View Full Version : Embarrassed to wear briefs...
evan43
April 13th, 2013, 12:02 AM
Basically I am always so embarrassed about the fact that I wear briefs. I know I should wear what I want and not worry about others, but I still feel embarrassed about it. The thing is, I actually like briefs. They are comfortable and supportive. However, I feel like I am 8 years old wearing them and I feel like I look ridiculous in them too. I stay the night with friends all the time and all of them sleep in nothing but their boxers, but I can't do that with my underwear because I know they will make fun.
I actually own boxer briefs, but for some reason I just feel more comfortable in briefs. Boxer briefs definitely has their pros. I actually don't have a single con about boxer briefs. Yet I seem to ALWAYS go back to regular briefs.
I am thinking that maybe I should just throw my briefs out. That way I have no choice to wear boxer briefs from now on. Cause eventually I'll get more comfortable wearing them, right? Or is that too extreme?
I don't know. I just hate wearing briefs. I feel like a little kid and I feel like people will make fun of me if they know I still wear them.
fast8
April 13th, 2013, 12:04 AM
wear whatever makes you feel comfortable
Sephtyan
April 13th, 2013, 12:12 AM
You know, normally I'm the one in support of what makes you most comfortable, and I would hate for you to do something as extreme as throw out the thing that makes you feel comfortable just because of peer pressure. However, I don't think it would be a bad thing in this case. I speak from experience when I say that you will get used to the lack of support that briefs used to offer. I can also tell you that you won't get made fun of if you're seen wearing boxers. For this generation, it's simply known as being cool/tough/"in". Don't ask me why. Someone's badass older brother did it back in 2003, then the younger brother did it because he idolizes his older brother and wants to look cool in front of his friends. It caught like wildfire, and there you have it. Fashion trends. Anyhow, I'd say that if you want to give boxers an extended trial, but can't quite stick to the regimen, then go ahead and throw your briefs out. Worst-case scenario, in a month you figure you still don't like boxers and you can ask your parent/guardian to buy you a fresh batch of briefs.
MaguireUk
April 13th, 2013, 12:16 AM
wear whatever makes you feel comfortable
I agree thats the simplest way to put it
Lovelife090994
April 13th, 2013, 12:19 AM
Wear what you like, do what makes you comfortable. Don't care about the peers, they are just silly. I wear briefs. I used to wear boxer briefs from peer pressure, now I'm like, "what the heck, I do not care."
Montoya007
April 13th, 2013, 12:21 AM
I wear briefs all the time
And I'm on the varsity wrestling team
So complete strangers have seen me in my briefs and I don't care
If you have any more questions message me :)
teen.jpg
April 13th, 2013, 12:26 AM
If you have good self esteem, FUCK judgement, do whatever.
If not, I recommend conforming to the "norm". Sorry, it's just like that.
Horatio Nelson
April 13th, 2013, 12:32 AM
You know, normally I'm the one in support of what makes you most comfortable, and I would hate for you to do something as extreme as throw out the thing that makes you feel comfortable just because of peer pressure. However, I don't think it would be a bad thing in this case. I speak from experience when I say that you will get used to the lack of support that briefs used to offer. I can also tell you that you won't get made fun of if you're seen wearing boxers. For this generation, it's simply known as being cool/tough/"in". Don't ask me why. Someone's badass older brother did it back in 2003, then the younger brother did it because he idolizes his older brother and wants to look cool in front of his friends. It caught like wildfire, and there you have it. Fashion trends. Anyhow, I'd say that if you want to give boxers an extended trial, but can't quite stick to the regimen, then go ahead and throw your briefs out. Worst-case scenario, in a month you figure you still don't like boxers and you can ask your parent/guardian to buy you a fresh batch of briefs.
I was that badass older brother......:lol:
mrfrog871
April 13th, 2013, 02:44 AM
Wear your briefs dint care what people say I know if you wear them many other will start
StoneColdNicky
April 13th, 2013, 03:04 AM
I'd probably go buy some really awesome briefs that everyone would wish they had too!
RMP23
April 13th, 2013, 03:39 AM
Keep your briefs and go buy some boxers. keep your briefs under your boxers. in that way, you're still in the 'trend' with your friends yet you still have your briefs on! Yay!
Holdens
April 13th, 2013, 03:48 AM
Wear what makes u comfort
FergusDunn
April 13th, 2013, 06:39 AM
These guys are not exactly your friends or buddies are they and so immature if the make fun of your choices -
RunnerRunner
April 13th, 2013, 10:58 AM
wear what you want to wear, i had the same problem until 7th grade. but dude dont be embarassed, be proud of it. if u still want to you can switch but its your choice.
evan43
April 13th, 2013, 02:17 PM
Thanks for all the opinions, guys.
What I have officially done is thrown out every single pair of briefs that I own. Now all I have left is my boxer briefs. So far I like them and I am hoping to get used to them. If I don't, I'll just ask if I can get some more briefs. I am really hoping I get used to boxer briefs, though.
Michael Anthony
April 20th, 2013, 12:05 AM
hey stick to your briefs if you like them
i used to wear boxer shorts but lately i have gone back to wearing briefs.
i had forgotten how comfy they are. i like how they hug my balls LOL
Unchained_Shadow
April 20th, 2013, 12:21 AM
I usually wear boxers but i sometimes wear boxer briefs. I sleep shirtless and i wear boxers
ollyollyoxenfree
April 22nd, 2013, 08:18 PM
What ever is more comfortable. I don't think anyone would say something about it to you.
Tyson S
April 22nd, 2013, 08:25 PM
Wear the briefs, if your friends laugh at you, then they are not your friends. Simple.
As for me ive never ever worn boxer briefs or briefs. yes im Shy with wearing them! D:
Wear what is confortable. its your body.
Evancosta
April 22nd, 2013, 08:28 PM
I'd probably go buy some really awesome briefs that everyone would wish they had too!
I love this idea. Don't be embarrassed by what you wear under your clothes. You can make compromises, try some awesome brands and get some awesome pairs of briefs!
Jevon
April 22nd, 2013, 08:38 PM
Just wear them fuck what people think
darkdude41
April 22nd, 2013, 08:59 PM
Basically I am always so embarrassed about the fact that I wear briefs. I know I should wear what I want and not worry about others, but I still feel embarrassed about it. The thing is, I actually like briefs. They are comfortable and supportive. However, I feel like I am 8 years old wearing them and I feel like I look ridiculous in them too. I stay the night with friends all the time and all of them sleep in nothing but their boxers, but I can't do that with my underwear because I know they will make fun.
I actually own boxer briefs, but for some reason I just feel more comfortable in briefs. Boxer briefs definitely has their pros. I actually don't have a single con about boxer briefs. Yet I seem to ALWAYS go back to regular briefs.
I am thinking that maybe I should just throw my briefs out. That way I have no choice to wear boxer briefs from now on. Cause eventually I'll get more comfortable wearing them, right? Or is that too extreme?
I don't know. I just hate wearing briefs. I feel like a little kid and I feel like people will make fun of me if they know I still wear them.
well heres a thought. I might be off base here though, not sure. if you're worried that briefs might "reveal" your package and that friends might make fun of you as a result, just say them "well, why are you even looking down there" :P
ChrisA1998
April 23rd, 2013, 02:40 PM
Basically I am always so embarrassed about the fact that I wear briefs. I know I should wear what I want and not worry about others, but I still feel embarrassed about it. The thing is, I actually like briefs. They are comfortable and supportive. However, I feel like I am 8 years old wearing them and I feel like I look ridiculous in them too. I stay the night with friends all the time and all of them sleep in nothing but their boxers, but I can't do that with my underwear because I know they will make fun.
I actually own boxer briefs, but for some reason I just feel more comfortable in briefs. Boxer briefs definitely has their pros. I actually don't have a single con about boxer briefs. Yet I seem to ALWAYS go back to regular briefs.
I am thinking that maybe I should just throw my briefs out. That way I have no choice to wear boxer briefs from now on. Cause eventually I'll get more comfortable wearing them, right? Or is that too extreme?
I don't know. I just hate wearing briefs. I feel like a little kid and I feel like people will make fun of me if they know I still wear them.
first, you're not a baby if you wear briefs ;-)
some people call briefs childish, but thats what most boys wore until not that long ago. if you prefer them, just keep them. if you are afraid you get embarrassed by other boys, just wear boxer briefs during the days you have to get changed in front of them (i.e if you have PE)
and if someone gets you embarrassed, justask him in front of everyone why he is so interested in other guys undies ;-)
sartbimpson55
April 23rd, 2013, 03:39 PM
If anyone looks at it and comments just ask them a simple question that will shut their mouths. "Why are you looking down there?"
chezhans
April 29th, 2013, 05:41 PM
If you have good self esteem, FUCK judgement, do whatever.
If not, I recommend conforming to the "norm". Sorry, it's just like that.
EXACTLY!! Who says what you are allowed (or not) to wear! Whoever says that to you has some serious judgment issues...its up to you, not THEM, right?
pro-bodybuilderJJ
April 30th, 2013, 04:17 AM
i have to get my boxers made specially because i got 6" soft penis and my balls are huge so the bulge is just too big so i need bigger ones
jacksonthelan
April 30th, 2013, 05:24 AM
wear whatever is comfy, i wear briefs
Ben69
August 7th, 2013, 01:20 PM
Don't worry, I used to have that problem too. It may help if you get some cool briefs like American eagle or Calvin Klein. Never get white though unless you wanna look like a child. Do whatever you want though, I don't think your friends will drop you just cus of your underwear lol. After I changed to CK compression shorts I actually thought they were better. Do whatever you want tho, hope this helps.
HAYES
August 7th, 2013, 03:03 PM
I was like this too a few years ago, and i tried a pair of boxer briefs and after getting used to them i never wanted to go back.
Jakefortin
August 7th, 2013, 03:19 PM
It's not like you're wearing just the briefs in public.... So it's okay and no one can see it. & it depends if you have the body for it, it's like wearing a speedo you know.
Stuey1
August 7th, 2013, 04:40 PM
buy some very expensive designer ones for sleepovers and where them
qert4321
August 7th, 2013, 05:09 PM
wear whatever makes you feel comfortable
I also agree. It's your choice.
MattPainter
August 7th, 2013, 06:44 PM
Wear what suits you dude. You don't have to follow the trend
nino51300
August 8th, 2013, 06:15 PM
Wear whatever makes you comfortable. I personally like tight boxer briefs, but it's whatever makes you comfortable.
Werwer12
August 10th, 2013, 11:13 PM
I honestly know extactly what you mean, up until last year when I switched to boxer breifs I was so inbarresed at sleepovers and change rooms at school i actually wore breifs and wore boxers over top of them so no one knew! Worked fine
mrmee
August 10th, 2013, 11:23 PM
You could just wear breifs all th time except when you go to sleep-overs and boxers then.
timjf123
August 11th, 2013, 12:58 AM
Don't be embarrased what other people think but If you are not comfortable switch to boxer briefs they aren't as tight as briefs and not as loose as boxers
curiouse97
August 11th, 2013, 01:21 AM
dude just be you! life is to hard to try and force your self to do what you don't want to do. what everyone else thinks is not important.
xXCaptainteemoXx
August 11th, 2013, 01:32 AM
I'd say where what you want. I personally enjoy boxer briefs but if ou want it where briefs go ahead. Do whatever makes you comfortable.
power89
August 12th, 2013, 09:21 AM
Keep your briefs and go buy some boxers. keep your briefs under your boxers. in that way, you're still in the 'trend' with your friends yet you still have your briefs on! Yay!
that a gud idea
chelsea99
August 12th, 2013, 01:53 PM
i know what you mean i normally just wear briefs when im out but bixer briefs when staying at friennds as i have the same problem. just think grown men wear them so you should be able to
mijr1999
August 19th, 2013, 06:04 AM
if your friends will make fun of you then you better get some new friends cause they are obviously mean people that like to make fun of peoples underwear. you should wear what ever makes you feel comfortable
clandry
August 19th, 2013, 06:05 AM
Who cares what people think? :P A lot of people wear briefs. Whatever makes you feel comfortable is what you should wear.
Jaiv6
August 19th, 2013, 08:47 AM
What Evers comfy
QuantumPhysics
August 19th, 2013, 08:53 AM
Basically I am always so embarrassed about the fact that I wear briefs. I know I should wear what I want and not worry about others, but I still feel embarrassed about it. The thing is, I actually like briefs. They are comfortable and supportive. However, I feel like I am 8 years old wearing them and I feel like I look ridiculous in them too. I stay the night with friends all the time and all of them sleep in nothing but their boxers, but I can't do that with my underwear because I know they will make fun.
I actually own boxer briefs, but for some reason I just feel more comfortable in briefs. Boxer briefs definitely has their pros. I actually don't have a single con about boxer briefs. Yet I seem to ALWAYS go back to regular briefs.
I am thinking that maybe I should just throw my briefs out. That way I have no choice to wear boxer briefs from now on. Cause eventually I'll get more comfortable wearing them, right? Or is that too extreme?
I don't know. I just hate wearing briefs. I feel like a little kid and I feel like people will make fun of me if they know I still wear them.
Its your genitals. Do what you like. Freeball do anything! In England briefs/ boxer briefs are in fashion. Everyone wears them. https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=briefs&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&gws_rd=cr&um=1&ie=UTF-8&hl=en&tbm=isch&source=og&sa=N&tab=wi&ei=6iISUsP1GMnN0QXu74Eo&biw=1366&bih=639&sei=7iISUtH8BOSY0QWKhIG4CA#facrc=_&imgdii=_&imgrc=CIKF_KVeaf1A3M%3A%3BAIvAAh6fdVGqRM%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252F2.bp.blogspot.com% 252F-u4xq6ALZJ4c%252FT8cyVK9qioI%252FAAAAAAAAAKA%252Fe5bLAkpUsqE%252Fs320%252F223606-green-briefs.jpg%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fbundesligaspiel.blogspot.com%252F2012%252F05%252 Fbrief-briefs.html%3B900%3B674 is tht what they are??. Just chill. I went through a phase of boxer briefs cos they made my dick look bigger. I also own briefs. They are all fine
Pepito
August 19th, 2013, 08:58 AM
Wear whatever you feel comfortable with and screw the others! You can always switch between the two types or buy some nice briefs that look really great.
Soldier212
August 26th, 2013, 06:07 PM
Where what u feel like screw judgement an ps briefs show off better
Josh from SoCal
August 26th, 2013, 06:26 PM
Seriously, any guy that give a crap what your underwear is needs a life. Wear what you like. In all honesty, do you want other people telling you what you can wear under your clothes?
The only person you need to make happy on this subject is yourself. Next to that, your gf/bf.
Personally I switched to regular style boxers a few years ago. Except for athletics, it's all I use.
Destroyeroftissue
August 26th, 2013, 07:02 PM
wear what ever you want its ur choice lots of older people wear them
wish_master_TWA
August 27th, 2013, 03:33 PM
Forget the haters, and wear what you want :D It's your life, do what you please, and let no one stand in your way :D
MrTyphoon
August 27th, 2013, 03:37 PM
dude i feel the same, but its your choose not theres!!
JamesSuperBoy
August 27th, 2013, 03:39 PM
Seriously, any guy that give a crap what your underwear is needs a life. Wear what you like. In all honesty, do you want other people telling you what you can wear under your clothes?
The only person you need to make happy on this subject is yourself. Next to that, your gf/bf.
Personally I switched to regular style boxers a few years ago. Except for athletics, it's all I use.
well said
Lovelife090994
August 27th, 2013, 04:01 PM
I wear briefs and I have a few times to school and anyone who picked on me well now they are confirmed homosexual and jealous so to anyone who bullies, to heck with them, they don't own me and bullies don't own you. Stand up to them or say, "what's wrong you want to fuck with me?" They pompous boys will shut up fast.
devyn
August 27th, 2013, 04:41 PM
at my school, boxer briefs with the name brands on the elastic is now the coolest thing.
but those people also buy black nike socks and pull them up to there knees, and then wear sandals. please dont wear socks with sandals, and please dont pull your long socks all the way up!!
henry5331
August 30th, 2013, 12:22 PM
Basically I am always so embarrassed about the fact that I wear briefs. I know I should wear what I want and not worry about others, but I still feel embarrassed about it. The thing is, I actually like briefs. They are comfortable and supportive. However, I feel like I am 8 years old wearing them and I feel like I look ridiculous in them too. I stay the night with friends all the time and all of them sleep in nothing but their boxers, but I can't do that with my underwear because I know they will make fun.
I actually own boxer briefs, but for some reason I just feel more comfortable in briefs. Boxer briefs definitely has their pros. I actually don't have a single con about boxer briefs. Yet I seem to ALWAYS go back to regular briefs.
I am thinking that maybe I should just throw my briefs out. That way I have no choice to wear boxer briefs from now on. Cause eventually I'll get more comfortable wearing them, right? Or is that too extreme?
I don't know. I just hate wearing briefs. I feel like a little kid and I feel like people will make fun of me if they know I still wear them.
Wear what you want to wear. A friend of mine started wearing briefs and we all busted on him for it at first. Now it's no big deal. It's just cuz it looks different. But he wears more than just white ones. It's just underwear.
Greg1994
September 1st, 2013, 04:45 PM
It's not a big deal, wear whatever you prefer!
The_furry_fish
September 1st, 2013, 04:51 PM
Wear what's cofortable
HSJock206
October 23rd, 2013, 12:55 AM
All the guys in our family wear briefs and always have. Just have to find ones that fit the best and looks good. I am on the football team, wrestling team and baseball and I am in great shape and I dont care what the guys think. Its what makes me feel good and comfortable. Screw what others say...
Lovelife090994
October 23rd, 2013, 05:59 AM
All the guys in our family wear briefs and always have. Just have to find ones that fit the best and looks good. I am on the football team, wrestling team and baseball and I am in great shape and I dont care what the guys think. Its what makes me feel good and comfortable. Screw what others say...
Nice, but to be fair, being involved in all of that, you are probably tough looking with a great body. Most would not mess with someone that can snap them in half.
MrIan
October 23rd, 2013, 08:33 AM
It's actually up to you. It doesn't matter. As long as you are comfortable with it.
Alex Wagner
October 23rd, 2013, 10:43 AM
you could always just wear briefs underneath the boxer shorts...
HSJock206
October 23rd, 2013, 10:49 PM
Actualy I'm not as big or tough looking as you might imagine. I am quite normal in size and build, just enjoy athletics and I do work at keeping in shape. I have had my share of remarks but for the most part I just let roll off my back. Whats good for me is not always good for the other and I keep my sense in that thought. Im not changing for peers or for fashion. I hope that makes it a little clearer that im not some big tough guy that will beat a guy down for his opinions. I haven't raised my fist to no one my whole life.
AdrianField
October 24th, 2013, 12:07 AM
I used to wear whitey tighties and dude no one made in fun of me but those judgey eyes... SO now I wear boxers I got used to it and no more eyes.
canadaboy44
October 25th, 2013, 08:26 PM
who cares...underwear is underwear
I don't wear them anymore, but I used to in gr7 and 8
maybe I stopped wearing them cause they are pretty revealing...like my penis would slide out all the time lol
Throwaway24
October 26th, 2013, 07:15 AM
It seems u have a attachment to the briefs that u didnt know about if i were u i would give them to someone to hide or lock them away and give someone the key. See how u feel in about a month and everything will be clear.
jsam69
October 29th, 2013, 12:16 AM
Boxer briefs are my fav
gambit16
October 29th, 2013, 11:48 AM
Practically boxer shorts can be even more revealing ... when I wear them you can nearly always see a bulge through my jeans ... briefs keep everything in place .. lol :cool:
Soldier212
October 29th, 2013, 08:18 PM
You know, normally I'm the one in support of what makes you most comfortable, and I would hate for you to do something as extreme as throw out the thing that makes you feel comfortable just because of peer pressure. However, I don't think it would be a bad thing in this case. I speak from experience when I say that you will get used to the lack of support that briefs used to offer. I can also tell you that you won't get made fun of if you're seen wearing boxers. For this generation, it's simply known as being cool/tough/"in". Don't ask me why. Someone's badass older brother did it back in 2003, then the younger brother did it because he idolizes his older brother and wants to look cool in front of his friends. It caught like wildfire, and there you have it. Fashion trends. Anyhow, I'd say that if you want to give boxers an extended trial, but can't quite stick to the regimen, then go ahead and throw your briefs out. Worst-case scenario, in a month you figure you still don't like boxers and you can ask your parent/guardian to buy you a fresh batch of briefs.
so true.
Tythebi
February 24th, 2014, 12:58 AM
Wear whatever you want. I wear briefs myself.
Hanson
February 24th, 2014, 01:30 AM
Wear what suits you dude. You don't have to follow the trend
:D agree
Hanson
February 24th, 2014, 01:54 AM
6 i wear boxers to create a better healthy growing condition for my reproductive organs. Only when doing sports , i wear briefs to prevent my balls from being twisted.that hurts. When swimming i wear tight bikini swimwear so that my dick won't get hard easily. http://m.dhgate.com/product/2013-new-arrival-desmiit-swim-briefs-for/161180546.html#pd-014:sport:
BJustinT
February 24th, 2014, 07:23 AM
I used to wear briefs as well but I changed to boxer briefs since I was in year 9. Just go with whatever is the most comfortable for you man
shark_attack
February 25th, 2014, 05:32 AM
wear whatever makes you feel comfortable
I agree
Elysium
February 25th, 2014, 06:36 AM
Wear whatever you want. I wear briefs myself.
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