I hate dates and I have two this week, Help!

[kye.]

Well the only reason I hate dates is because I'm such a BORING person. I don't know how to start convos and I'm pretty shy :( I have two dates this week with two friends that I haven't seen in 11 years. It's not really a date, but still. It's going to be so awkward and I'm petrified beyond belief. Yes I do have problems with anxiety, but I'm not currently on meds. help :'( :'( I can't cancel them because one is disabled and can't walk which just hurts me more because they've been waiting for me to hang out and I'm over here being a freaking cry baby. :'(

[TerryBerry622]

just hang out with them
its not like your dating them or playing them
your seeing them as friends. just go and chill with them
have fun. don't feel ashamed or what not. its been 11 years so they want to catch up
don't let them down. although if you do choose to do so make sure you let them off easy and explain to them why. don't be rude or make them think you don't care about them

[Gandalf]

Just be as relaxed and casual as possible (get there on time/not rushing to avoid being late means you can start on a good foot, try and participate in the conversation and take the other person's thoughts into account.

Friendliness, and eye contact and you will probably enjoy it.

You're not a "cry baby", others have issues similar to this, and by going you'll actually be helping yourself overcome any axiety you have about social situations because it's good practice anyway.

I've learnt that it's important to rationalise fear, what's the worse that could happen? A little embarrassement if you make a small mistake, which would soon be forgotten anyway, you'll most likely be fine :)