Log in

View Full Version : Got an Issue.


Hunter_Steel
April 9th, 2013, 03:01 PM
Okay, I got an issue.

My girlfriend is pretty mad at me because she thinks I spread a rumor about her recently. I haven't spread any rumors about anyone because that is not who I am. And especially if its my girlfriend, I'd hate myself for doing that.

But I believe someone else wants me out of the picture so he can move in on her. I know who the person is, she told me who it is and showed me what he told her. I haven't had this person on my facebook since I blocked his sorry ass for trying to split me and her apart. But now she believes that I have been speaking to him and telling him to block and delete her.

This is not who I am. I won't ever do such a thing, not even if I hate the person but its time I kicked a little ass. But the only issue is, how am I going to prove my innocence if she doesn't even want to listen to me. I don't want to lose her, I know some of you might say that its better if I let her go. But I really don't want to lose her.

Please help.

~Hunter

Harley
April 9th, 2013, 03:04 PM
You need to honestly tell her, sincerely, that it wasn't you. If she doesn't believe you... then where's the trust? You're meant to trust each other man.

Good luck, hope it works out.

xmojox
April 9th, 2013, 03:24 PM
Is there any reason that she wouldn't believe you when you tell her you didn't do what this guy says you did? If she won't even trust that you're telling her the truth, whippin his ass ain't gonna help your cause, it'll seem to her as proof that you did what the other guy claims you did. Talk with her. Tell her the truth again and ask why she won't believe you. Violence is seldom the solution.

Hunter_Steel
April 9th, 2013, 04:50 PM
I'll kick his ass the day I see him. He lives in the UK and so does she.

I had a little chat with her, and we sorted it for now, but I believe this is far from over. If he still wants to make a move in on her, then he'll try again. I'll just need to be prepared for the next time he tries.

Trust is a hard thing when its online. Easily broken, not easily regained. If I were with her in real life, I would've showed her that she could trust me. But its fairly hard when your long distance.

I still think its worth it to keep her. If she is my soul mate, then I should fight for her for as long as I draw breath. But anyways, thanks for the help, guys.

~Hunter

Helena
April 9th, 2013, 04:56 PM
Okay, I got an issue.

My girlfriend is pretty mad at me because she thinks I spread a rumor about her recently. I haven't spread any rumors about anyone because that is not who I am. And especially if its my girlfriend, I'd hate myself for doing that.

But I believe someone else wants me out of the picture so he can move in on her. I know who the person is, she told me who it is and showed me what he told her. I haven't had this person on my facebook since I blocked his sorry ass for trying to split me and her apart. But now she believes that I have been speaking to him and telling him to block and delete her.

This is not who I am. I won't ever do such a thing, not even if I hate the person but its time I kicked a little ass. But the only issue is, how am I going to prove my innocence if she doesn't even want to listen to me. I don't want to lose her, I know some of you might say that its better if I let her go. But I really don't want to lose her.

Please help.

~Hunter

Relationships are built on trust. If she does not trust you, then there's a bit of a problem in your relationship.

Just forget him. Don't let him come between you and her. Show her the great guy you are. Don't talk to him and just don't acknowledge him. If she wants to talk about him then do so. Tell the truth. Don't attack him or call him a liar even if it's true.