gormball2
April 8th, 2013, 11:00 PM
I am having a dilemma lately....I work at this social services club for almost 2 years now, and over time have picked up a few platonic friends from people around my age....all this while it is okay.
Just recently a friend of mine decided to study overseas so she introduced her sister to work at the same place, as a sort of "substitute" for her. Ever since I started talking to her sister, I can't help it but start developing feelings for her, even though we only see each other once a week, tops.
I would like to go after her, but she is fairly extrovert, whereas I, am an introvert. But I am really scared, having been scarred before by previous relationships and also I am afraid my friend will be angry at me for going after her sister. Not to mention I will be a laughing stock amongst the other colleagues of mine working in that same place (cos' I am an introvert, and it would seem funny?)
Yet I also don't think I should just let go of this chance, but I am scared of making all the wrong moves and all. Also I feel I may be too old for her?? I am 20, she is 17.
Please help me I need lots of advice from alot of people. Thanks.
Just recently a friend of mine decided to study overseas so she introduced her sister to work at the same place, as a sort of "substitute" for her. Ever since I started talking to her sister, I can't help it but start developing feelings for her, even though we only see each other once a week, tops.
I would like to go after her, but she is fairly extrovert, whereas I, am an introvert. But I am really scared, having been scarred before by previous relationships and also I am afraid my friend will be angry at me for going after her sister. Not to mention I will be a laughing stock amongst the other colleagues of mine working in that same place (cos' I am an introvert, and it would seem funny?)
Yet I also don't think I should just let go of this chance, but I am scared of making all the wrong moves and all. Also I feel I may be too old for her?? I am 20, she is 17.
Please help me I need lots of advice from alot of people. Thanks.