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asg666
April 11th, 2013, 06:30 AM
So I'm extremely sensitive but I don't show it .As a result I get insulted and I don't show it.
I then build up hate.people though, continue insulting me cuz they don't know I'm insulted and I have become sad.
What to do

Harry Smith
April 11th, 2013, 06:49 AM
Well firstly the golden rule is just to remember the insignificance of what people do and say. People will say stuff purely just for popularity, just tell them to fuck off if there being out of line by saying something really offensive. If it's just banter joke along with them because sometimes people are just joking with you. The key is to talk to people about it because if you keep it bottled up then it will just build up

ally18
April 12th, 2013, 09:23 AM
So I'm extremely sensitive but I don't show it .As a result I get insulted and I don't show it.
I then build up hate.people though, continue insulting me cuz they don't know I'm insulted and I have become sad.
What to do

Well, it's much better to just let it out from time to time, you know? There's no point in building it up, coz you'll snap someday, and that's not cool.
My humble advice; when u feel less than ok, just go somewhere private and let it out all the way.

Desuetude
April 12th, 2013, 11:13 AM
Oh wow, this I relate to. I do the exact same thing, not letting them know that the insults offend me and by showing them the facade of me not caring they carry on trying to offend me. People are honestly so pathetic. I haven't actually overcome this myself, it's still happening and it's still chipping away at me slowly. I do know that after a certain point of taking their shit and keeping it inside, you eventually just blow up. I've been dealing with people trying to wind me up for about a year now and all I can say is don't let yourself be swayed by their lies. Whatever they're saying about you or too you, know that you're better than that and you're not going to lower yourself to their standards.

You need to find a way to release the emotions that have built up inside you or they will end up being very overwhelming. Could you write down what you're feeling? Write notes to the people picking on you? You don't have to show these things to anyone, you could even burn or rip them up if you want but just getting it down on paper can sometimes feel like a great weight lifted off your shoulders. What's even better for you is telling someone but I understand how much of a step this is, you don't want to make a big deal out of it and that's almost certain to happen should an authority figure step in. Maybe tell your friends about it? They can help back you up and reassure you, well I'd hope that they would anyway.

All I can say is that you're young and people are still very immature throughout their teens. Know that as you get older this will change and they'll realise that what they're doing is wrong. You have to just hope that things will change and get better because if you don't then you're going to be swamped believing this is what you'll always have to endure and that's not the case.

jayyy-lmao
April 17th, 2013, 11:55 AM
So I'm extremely sensitive but I don't show it .As a result I get insulted and I don't show it.
I then build up hate.people though, continue insulting me cuz they don't know I'm insulted and I have become sad.
What to do

Look, the next time someone insults you, say "Look, I know I don't show it, but all these insults really bother me, so can you just stop, please?" or something like that. You need to make it clear to them that they're bothering you.

Toogley Schmurp
April 19th, 2013, 06:05 AM
I think the best thing to do is to just blow them off entirely, sure they'll do even harsher stuff just to get your attention, but they'll stop when they can't get anymore emotion out of you. Most bullies just have fucked up lives outside of school, while others just didn't get enough attention as a child, so they are getting it the only way they know how, which is bullying.

Faolan
April 21st, 2013, 10:26 AM
Well, it's much better to just let it out from time to time, you know? There's no point in building it up, coz you'll snap someday, and that's not cool.
My humble advice; when u feel less than ok, just go somewhere private and let it out all the way.

I have to do this as well. If you're like me you'll know that it's tough to tell people your feelings. Being in private really helps me to let off steam. It's important to let it out because those feelings of anger and hate once planted in your mind will be hard to uproot. Don't be afraid to tell people how you feel.