The girl I like has low self esteem and is depressed

[Cicero]

So I find this girl attractive, but she has depression and low self esteem. I would like to ask her out, but I think she'd say no. If a guy asked you out, and you had low self confidence and depression. Would that make you feel good about yourself? Would you date someone if you felt like that? I'm scared of rejection basically, she's like, 20x prettier/more beautiful than I am handsome.

Although she seems like she's a lot like me already (I barely know her), she doesn't have high confidence, she's shy, but she's nice and quiet.

[Helena]

So I find this girl attractive, but she has depression and low self esteem. I would like to ask her out, but I think she'd say no. If a guy asked you out, and you had low self confidence and depression. Would that make you feel good about yourself? Would you date someone if you felt like that? I'm scared of rejection basically, she's like, 20x prettier/more beautiful than I am handsome.

Although she seems like she's a lot like me already (I barely know her), she doesn't have high confidence, she's shy, but she's nice and quiet.

Don't just ask her out without knowing her, I'd think that'd be weird to anyone. Talk to her. Find silly excuses to meet up with her or to do stuff with her. Go out of your way to be nice to her. Say hi to her when you pass her on your way to class. Do all the classic guys stuff.

[Cicero]

Don't just ask her out without knowing her, I'd think that'd be weird to anyone. Talk to her. Find silly excuses to meet up with her or to do stuff with her. Go out of your way to be nice to her. Say hi to her when you pass her on your way to class. Do all the classic guys stuff.

Well I know that lol

Our teacher actually said "hey you guys should go out for coffee" and so yeah. Apparently I'm going to coffee? Maybe?

[Helena]

Well I know that lol

Our teacher actually said "hey you guys should go out for coffee" and so yeah. Apparently I'm going to coffee? Maybe?

Yeah, but she might say no if she's really shy so you gotta warm up to her.

You gotta watch some chick flicks...

Get to know some of the stuff she likes. (Ex: If she likes Shakespeare, you better have read Hamlet. )

[gipsy danger]

when I first line for when I meet a girl is "soo do you know how much a polar bear weighs? enough to break the ice. hi my name is Franky what is yours"

[Rayquaza]

In the best interest of you, after reading many of your posts, I think it's best for you if you do not ask her out...yet. You seem like you're still finding yourself out, and you have the rest of your life to meet people, this is such a young age. Be happy to stay single and make friends with her, maybe in the future you can ask her out, but as you seem to be confused at the moment, questioning your sexuality a lot, it's better if you give it some time before rushing into something you might regret or get your hopes up for.