View Full Version : I think I'm about to come out.
InfinantSilence
April 12th, 2013, 03:55 PM
So i am currently talking to a friend. It is a girl. :) scared.
Haydenn3
April 12th, 2013, 03:58 PM
Tell us more about your background and why you want to tell her and how you feel?
Also good luck for when you do tell her
InfinantSilence
April 12th, 2013, 04:08 PM
Ok. So today lots of shit happened. And this girl i"m talking to is soo cool. Like she has problems like a normal person. So, I'm talking to her and i feel like i should tell her. She just told me some serious shit about herself. And i feel she won't tell.
Also this will be the first person ( besides here on vt) i come out to. I've thought about who would be the first person before. And i guess it'll be her.
Haydenn3
April 12th, 2013, 04:12 PM
Aslong as you can trust her and you know it may be spread around your school once you come out and except that go for it and Good Luck
OFD-Lt.Mark
April 12th, 2013, 04:13 PM
Well spit it out
InfinantSilence
April 12th, 2013, 04:16 PM
I just told her.
Haydenn3
April 12th, 2013, 04:16 PM
How did it go ?
InfinantSilence
April 12th, 2013, 04:17 PM
Not sure yet. I think she is still thinking it over.
Haydenn3
April 12th, 2013, 04:19 PM
Fingers crossed it goes well
InfinantSilence
April 12th, 2013, 05:20 PM
It went amazing! She doesn't care:) She is not going to tell anybody. And and now she is trying to get me to come out completly:/
Haydenn3
April 12th, 2013, 05:22 PM
It went amazing! She doesn't care:) She is not going to tell anybody. And and now she is trying to get me to come out completly:/
How do you feel about coming out completely
InfinantSilence
April 12th, 2013, 05:25 PM
Horrid
Haydenn3
April 12th, 2013, 05:29 PM
Horrid
Why are you 100% sure your gay or bi
InfinantSilence
April 12th, 2013, 05:31 PM
Why? Ive known for as long as i have been alive. I just recently came to terms with it though.
Haydenn3
April 12th, 2013, 05:34 PM
Yeah why dont you want to come out fully?
Troy35216
April 12th, 2013, 05:39 PM
Why? Ive known for as long as i have been alive. I just recently came to terms with it though.glad it went well with that girl. don't let anyone rush you into telling other people and don't let anyone hold you back from telling other people. be on your own schedule. good luck. you are already miles ahead of me.
norcaldude18
April 12th, 2013, 05:40 PM
Who is this girl and how do you know her?
InfinantSilence
April 12th, 2013, 06:00 PM
Who is this girl and how do you know her?
She is a really good friend. I have known her since the seventh grade. She will not betray me.
teen.jpg
April 12th, 2013, 10:19 PM
If you aren't ready to come out fully, dont let her pressure you. That is very important.
InfinantSilence
April 13th, 2013, 08:53 AM
Ok. So she stopped trying to get me to come out. And we started talking about guys.(Obviously) baha!
I know the information has been a little vague so I will go through the night completely.
I got home and my sister and I had a pretty bad fight (the reason is not important). So i came to my room and I text'd my friend. I was like "they can all go to hell" and she said "what happened?". So I explained everything.
She took everything in and asked me if I wanted to know a secrete. I told her yes. So she told me that she had tried to kill her self about a month ago. We talked about that for a while, and finally I asked her if she wanted to know a secrete of mine. She was like yes, so I told her. And she asked me what made me think that. So I typed up this three part deal about how I realized I was gay.
She took it very well. After all the trying to get me to come out. We started talking normally like nothing had ever happened.
All in all; Amazing Night:)
paulw
April 13th, 2013, 12:19 PM
Congrats for getting through the hardest bit and handling it really well!!
crepesuzette
April 13th, 2013, 01:08 PM
if you think that you are ready to tell anyone, then go ahead. remember, it's always better to wait until you know for sure, because a lot of teenagers are going through a lot of changes in their body.
Meh Guy
April 14th, 2013, 09:35 PM
Congrats, hope all goes well for you In The future
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