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Giannaras
April 13th, 2013, 09:56 AM
So I like this girl but I dont know if I like her for just friends or for a girlfriend and here in Greece school will close for 2 weeks(easter break) and then will open for exams.
The point is that I talk to this girl everyday and I dont want to lose touch with her EXAMPLE:Now its weekend and I wont see her today neither tomorrow but on Monday and I cant stop thinking about her how am I going to stand not seeing her for 2 weeks?
I just want to tell her "Do you want to go for coffee tomorrow" or something like that but she thinks I like her as a girlfriend while I just like her more than a friend but I dont want to be my girlfriend neither I want to lose connection with her.
If I ask her to go out and she says no what should I do?Should I tell her that I see her as a friend and nothing more?

Gandalf
April 13th, 2013, 10:13 AM
I think you're over complicating it for yourself, just arrange to meet up with her casually and she'll probably accept anyway.

Only you can decide if you like her enough to be in a relationship with her, if you do you could ask her out when you're with her.

Not seeing her for 2 weeks is something you can't change, you'll manage it. I'm sorry I couldn't say more, you could possibly keep in touch with her while she's away it's not hard these days with facebook and the internet. :)

liptonlee
April 16th, 2013, 10:55 AM
chill dude...2 weeks isnt really that much after you engage in a more mature/meaningful relationship. like Gandalf said u are probably sweating it out too much.
if you wanna ask her out, be sure u now arent being too pushy or so. that definitely turns off girls. if she rejects...she would probably understand that it's bit too awkward to be back friends immediately. time is the essence of everything.
good luck!

Aves
April 17th, 2013, 03:00 AM
I'd ask her on a date if I were you. See how it goes. Something might spark and you two end up being together happily. Here's something I've realized from years of being alone and letting some potential girlfriends slip through my hands: just go on the date. Nothing bad can really come from going on a date with someone you're not sure how you feel about.

giofighter
April 17th, 2013, 08:07 AM
Hey man(Apo salonika ime) :p Well,i think your situation is VERY complocated.If i was in your place i would definetely ask her out for a coffee,even for a walk it's good too.I think you must give it a shot and if all goes well then you could ask her too be your GF.File pragmatika pisteuo oti prepei na tis t zitisis.isos n afti i periergi sxesi pou exeis mazi tis na gini pio kali na to po.tespa apla GO FOR IT!!!