When is it ok to masterbate?

[boobear98]

So I am 14 and have two older brothers (I am the baby) we all 3 still share a room together and it makes it really hard for me to masterbate. I have been doing it in the bathroom but staying in there so long seems to be a problem. I think I have heard my brothers both masterbating in our room while they think the other two of us are asleep but I am not sure. Is it ok for me to masterbate in my bed while they are asleep? Should I talk to them bout it? I am kind of scared to bring it up to them cause they pick on me for being a baby and too girly and stuff and not sure about talking about my penis with them. Any advice?

[CharlieHorse]

3 options:

Tell your bros flat out serious that you want some "man time".

Do it when they're not in the house.

Do it in the bathroom but be a little quicker.

[IAMWILL]

That's a pretty tough situation. Have you thought about doing it in the shower? Its not the best but it gets the job done, and doesn't seem suspicious. + no clean up.

Otherwise you should talk to them about it. They obviously have/had the same problem so maybe you guys can work something out.

[Inkhead2013]

That's tough, but do they have activities that keep them away from home? Sometimes when I'm home alone is when I go at it, because I don't have to worry about someone barging in. If you guys are close, you should talk about it. I have two sisters and they would never understand my male problems so your lucky to have two brothers :)

[CharlieHorse]

+ no clean up.


Semen + water = freaking gorilla-glue

[IAMWILL]

Semen + water = freaking gorilla-glue

Yea thats true it is the absolute stickiest substance known to mankind. I just wash it will a little soap after, but I don't do it in the shower much anymore, primarily for that reason lol.

[boobear98]

the shower works and I have done it there however when it's multiple times a day it gets suspicious to be taking that many showers...my brothers and I are kind of close but not really and there always seems to be one of them near by their schedules don't coincide and because my parents have 3 boys already there are usually friends of theirs at the house as well so it's almost always full being the youngest never really home alone much

[Inkhead2013]

Give them a reason to get out of your room like fresh pizza in the family room, then lock your door/do whatever before they come back

[JonasBe]

I'd say just talk to them about it, they probably have the same problem.
And maybe they will stop calling you a baby because you are 'becoming a man'.

[paulw]

Semen + water = freaking gorilla-glue

Soooo true, and beware cos if ur just trying to wash it down the plug hole often it can stick a little way down there and slowly clog the pipes!!

[johnsmith1]

In terms of them masturbating when thet think the others are asleep, that will be true. It is common for boys in that situation to do it in the hope or belief that they (in this case you) will either not be caught or challenged. If you feel the urge at the time, go for it. If you're challenged, either deny it, or tell them that you know they do it! Just have a tissue, or dirty underware to hand when you finish!

[Olliemithcrazy]

I would ask them if you want to do it all together

[brockfalcon]

it shouldn't take that long to do yourself..or wait till everyones asleep then go to the bathroom

[Unicornasaurus Rex]

Just tell them, i'm sure they'll understand, they more than likely do it themselves :)

[fast8]

i say talk to them about it or you can try to do it when they are sleeping or keep doing it in the bathroom

[justin 13]

I dont get the part...I am too girly? Dude, I share room with my bro too. If I wanna play with my dick or wank and He is there, I tell him to turn around or go out. I have my right to be in that room.

[FergusDunn]

So I am 14 and have two older brothers (I am the baby) we all 3 still share a room together and it makes it really hard for me to masterbate. I have been doing it in the bathroom but staying in there so long seems to be a problem. I think I have heard my brothers both masterbating in our room while they think the other two of us are asleep but I am not sure. Is it ok for me to masterbate in my bed while they are asleep? Should I talk to them bout it? I am kind of scared to bring it up to them cause they pick on me for being a baby and too girly and stuff and not sure about talking about my penis with them. Any advice?

Ok Thats a tough one - I have 3 older brothers and yes there is a lot of banter. I think you have to just ask them really - they have been through it a bit and I am sure will understand - yeah be prepared to joke back and stuff.

[OFD-Lt.Mark]

You can do it a bunch of ways.
1. Screw them ,do it in your bed (Them being awake or asleep)
2. Walk up and tell them to gtfo that you need some time alone.
3. Bathroom, just focus and uninterrupted rhythm.
4. School bathroom

[xmojox]

It's your room too. Either do it at night when they think they're being sneaky or just flat out say "hey I'm gonna jack off so if you don't want to see that you might wanna leave for awhile." They know what it's like.

[Pontiac67]

Believe me both your brothers masturbate, all guys do.. you have a choice, do as they do wait till everyone is sleeping or think they are. Or if you hear either one of them masturbating, you do the same.. What are they going to say since they where masturbating too..

[boobear98]

thank you all for your advice it truly did help

[megatime]

Ive heard my brother masterbate while we are in bed an hes heard me loads i woz sure. So one time we chatted about it and now we are cool with doin it in front of each other.

[dufus]

I'd say just talk to them about it, they probably have the same problem.
And maybe they will stop calling you a baby because you are 'becoming a man'.

i agree...you should be able to do it anytime, anywhere you want and r comfortable with. Talk to them and wrk it out!:cool:

[Matt723]

If you gonna masturbate in the shower, turn the water on and sit out of the shower in the actual bathroom. Works every time. And just try to masturbate when their out of the house.

[Meh Guy]

They're your brothers so they would probably not care except talking about it might be awkward. If you have a basement or somewhere you can hear people coming, do it there.

[Piccolos]

Try to start a conversation about the fact that youre in your puberty an that you think theyre too... And that you want to talk about it.

[brodyk15]

I say just use the bathroom.

[Jamesison]

Talk to them about it tell them you need some time alone or try doing it in the shower..

[PinkFloyd]

If they think you're too girly, telling them that you need fap time wil eliminate that. I think you should just tell them flat out.

[countryboi9]

sure go for it, masturbate in bed, if they do it why cant u