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liptonlee
April 14th, 2013, 06:39 AM
Hey guys i was wondering sth abt hugging ur bf/gf.
If you are a girl, do you feel ur bf's penis erect and touch you? would you mind it too much? how to politely remove that steaming hot penis off your lap politely without being too 'openly' abt it, if you know what i mean.
For guys, how do u prevent it from being erect? I mean, if you are like hugging ur hot girl, it's hard to resist at all. How the hell to stop the erection!
thx in advance guys
ImCoolBeans
April 14th, 2013, 01:41 PM
As you get a little older and (hopefully) are able to control yourself a bit more, you should be able to not have that happen...
clueless_one
April 14th, 2013, 09:30 PM
Hey guys i was wondering sth abt hugging ur bf/gf.
If you are a girl, do you feel ur bf's penis erect and touch you? would you mind it too much? how to politely remove that steaming hot penis off your lap politely without being too 'openly' abt it, if you know what i mean.
For guys, how do u prevent it from being erect? I mean, if you are like hugging ur hot girl, it's hard to resist at all. How the hell to stop the erection!
thx in advance guys
Make it face upwards. It shouldn't affect as much unless the pants your wearing is loose then that could be a bit of a problem. But I just face it upwards until I can control myself. Maybe that might help you.
Rayquaza
April 15th, 2013, 11:42 AM
Well, I don't know.
When I had a girlfriend for a short period of time, I wouldn't think about how she looks and then suddenly become aroused, I'd be more considerate about the love I had for her. Of course, things changed since then, but it still should be something that shouldn't happen like that. Besides, there will be times anyway where you will get an erection, since you're a hormonal teenager, and to be honest I think she'll know that too.
Aves
April 17th, 2013, 03:06 AM
As you get older it becomes easier and sometimes impossible from a hug. I mean, to be blunt, I've been able to make out with someone and not get erect quickly. I get it, you're feeling the opposite gender for the first time(s) in an intimate way. It's normal to get aroused quickly. Shortly, it'll become normal.
Hank Hill
April 18th, 2013, 06:39 PM
^^
Dude. Thank God. I thought I was the only one, and I was worried. Haha! :D
JoeHillsTSD
April 19th, 2013, 05:28 AM
I can offer you this advice, and this can help you with all erections:
Focus your mind on something else. If you feel yourself getting an erection, focus on something that won't arouse you. For instance, try do complicated math problems in your head like 43•67, and if you finish that easily try doing a logarithm in your head.
Or try imagining a perfect circle, then imagine a triangle inside the circle where the points of the triangle are touching the circles edge. Not too hard right, then step it up a notch- imagine the triangle spinning inside the circle. By this time, you're mind is focused on the circle & triangle and you're little buddy has gone flaccid.
I've also heard this has helped guys last longer, but I have no experience in that area.
Hope I helped :)
liptonlee
April 19th, 2013, 11:29 AM
^^
Dude. Thank God. I thought I was the only one, and I was worried. Haha! :D
haha it's okay! nice to find someone who shares the same problem with me :)
liptonlee
April 19th, 2013, 11:32 AM
I can offer you this advice, and this can help you with all erections:
Focus your mind on something else. If you feel yourself getting an erection, focus on something that won't arouse you. For instance, try do complicated math problems in your head like 43•67, and if you finish that easily try doing a logarithm in your head.
Or try imagining a perfect circle, then imagine a triangle inside the circle where the points of the triangle are touching the circles edge. Not too hard right, then step it up a notch- imagine the triangle spinning inside the circle. By this time, you're mind is focused on the circle & triangle and you're little buddy has gone flaccid.
I've also heard this has helped guys last longer, but I have no experience in that area.
Hope I helped :)
but...somehow if ya think of math problems or so it sorts of drifts your attention away and makes ya kinda less 'focused' on your s. o. and girls are just sooooooooooooooo noticible whether u are paying attention or not...
anyway thanks for the advice! :)
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