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WaffleSingSong
April 7th, 2013, 03:54 AM
If you want to get to the point of things, you may skip the long and unneeded story.

Well, about a month ago, I broke up with my girlfriend and the 4 years we had together after I caught her with another guy having sex when I was with my cousin. Which, I actually think is a really funny experience more than a upsetting one. The guy left his clothes and with only his underwear jolted at the window and high-tailed it out of the house. And, my cousin (who is also a girl) beat the living crap out of my ex, which I had to break up. Anyways, I really like the fact that we are not together because her parents are getting really religious and is trying to pressure her to do the same and go to the church. And me being a hardcore non-religious dude there would be too much tension between ether her parents or herself If she changed.

ANYWAYS.....

Ever since we broke up, I have been on CRUSH HEAVEN with about half of my girls in my school during March. I am naturally already a shy guy and the only reason why I got my ex in the first place is because she moved on me. However, I really like this one girl because I think that we are really compatible (it seems.) We seem to like the same music, we have the same personality and I think we have the same basic outlook on things. Also, she is very pretty. However, there is one problem...

...she goes to a different school.

We knew each other in elementary, and we were good friends. And she is friends with my friends in high school and they apparently meet often. However, I hardly have a public life outside of school that is not with family. I do not know how to get more of a public life let alone meet with this girl. We talked for a little bit on Facebook, and we really liked each other. I would love to talk to her again, but I seriously do not know how 0_0.

Any Advice?

Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 04:03 AM
Well hmm I would say get to know her as much as you can then arrange for a date if you can and if you think she cares for you ask her out

WaffleSingSong
April 7th, 2013, 02:03 PM
Well hmm I would say get to know her as much as you can then arrange for a date if you can and if you think she cares for you ask her out

But that's my point, how can I talk to her without making it awkward?

Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 03:13 PM
You can't really... Just find a interesting topic about today's world to talk about

JoeHillsTSD
April 7th, 2013, 03:21 PM
Just ask her to hang out. No need need a date so early (unless she's down for a date right now). Ask her to hang out at a local park, see if she wants to see a basketball game at your school with you (or whatever sport you have at your school). Find something that you guys could do weekly (or even daily) where you can hang out after school and just get to know each other better.

Msg her on Facebook and ask her if she wants to chill at [blank], and then if you and her both enjoyed it, ask her to do it again the next day (or next week, whichever you're most comfortable with).