not sure ??

[boobear98]

I am 14 and very unsure about whether or not I am gay or bi or what....I am a regular boy I mean I hang with my friends and we camp and bike and do normal stuff I play sports and I have always been raised expecting to get a girlfriend and some day a wife. Lately (last month or so) I have started imagining what it would be like to do the same things I expected to do in my life but to do them with a guy (one of my older brothers friends to be exact) I am not sure how to feel about this or what to do....any advice you might have would be helpful

[Jae Ostraes]

maybe wait some time and signs, dont rely to a single thing, wait.

[boobear98]

thank you I kind of figured that was what i needed to do but guess I just needed to hear it from someone else

[norcaldude18]

Understand that just because you don't fit the stereotypes and you bike and camp, doesn't mean you can't be gay.

[JonasBe]

Whatever happens, if you really do get feelings/fantasies about a boy, that's life and don't feel guilty about it. There's nothing wrong with being gay/bi. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise!

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Learn the virtue of patience.

[justin 13]

Dude, I play soccer, xbox sometimes not that much, ride bike, camp, fish, and I am gay. Still in the closet tho.Nothing to do with your sexual orientation.