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Teresa31
April 13th, 2013, 03:06 AM
I've been holding this in for almost two years. When I used to live in New Mexico I dated this guy. At first he was nice to me and I really liked him. About one month into our relationship he started pressuring me to have sex with him and I kept telling him that it was too early, he always said he understood. One day we were home alone at my house and he asked me again, I told him no but instead of saying he understood out of the blue he punched me. I was so stunned in fell backward into my dresser. I started to ask him why he hit me but he started getting on top of me. He slapped me several times then he punched me more. I knew he was going to rape me and there was nothing I could do. Finally I was able to push him off and I crawled to the door but before I got there he kicked me in the ribs. Again he got on top of me and before I could move I felt his hand around my neck, he started squeezing, hard. I remember trying so hard to fight back and then feeling so helpless. He started to touch me and I screamed for help. Again he hit me. I thought he was going to kill me but then the door flew open and my brother ran in with a baseball bat. My "boyfriend" ran out of my room and out of the house. I asked my brother not to tell anyone and so far I think he hasn't. The thing that's been troubling me the most is the fact my dad and I moved like a year later. I hope he didn't think he scared me into leaving. I hope I'll feel better now that this is off my chest.

CharlieHorse
April 13th, 2013, 03:15 AM
It is very good that you opened up about it.
That guy is a complete ass hole, and it's good that you are far away from him.
Just keep in mind that you did nothing wrong, and you did not deserve what he did to you.
Know that there are not many guys like him. It's good that you have your brother.
Are you two close siblings?

The best thing to do would be to take a few deep breaths, let go of the troubles that this experience holds, forgive yourself if you feel any guilt, and look forward to a brighter future.

Teresa31
April 13th, 2013, 03:54 AM
It is very good that you opened up about it.
That guy is a complete ass hole, and it's good that you are far away from him.
Just keep in mind that you did nothing wrong, and you did not deserve what he did to you.
Know that there are not many guys like him. It's good that you have your brother.
Are you two close siblings?

The best thing to do would be to take a few deep breaths, let go of the troubles that this experience holds, forgive yourself if you feel any guilt, and look forward to a brighter future.

Thank you for the advice I've tried to forget about it but you know it's still hard, unfortunately when my dad and I moved to Portland my brother moved with my mom to Colorado