Cygnus
April 12th, 2013, 09:06 PM
So, I had this particular crush for six months, and only like two weeks ago did I decide to take action. I told a good friend of hers to help me, she ended up telling her that I liked her. Her attitude towards me then changed in a positive way as she acts more sympathetic. The thing is, I only told three people that I liked her and now about twelve know, and some of those people are telling me to forget her because she will tell me to go to hell if I ask her. Others are telling me to talk more to her even though I talk quite often with her. Finally there are others that are telling me to ask her at once. I should never had told anyone in the first place, but it is too late. She knows that I like her and that I might take action so I am know suffering of cognitive dissonance. Any advice fellow members?