he only wrote it so I would never know. So, I messaged him on Facebook. Not only did he deny it, he told me I was weird. SO DONE.

Anywho, girls, guys, cats, tell me about your dick-head ex significant others.

[Horatio Nelson]

Daaaaamn, is all I have to say about that cody dude.

But myself? Never had one, luckily.

[LouBerry]

Bitches, man.

[CharlieHorse]

Friendzoned because I'm not the same religion as her. :(

[LouBerry]

^Ouch :(

[Cygnus]

I had an ex-girlfriend that became obsessed with me. I broke up with her since she was taking my life away. I said we could still be friends, she did not want to. Then she wrote me a five page poem and a song asking me to take her back, I originally said that we could be friends and she denied it, so I would not accept that again. So she stalked me for the next four months making a bunch of accounts on Facebook. She passed through stages where she hated me and others where she apparently loved me, I just told her to leave me alone, I wanted my life and great grades back.

Reading what I have typed I did seem like an asshole in some sense, but I offered her friendship after those four months and she denied it, so we left each other alone.

[project_icarus]

My past relationship experiences?

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[Iron Man]

As much as I hate the term, friendzoned, for my first relationship. Stupid me, didn't move on right away, and I still tried chasing her. A voice deep down inside me told me not to do it, because I would just be hurting myself.

[Aves]

I have had one girl that I have liked for ages. Still do a little actually, but she only likes me as more than friend when it's convenient to her. Regardless to knowing that she does this, I still am always willing to hop into something with her. We've only officially dated twice. The first time, she was sincere and wanted to just be friends instead. The second time, she broke up to me by not talking to me after a few days. I'm not trying to sound clingy, she stopped talking to me for a few days, next thing I know, she was in a relationship with this total asshat.

[Emerald Dream]

The White Padded Room :arrow: Relationships and Dating

May get more answers up here.

[LouBerry]

My past relationship experiences?

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And this is why I love you.

[clueless_one]

I've had lots of bad experiences. But mostly just asking out girls and being rejected. But the worst one was the first girl I liked she just smiled in such a way that made me happy and I wanted to be with her even more. But she smiled all the time. So, as time went by I just told myself thats the way she is, she smiles at everyone and now i've moved on from her and now still trying to find a girl but keep being rejected that now its come to a point that I don't want to ask any girls out because the amount of times i've been rejected. So, maybe one day I'll find someone but in the mean time. :cry:

[LouBerry]

I've had lots of bad experiences. But mostly just asking out girls and being rejected. But the worst one was the first girl I liked she just smiled in such a way that made me happy and I wanted to be with her even more. But she smiled all the time. So, as time went by I just told myself thats the way she is, she smiles at everyone and now i've moved on from her and now still trying to find a girl but keep being rejected that now its come to a point that I don't want to ask any girls out because the amount of times i've been rejected. So, maybe one day I'll find someone but in the mean time. :cry:

Hang in there. (:

[CharlieHorse]

A girl told me she liked me.
I was so stunned and happy at the same time, that I gave off a reaction of not being interested in her. But in reality, I like her a lot too.
That was a while ago.
Now she completely ignores me.
I've tried to talk to her, she usually ignores me or leaves.

If only I wasn't so stupid.


Now I can only look at her from across the way and see her happy as a clam.

[ShaneSawyer]

A few years back I was dating this really nice girl, and looking back at it now, I was a terrible boyfriend to her. *She always did cute things for me but I never did jack shit with her and I took advantage of her and then broke up with her for essentially another girl. Biggest asshole moment in my life and it is burned into my conscience.*

Then I date this girl for a month and dumped her purely because I did not like her and didnt want to keep leading her on. She then called me nonstop for a month and then I finally told her off and she went straight to my best friend and dated him. So much drama came from that.

Last but not least was a girl one of my best lady friend hooked me up with. Her best friend actually. Everything was good and cute but she wouldn't tell her parents about me, so we couldn't see eachother as often as I would have liked. Then she tore my heart out and spit on it an broke up with me. I went nuts after that I was so sad. Before that I never had cut myself. Then a few months later she announces to the world that she has a new boyfriend and that pissed me off. Was I to stupid for her? Was I not good enough to show her family and friends? So I snapped out of it and haven't harmed myself for 8 months (excluding skateboarding ;). )*

So yea that's about it and I have been single for like 9 months. Buuuuuut I got a date this Saturday! :D

[JoeHillsTSD]

So after being rejected by a friend, in 8th grade I had talked to this really cute girl and asked her out after a few weeks of flirting. She waited till the last 2 weeks of school to give me an answer. So we spent the last two weeks of school trying to be in a relationship (which by the way she told me after we started going out that her parents didn't allow her to date).
The only time we actually got to go on a date was at a school trip, and we got cockblocked so hard during the whole trip by one of her friends (I tried to hold her hand, and her friend separated us. I'd try to get her alone, her friend would be right there!) I was gonna kiss her for the first time on the skylift, and what do you know, her friend sat right between us during it.

And after asking her to go on dates and then realizing she couldnt do any of it because of her parents, we broke up.

[gipsy danger]

on valentine day I had a date with girl that I just went crazy for. and I asked her out to go to the cinema with me. she said yes so I got all snazzy, got a fresh haircut, got her flowers, and all that other gay stuff. I was waiting outside for her IN THE COLD and she walked up to some other guy and kissed him. letting my anger get the best of me. I called him wanker and threw the flowers at him and punched him in the face and stomach. I told her to never see me again and kissed her and called her a beautiful slut.
now I'm like why did I kiss her and then call her a slut. Franky you are dumb boy :S

[Ryhanna]

Worst relationship experiences? Haha, sure! One time, I was forever alone. And that time was not one time, it was always. Sucks.

[Jess]

Never been in a relationship, still not in one, so therefore so far I haven't had experienced my worst one.

[Synyster Shadows]

This wasn't an actual relationship, but anyways, there was this girl I liked. I told someone, thinking i could trust him. You know the deal. Asshole goes and tells her. Now she seems to hate me - talks negatively behind my back. I was such an idiot, thinking I could trust him. Well, at least I like a different girl now and she is only sweet as sugar. I hope I don't screw up this time...

4/24/13 I'm now crushed. The girl I like now, for those many who haven't read my new thread. So I was gonna tell her in private at the end of the day. I promised in second period, because she kept asking but I kept saying "Privately, then I promise I'll tell you." I run into an acquaintance of mine an hour later. He tells me he has a crush on this same girl and that he asked to the school semiformal dance. I'm pissed at my cowardice, jealous of the guy, and heartbroken at the same time. But I still have to tell her, even if I risk making things awkward, because I can't break my promise, not to this girl. But the good thing is that I technically didn't screw up. It's not like this girl found out before I could tell her. (trying to stay positive :)). I just hope we can still be friends...

[CharlieHorse]

My dreams (literally sleep dreams) made me fall madly in love with a girl who didn't know I existed.
It was a weird experience.
I was basically in love with her for 5 months.
I never talked to her either. :(
I was too shy.

Just one of a few

[Peter102]

I direct you to my post in Relationships and Dating.

[HahaWaitWhat]

Uh hm let's see, in 7th grade at a new school, I told a few of my friends that I liked this girl and they asked her out for me without my knowledge, which I was somewhat excited but terrified since I'm fairly shy, needless to say because of my shyness we never spoke and she broke up with me. We started dating a week later and I actually started hanging out with her, we broke up a few weeks later. Um lemme skip ahead since we dated quite a number of times. Soo beginning of high school! At the beginning of high school we hated each other, around september I messaged her on facebook asking to resolve our conflict, she agreed. We started talking more catching up until eventually we started talking about/sending things, I'm sure you can imagine what those things are.. Anyway I asked her out... for the 5th time. Yes you read correctly. 5th time. We kissed the next day, I was extremely nervous since this was my first kiss at the age of 15. We talked about having sex a lot but it never happened, though we had a few opportunities. I broke up with her a month later because, well let's just say I was being an idiot (it wasn't about not having sex). We didn't talk much after that. We started talking again the beginning of Sophomore year. I almost asked her out again but her other ex asked her first. We quit talking till about 2 months ago. I realized that I was madly in love with her. Not even kidding, she was the only thing I thought about despite a lot of problems in my life. At first she didn't know I still liked her, then I told her. It was going great for a bit, I thought I had a chance but she told me some things her boyfriend has done to her and everything went down hill from there. It was getting increasingly harder to hide my emotions, I cried a few times, even once in class because her ass hole boyfriend told her I was harassing him on the phone (I wasn't). She went back to him. A week later she told me she was over me. The next day she texted me saying she wasn't. That night particularly fucked with my head. She told me she wasn't over me but that she didn't love me. So basically over the course of the month, she got super excited when I told her I still liked her, told our friend that she still liked me, told me she still loved me, then told me she was over me, then told me she wasn't over me, that she didn't love me, but that she didn't want to let me go. She told me she didn't really have hopes for a relationship with anyone and that she didn't love me because I hurt her. I understood the last part, but was pretty confused as to why she was with her boyfriend when he's doing worse things than I did. Well, I haven't spoken to her in about two weeks. I still think about her constantly and every time I do, I remind myself that it's my fault. Wow so I wrote a lot. Hah I won't blame you if you don't read the entire thing.

[jayyy-lmao]

Friendzoned by my best friend cos she's not gay/bi. Oh the pain. :(

[Tristin.]

i might as well post my latest train wreck. My ex as of last night cheated on me with our 'friend' Amy. I find it rather amusing yet at the same time heartbreaking. i guess there is a bit of ironic poetry in that.

[Anxiety]

I had a boyfriend who moved out of the damn continent without telling me and he never even said goodbye -__-

[boring_guy]

>be Junior in High School
>meet a Senior girl
>don't know a single thing about her
>wants to get close to me
>casually ask her out, since she's basically asking me to
>"date"
>still don't know much about her
>get the feeling that I'm just an object to her
>find out ever since her 2 year relationship, she goes on flings
>don't care what happens, it always happens to me, always find fakes
>ask her if she even likes me
>"yeah it's not really working out"
>goes on to tell me she likes me so much it scares her and she's not ready for another relationship
>next week she's with another guy
>tell her over facebook that I would have appreciated the truth, that she never had an interest in me
>denies lying
>next week with another different guy
>I think, "a righteous cunt, she is"
>so happy I don't have anything to do with her at all anymore
>delete her off facebook, so done, so glad
>after a week she comes up to me at school, gives me a hug
>"I don't know what's going on but here's a hug"
>okay...thanks...*leave*

Gaahahah WHY?? She doesn't like me, doesn't want me, why does she CONTINUE to lie after I told her I KNOW she's lying? What is she even DOING? Good god I hate her, makes no sense whatsoever.

Please, anyone that might think they understand her: first tell me I'm stupid for hating something I don't understand, then please explain to me what her problem is.

Also, I recently saw her with her old old old boyfriend she had for 2 years. ????????? Am I just part of the path she needs to trample over on her way to figuring out her issues?

Thanks for listening to my rant...

[Elysium]

The closest thing I ever got to a relationship was back in 7th grade. The boy I liked asked me out over text and I happily accepted. He dumped me via text after school the next day. I didn't understand why until I was later told, not even by him, that it was for a bet he'd made with his friends, how many girls could they go out with in a month.

[Hunter_Steel]

My worst relationship experiences are when me and my current girlfriend fight. I hate fighting with her, and it makes me feel really dark and monstrous inside. So I try avoiding fighting with her as much as possible because its not nice for either of us. Especially when she's on the edge with all the stress she is gaining.

There was one moment when we argued so much we broke up for about a month, she blocked me on Facebook and didn't speak to me on MSN either. Until the month passed when we both made up and got back together. I dunno why, but I really can't get past how much I feel about her.

She might be the one, especially since I only had 2 girlfriends in my entire life. Before 2010, having a girlfriend was like a foreign concept to me, and didn't really seem interested in having a relationship with anyone.

That changed when I met my ex, I lost it to her, but now we're just friends. Broke up on mutual agreement that we moved on from eachother. But my current girlfriend. Wow, I never felt this way about a girl before. And I feel like I have a real connection to her. So if you have to ask.

My worst relationship Experiences are when I fight with my girlfriend. I love her so much that she means the universe to me. And I don't want to let her go. And fighting with her is like I am breaking my connection with her and I feel like total crap after the arguments. That would be my worst relationship experience.

~Hunter

[Harry Smith]

ahaha already seen the friend zone mentioned, it's like the worse thing for a gay guy when you meet up with a guy every week, sleep in his bed, hug him just before you leave, walk him home at night, watch Grease together and all the other shit when his mind your just a good friend. It kills aha

[Akasuki]

I don't have terrible relationship experiences caused by the relationship but when I was in a long distance relationship with my current boyfriend two years ago, it really tore me up. I couldn't handle it, I was so depressed. I was so close to suicide because I thought we wouldn't be able to see each other until I was legal and he was the only thing that kept me going at the time. Thankfully, we got to see each other 3 months later and then I moved in with him shortly after. :wub:

[Kenny-mckormick]

Cody seems like a douche

[Moai]

Dumped because I got upset that another guy was trying to steal her away from me.

[LouBerry]

Uh hm let's see, in 7th grade at a new school, I told a few of my friends that I liked this girl and they asked her out for me without my knowledge, which I was somewhat excited but terrified since I'm fairly shy, needless to say because of my shyness we never spoke and she broke up with me. We started dating a week later and I actually started hanging out with her, we broke up a few weeks later. Um lemme skip ahead since we dated quite a number of times. Soo beginning of high school! At the beginning of high school we hated each other, around september I messaged her on facebook asking to resolve our conflict, she agreed. We started talking more catching up until eventually we started talking about/sending things, I'm sure you can imagine what those things are.. Anyway I asked her out... for the 5th time. Yes you read correctly. 5th time. We kissed the next day, I was extremely nervous since this was my first kiss at the age of 15. We talked about having sex a lot but it never happened, though we had a few opportunities. I broke up with her a month later because, well let's just say I was being an idiot (it wasn't about not having sex). We didn't talk much after that. We started talking again the beginning of Sophomore year. I almost asked her out again but her other ex asked her first. We quit talking till about 2 months ago. I realized that I was madly in love with her. Not even kidding, she was the only thing I thought about despite a lot of problems in my life. At first she didn't know I still liked her, then I told her. It was going great for a bit, I thought I had a chance but she told me some things her boyfriend has done to her and everything went down hill from there. It was getting increasingly harder to hide my emotions, I cried a few times, even once in class because her ass hole boyfriend told her I was harassing him on the phone (I wasn't). She went back to him. A week later she told me she was over me. The next day she texted me saying she wasn't. That night particularly fucked with my head. She told me she wasn't over me but that she didn't love me. So basically over the course of the month, she got super excited when I told her I still liked her, told our friend that she still liked me, told me she still loved me, then told me she was over me, then told me she wasn't over me, that she didn't love me, but that she didn't want to let me go. She told me she didn't really have hopes for a relationship with anyone and that she didn't love me because I hurt her. I understood the last part, but was pretty confused as to why she was with her boyfriend when he's doing worse things than I did. Well, I haven't spoken to her in about two weeks. I still think about her constantly and every time I do, I remind myself that it's my fault. Wow so I wrote a lot. Hah I won't blame you if you don't read the entire thing.


That sucks. Relationships, man.

[HahaWaitWhat]

That sucks. Relationships, man.

Hah yeah, tell me about it.