How to tell if I'm bi/lesbian? Don't know what to do

[hannah1998]

Just signed up here because I need some advise and dont know who to talk too. A few months ago me n one of my friends did some stuff during a sleepover and again a few times since and I really enjoyed it and want to do it more. Ive started having sexual feelings towards some of my other friends too.

Other than that I find myself thinking about boys less and when i watch porn i now only look at girl on girl and dont get excited if there is a man in it.

Is this normal? does this mean im bi/lesbian now? will it go away?

Please help.

[Gandalf]

Ok, I'm a guy, but the information still applies.

Being lesbian would mean a physical (sexual) and romantic attraction towards women only, bi would be the same, but towards both genders.

It could be hormones, so enjoy what's healthy/fun for you and remember that sexuality isn't always a definate given, try not to label yourself. :)

[peaceNlove]

Well, like Gandolf said, uts a sexual and emotional attraction. You could be lesbian or bi, if so it probably won't change, but accept it if that is what is happening. It could also be hormones, so if that's the case it may go away. If it doesn't, don't think of it as a bad thing.

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Does it really matter? Just be you, and you'll be fine.