breaking up

[gipsy danger]

alright so I been with this girl named Brandy for a whole year. since spring break I been exiled from my home so I can't go back to London. how do I break it off with her. I do love her a lot. I just don't know how to do so. I know she will be heart broken because me and her were each others first time. I just need help.

[Origami]

There is no easy way to do it. If you feel it has to end, then end it. If you have to search for an "easy way" or you don't want to "hurt" the other, you probably shouldn't end it. You sound too split on this decision. Instead of looking for a how, I suggest first looking for a why. Once you know the why, the how should come easily.

[workingatperfect]

I'm not sure, but I think the reason is because she's in London and he's in Texas? So, I guess if she doesn't know, tell her you're not coming home, and you guys can discuss what to do, and if you're not comfortable with long distance, tell her you don't think you can handle. Don't give her any bogus lies or false hopes or anything, just be totally honest with her about the circumstances.

[gipsy danger]

I'm not sure, but I think the reason is because she's in London and he's in Texas? So, I guess if she doesn't know, tell her you're not coming home, and you guys can discuss what to do, and if you're not comfortable with long distance, tell her you don't think you can handle. Don't give her any bogus lies or false hopes or anything, just be totally honest with her about the circumstances.

well that's better then my original plan. faking my own death. but I talked to her about it. she just cried and cried. but I'm not comfortable being with someone I can't see.