Always happening to ME.

[AutumnDae]

Jeremy is a guy that i kinda like. I liked him in the past A LOT. But now not so much. So we are talking, and hes like "I like you so much. Let's hang out tomorrow" and I'm thinking "Okay? That was random" and hes been trying to convince me to have sex with him lately. But a) I don't want to lose my virginity to him. b) I am 13 years old. and c) I made a promise to my parents and my church that I would stay pure until marriage.


I just want to hit him. I'm telling him that I am uncomfortable with this whole thing. Sometimes it seems like he doesn't like me. He just thinks I'm easy or something. He has a girlfriend too. One of my friends. Not close friends, but friends none the less. He wanted me to hang out tomorrow "just as friends. we won't do anything. just as friends"


Wow. Funny thing how someone can bring you out from a great mood this morning to a really shitty one. :(

[Glasgow]

He is using you. Trust me, All he wants to do is sexual stuff with you. Im not 100% sure but in most cases where this happens thats why. So yeah my advice is just dont hang out with him. You're 13, and you have the right idea about sex. Dont get involved in it anytime soon. I dunno about the marriage thing but atleast not anytime soon.

[Lifesreject]

He has a girlfriend to
Man he needs to get his head in the right place. If i was you i wouldnt do anything with him. I would just keep away. I would say your to young to use your viginity as well. You can only lose it once so save it for that special person who really means the world to you and not just some adolesent boy who wants sex.

[Smegs]

yh he needs to sort himself out

[Smegs]

If i were u keep your distance

[Serenity]

Tell him you don't appreciate his attitude towards you and that since he obviously has no respect for you, it's best for you to not spend time together anymore. If I was you, I'd tell your friend that her bf and going around behind her back asking other girls for sex, but that's entirely your call- things like that can lead to absolutely deathly drama. But the one thing I know for sure, you're a great person for having enough respect for yourself to realize that you're too young for sex and for honoring that promise that you made- that jerk definitely does NOT deserve you.

[Gumleaf]

i agree with everyone but really want to emphasise the point that you should not hang around with him anymore. he is cleary after sexual stuff and to be used like that when he already has a gf would be terrible.

[Camazotz]

Dont trust him. It sounds like he's just trying to use you. Dont even hang around with him. If you see him, just walk away. It's very rude of him to try to pursuade you when you already feel uncomfortable. Just stay away from him.