Girls please help me

[phoenixboy]

Ok so a girl in my class is smoken hot in my opinion well she has a youtube with videos of her danceing(fun danceing not inappropriately) but shes whereing short shorts so you can see allot of her body i sent one of my best friends the video to ask him what he thought of her body and insted he told her (just to mess with me but he agreed) i thought she had a nice body, and she told me im a pervert what do you think.


Here is the video this is not inappropriate for those under 18

<Link Removed>~DerBear

[Sasha M]

You aprouched her about it WAY TO FAST. Take it slow.

[Taryn98]

The fact that you posted a link to a video of her dancing I find to be really creepy.

[brendacat]

i Don't Think It Was Nice Of Your Friend

[brendacat]

Best Thing To Do Is Just Forget About It

[Lonely teen]

i Don't Think It Was Nice Of Your Friend

I agree

[niren]

The fact that you posted a link to a video of her dancing I find to be really creepy.

It is a Youtube video. Also the video is a year old.

[Nolf]

he didn't post it she did. I think that its the friends fault but you should apologize to her

[CharlieHorse]

he didn't post it she did. I think that its the friends fault but you should apologize to her

Agreed an honest apology is best.

But I mean from the logical point of view, she put the videos online of herself dancing, so why should she be surprised if people who know her find them?

[SamanthaMaciel]

ya she doesnt like u tbh....

[Rima]

I think you should look for other options .

[PaintedWishes]

Lol, another one of those girls who post suggestive videos/pictures of themselves then when a guy responds they're like "ew you creep!"

Attention-seeking who-- chicks they are :P

[phoenixboy]

Thx she posted the video on youtube not me i did say sorry

[BebeFleur.]

Just curious: Did she know it was you that posted? I mean, if you were just a nameless person on the internet saying she has a nice body, I can understand where she is coming from. There can be some weird people out there...

[SammyG17]

hmm. It sounds like your friend was just trying to stir up trouble. It might be a "male" thing to do, but was still a pretty underhanded, cockblockish thing to do. (sorry mods) As for the girl, I'd find it a little disturbing if a boy liked me, and instead used his friend and my youtube video to compliment me, instead of him just coming right out and saying it. I'd much rather see the guy face to face for something like this than hear about it second hand. Mainly because, who knows what the friend would say/do.

Why don't you actually go up to her, and say something along the lines of "Hey, look, I'm sorry about what happened before. I'm not sure what *name of friend* told you, but I really do think you are *description.* I've admired you for *length of time* and even though my chances might be blown, heres my number, in case you ever need someone who admires you to talk, help with homework, hangout or whatever"

It might sounds kinda cliche, but its a start. And shows her you have enough confidence and sense to talk to he like a regular person, instead of trying to hide behind the internet.

[phoenixboy]

Just curious: Did she know it was you that posted? I mean, if you were just a nameless person on the internet saying she has a nice body, I can understand where she is coming from. There can be some weird people out there...

It is her video she posted it not me it was her choice to post it

[BebeFleur.]

I understand that. But did she know it was you that posted that comment?

[Anna G]

Commenting about a girls body before you know each other makes it appear you are only interested in her for sex. Take it as a lesson for next time. No positive relationship can start without mutual respect for each other.

[Lemieux]

ya she doesnt like u tbh....

Lol. Saying it now it is!

[DerBear]

This isn't appropriate and its not puberty related :locked:

Never link anyone's youtube to a site without at least them having knowledge of you doing so. Especially because of what you're asking.