I'm so sad

[dandorn100]

Ok so my mom was diagnosed with cancer a few months ago an got a double mastectomy. She's really weak and its hard to see her like this. She's going to start chemo soon which also means she will lose her hair. To make it worse my dad doesn't help out as much as he should and doesn't show much compassion for my mom. He swears at me and calls me names and just the other day he wiped a shirt that had been peed on by my puppy in my face out of anger. My grandma pretty much lives with us now and she takes me to school in the morning and helps my mom. School is really hard. I'm in seventh grade but since I'm gifted I'm in a special program called Cambridge and we are learning at a tenth grade level. Every one at school calls me the emo kid because I have emotional problems and dyed my hair black. At school people make fun of me for being different. Now my parents want to move into my aunts old house and live there because its bigger. I hate moving. I feel isolated and alone. I think I have major depressive disorder because I get periods of several weeks where I feel crappy. I want to cry all the time. I've been hoping with all my heart that things will get better but they won't. I just want a best friend or someone i can talk to that's close but not family. Please give me any advice you can on how to get through this. Thank you

[Gwen]

I don't have the full story, but from my point of view your dad just seems angry out of what's happening to your mum. He doesn't seem to want to show weakness so instead of crying he takes out anger on you. Don't worry about crying it doesn't make you any less of a person we all have to cry sometimes :) . The kids at your school are pricks, 'nuff said. If you need a friend remember someone out there is feeling just like you and also wants a friend, all you need to do is find him/her. And remember we're here to help talk to one of us if you need to vent or want to discuss stuff. Hope all goes well.

[jayyy-lmao]

You're dad's angry, just like you are, at all this with your mam. It's really tough, we know that, and if you wanna talk, you can always message me. You're dad needs time to adjust. You're granny seems to be really helping you, and you should try talking to her. Grannys hate nothing more than their grankids feeling bad. You need to get it off your chest. Maybe see a counsellor in school, if that'll help. We have a program called Rainbows, in my school. They meet at lunch and they can discuss any problems in their past, their future, and anything they're going through. You should ask your most trusted teacher if there's any counselling or stuff like Rainbows available in your school. Good luck. :)

[Toogley Schmurp]

Ok so my mom was diagnosed with cancer a few months ago an got a double mastectomy. She's really weak and its hard to see her like this. She's going to start chemo soon which also means she will lose her hair. To make it worse my dad doesn't help out as much as he should and doesn't show much compassion for my mom. He swears at me and calls me names and just the other day he wiped a shirt that had been peed on by my puppy in my face out of anger. My grandma pretty much lives with us now and she takes me to school in the morning and helps my mom. School is really hard. I'm in seventh grade but since I'm gifted I'm in a special program called Cambridge and we are learning at a tenth grade level. Every one at school calls me the emo kid because I have emotional problems and dyed my hair black. At school people make fun of me for being different. Now my parents want to move into my aunts old house and live there because its bigger. I hate moving. I feel isolated and alone. I think I have major depressive disorder because I get periods of several weeks where I feel crappy. I want to cry all the time. I've been hoping with all my heart that things will get better but they won't. I just want a best friend or someone i can talk to that's close but not family. Please give me any advice you can on how to get through this. Thank you

My mother passed away from breast cancer four days before christmas in 2011, and on top of that i was picked on because she died , so I know a little of what you are going through. From what you are saying people at your school are jealous, ass licking, pussies that commit douchebaggery of the first degree. First thing you gotta do is talk to someone, you can text me if you have a cell phone ill send you a message with cell phone number in it if you wanna talk. Then deal with the crap suckers, by telling a teacher or faculty member such as principal, vice principal, or school councillor. They will take care of it, if it happens again tell the same faculty member and the people will be taken care of by legal force.
I'm a sophomore in high school right now and i feel kinda stupid trying to tell you how to deal with bullies. Because you are a 7th grader with a 10th grade(aka sophomore in high school) education, pardon my language but you are fucking brilliant! You really are.
Now there's just one more thing, YOU AREN'T DEPRESSED! You have a reason to be sad. Sadness is a normal human emotion, and as far as i know you are a human. Don't let those douchebags get you down, you are a truly awesome person. Stay happy and stay thirsty friend(just kidding don't drink that'll really mess you up).

[Toogley Schmurp]

Ok so my mom was diagnosed with cancer a few months ago an got a double mastectomy. She's really weak and its hard to see her like this. She's going to start chemo soon which also means she will lose her hair. To make it worse my dad doesn't help out as much as he should and doesn't show much compassion for my mom. He swears at me and calls me names and just the other day he wiped a shirt that had been peed on by my puppy in my face out of anger. My grandma pretty much lives with us now and she takes me to school in the morning and helps my mom. School is really hard. I'm in seventh grade but since I'm gifted I'm in a special program called Cambridge and we are learning at a tenth grade level. Every one at school calls me the emo kid because I have emotional problems and dyed my hair black. At school people make fun of me for being different. Now my parents want to move into my aunts old house and live there because its bigger. I hate moving. I feel isolated and alone. I think I have major depressive disorder because I get periods of several weeks where I feel crappy. I want to cry all the time. I've been hoping with all my heart that things will get better but they won't. I just want a best friend or someone i can talk to that's close but not family. Please give me any advice you can on how to get through this. Thank you

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