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Rapp
April 7th, 2013, 07:42 PM
so basically about 2 months ago my ex gf brokeup with me for like no reason... long story... then a month later she has a new bf (still does now) and last night at a party we were both drunk-ish/tipsy and our mutual friends said she wanted to hookup with me again and stuff...i didnt in the end but do you guys think that it would have been good or bad if we would have?
xXl0sth0peXx
April 7th, 2013, 07:47 PM
This isn't really puberty related.
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Gandalf
April 7th, 2013, 07:53 PM
I think you should talk to her while you're sober and actually share your honest opinions (in a civil matter) and only then can you proceed or not.
I think you should ask yourself whether if you want to go back with her or not and then make it clear to her.
PandaLeah
April 7th, 2013, 08:07 PM
It matters how you two are dealing with it, if it was just "Sex" or would it open old wounds to new emotions..
Always safe to say no.
anyone50
April 8th, 2013, 01:18 AM
you proably made the right call by not getting involved if for no other reason you said she still seeing this other guy.
DerBear
April 8th, 2013, 07:50 AM
If she broke up with you then chances are what happened at the party was the alcohol talking and not really a show of any kind of stable emotion. You made the right move in not hooking back up because it would probably have not worked in your favor the next day when you two recover.
MaguireUk
April 9th, 2013, 12:40 PM
My best advice move on, find someone else but if shes with someone its a no go area, lads code, just think put yourself in her new boyfriends shoes if something did happen you wouldnt be happy, her loss move on
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