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Cygnus
April 12th, 2013, 09:06 PM
So, I had this particular crush for six months, and only like two weeks ago did I decide to take action. I told a good friend of hers to help me, she ended up telling her that I liked her. Her attitude towards me then changed in a positive way as she acts more sympathetic. The thing is, I only told three people that I liked her and now about twelve know, and some of those people are telling me to forget her because she will tell me to go to hell if I ask her. Others are telling me to talk more to her even though I talk quite often with her. Finally there are others that are telling me to ask her at once. I should never had told anyone in the first place, but it is too late. She knows that I like her and that I might take action so I am know suffering of cognitive dissonance. Any advice fellow members?

Haydenn3
April 12th, 2013, 09:12 PM
Look yeah its upto you and YOU only dont let others boss you around if i was you id be sure to really get to know her before making any sort of move and then talk to her and her on her own about what you feel but BE careful she could be a bitch and mess you around and making you a laughing stoke in front of her friends so just be careful and see what feels right for you

JoeHillsTSD
April 12th, 2013, 09:34 PM
The hardest part is over! She knows you like her. Ask her on a date, if she likes you she will go, if she doesn't like you she'll say no. And if she doesn't like you, then move on.