Looks like it's over.

[Hunter_Steel]

Well, it looks like my relationship with my girlfriend is over. :(

It seems she's all too happy ending the relationship, and even said that she no longer wants to talk to me, be friends or even still likes me as a human being with a smile.

I dunno if she's yanking my chain, but I wouldn't expect this from her. I mean, just a few days ago we were having a very lovely conversation and everything. Had many laughs, some good moments and overall being a good couple. But then that thing about the rumor started. Sorted it, had a good time together, then she didn't talk to me for two days, and comes back to me this afternoon saying what I just told you at the top...

I don't know what could've changed her, and I don't know what I did to make her feel like that. But its now eating at me, my whole being has basically been shot to pieces and I don't know what to do or think. I don't want to confront her with it because I don't want to have an argument and give her a real reason to hate me.

Is it time to move on? I don't know anymore. And I still love her and everything. But I don't want her to stay with me if it means that she will still hate me from underneath.

Please help.

~Hunter

[Haydenn3]

Firstly im sorry to hear about this mann have you tried to talk to her? Are you still with her or is it officially over? i would suggest just get ready to move on if you love her and she hates you its just not going to work is it:/? Maybe she heard more information about the rumor from a friend and its not the true information but she has taking it on bored and now she doesn't know who to believe maybe fight for her try to talk ask her why tell her you still love her and want to stick by her maybe the rumor has made her lose trust in you and you need to prove yourself to her again but dont worry if it doesnt work out everything happens for a reason maybe someone new will come to light help you get through and be the true one you love i dont know
Just be happy you had the laughs and times you had with her instead of being like me and not ahaaa

[Gandalf]

I think you need to try an initiate a mature, calm but open and honest conversation and find out what happened, it might be difficult because it seems like she's ignoring you to some extent.

Perhaps she just needs some space and that's ok, just give her a couple of days and then arrange to meet with her, be sincere.

I'd think about whether you want to continue in the relationship? And be empathetic towards her, remind her you still care about her and then decide what to do.

And I still love her and everything. But I don't want her to stay with me if it means that she will still hate me from underneath.

I'd also also ask yourself if the only reason you're remaining with her is because you don't want to hurt her feelings. -Not the nicest thought but if you're answer to that is no then tell her how you feel. Remind her that everything is ok, and that the arguements can be resolved.

It takes time to rebuild trust, you have do do what's right by you, whatever that is.

[OFD-Lt.Mark]

I say you should give her a week to sort herself out. Some sort of trauma could have happen and she mind is all jumbeled. Just let her sort her feelings and emotions out. Talk to her freind and ask her what she thinks.

Hope this helps

[Hunter_Steel]

I'll give her space.

But its most likely over.

~Hunter

[OFD-Lt.Mark]

I'll give her space.

But its most likely over.

~Hunter

Do you want it to be over? Because with that attiuitude it will be over. You need to go into this knowing exactly what you want to happen. and then work on making that happen.

[Haydenn3]

Yeah if you have a negative attitude to it all its likely to end up like that just prove to her you are worth it try hard to get why she wants to end it with you and work on the reason if you really do love her you wont give up this easy

[Hunter_Steel]

I don't giveup easily, thats the whole thing. If I giveup, its because I have tried so many times and got nowhere, thats the only time I giveup.

Right now, I'll give her space.

~Hunter

[Haydenn3]

I don't giveup easily, thats the whole thing. If I giveup, its because I have tried so many times and got nowhere, thats the only time I giveup.

Right now, I'll give her space.

~Hunter

Yeah thats a good idea to leave her for say a day or two but not to long ahaa and its great to see you wont give up

[Hunter_Steel]

Well, I'm speaking to her.

Hopefully this works.

~Hunter

[Hunter_Steel]

Update, we talked about it. And it seemed she was really stressed and upset. Also in her mind we drifted a small ways apart. So we talked about it, and shared some of our thoughts and feelings. Seems like we saved it lol

I hope I never have to face this problem again.

Thanks for all the help guys.

~Hunter

[Haydenn3]

WOOO Congrats bro :P