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Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 03:59 PM
Hello guys i have been having a problem with my mom, she knows i masturbate because she made me tell her a while ago but the point is i masturbate quiet allot and my mom is always nagging on me to stop masturbating so often telling me its going to like affect me in the future and when i do it I'm in the bathroom 95% of the time and she just strongly tells me to get out. What can i do to get my mom off my back. Thanks guys
Haydenn3
April 6th, 2013, 04:03 PM
Well its your body and you should decide what to do with it and NO jacking off does not hurt you or your body in anyway why not try to do it in your bedroom or something and more privately
Haydenn3
April 6th, 2013, 04:04 PM
Forgot to add i find it very weird that your mum forced you to tell her but thats just me haa
RAGE DJ
April 6th, 2013, 04:08 PM
Do it in your room just lock the door, if your in the bathroom for a long time is kinda obvious what your doing.
Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 04:12 PM
True oh and i did try to do it in my room and locking the door.... she just yelled at me to open it
Jason98
April 6th, 2013, 04:18 PM
Do it at night when your in bed and she's asleep
Volleyballboy98
April 6th, 2013, 04:23 PM
It's actually good for you!! And it's your body not hers
Coolguy10890
April 6th, 2013, 04:58 PM
Why the fu** did she wanna know that its none of her fu**ing buisness. I'm sorry, thats the most biggest thing I've heard from an Adult that pisses me off.
Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 05:02 PM
I know right
xmojox
April 6th, 2013, 05:26 PM
Usually I guess this happens the other way around, but get your mom a book so she can educate herself. She needs it.
Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 05:41 PM
You guys lol oh and to the mbating at night I already do it once before I sleep to calm myself down but I usually masturbate like 4 or less a day
Byzantium
April 6th, 2013, 10:12 PM
Does your mom listen to hear when your masturbating or something??? :/
She should respect your privacy a little more, and you should tell her that
Also, just do it when shes gone, asleep, or maybe when you just wake up in the morning
Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 10:25 PM
No she doesn't listen to me plus if someone tried to listen they would hear nothing im very quiet
Evancosta
April 6th, 2013, 10:41 PM
Okay, bud. You're gonna have to keep details like that to yourself. Stop doing it in the bathroom and do it before you go to bed. If she talks to you about it just brush it off. It's your business.
Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 10:46 PM
Okay, bud. You're gonna have to keep details like that to yourself. Stop doing it in the bathroom and do it before you go to bed. If she talks to you about it just brush it off. It's your business.
Hey i appreciate your concern but i said those because i wanted better advice oh and if you think i gave allot of personal info look around the site
dufus
April 6th, 2013, 10:51 PM
Okay, bud. You're gonna have to keep details like that to yourself. Stop doing it in the bathroom and do it before you go to bed. If she talks to you about it just brush it off. It's your business.
Right on!!!!! Do it at night in your bed, and find other places to do it outside of the house. I Jo in school all the time. It's not bad for U...it's fun!
Eupher
April 6th, 2013, 10:53 PM
Like other people have said just do it at night or while your showering.
Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 11:01 PM
Im worried to do it in school cause i 95% of the time use porn to mbate...
Evancosta
April 6th, 2013, 11:17 PM
Hey i appreciate your concern but i said those because i wanted better advice oh and if you think i gave allot of personal info look around the site
I would never post something without good intentions. And that advice is as real as it get's. I meant that you need to keep details like that from your MOM, not this website. You don't have to be mean.
Byzantium
April 6th, 2013, 11:58 PM
Right on!!!!! Do it at night in your bed, and find other places to do it outside of the house. I Jo in school all the time. It's not bad for U...it's fun!
You J/O in school? How?
Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 12:45 AM
I would never post something without good intentions. And that advice is as real as it get's. I meant that you need to keep details like that from your MOM, not this website. You don't have to be mean.
Oh I see sorry I thought u were saying that I shouldn't post things like this on this site
Evancosta
April 7th, 2013, 01:20 AM
Oh I see sorry I thought u were saying that I shouldn't post things like this on this site
youre good man
Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 01:22 AM
... Um ok lol
denisss
April 7th, 2013, 09:19 AM
It's your mother but there are certain boundaries she should not cross. This is one of them. Masturbating or not it is your decision and not hers. BTW her talking to you about masturbating this way is WAY weird imho.
I'd simply massively ignore her or tell her harshly that it is your business and she shouldn't try to pry into your privacy!
Man, no offense but it's disgusting, she's behaving like a hillbilly.
dufus
April 7th, 2013, 09:30 AM
You J/O in school? How? in class, in the bathroom, locker room, other places as well. just have to do it in ways that no one else notices. its not hard.:cool:
xmojox
April 7th, 2013, 10:44 AM
You guys lol oh and to the mbating at night I already do it once before I sleep to calm myself down but I usually masturbate like 4 or less a day
I was serious about educating your mom. She was never a boy so she really doesn't know anything more than what someone told her, and she was obviously told wrong. Is it an option to have your dad get her off your back?
Print this short article ( http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/pages/Masturbation.aspx?nfstatus=401&nftoken=00000000-0000-0000-0000-000000000000&nfstatusdescription=ERROR%3a+No+local+token) and leave it laying around. It's from a well-respected doctor's organization.
Jamesison
April 7th, 2013, 02:07 PM
Iam sorry that is strange it is your body.. I woudl tell her to leave you alone its good for you to do it any way...
Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 03:16 PM
I was serious about educating your mom. She was never a boy so she really doesn't know anything more than what someone told her, and she was obviously told wrong. Is it an option to have your dad get her off your back?
Print this short article ( http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/pages/Masturbation.aspx?nfstatus=401&nftoken=00000000-0000-0000-0000-000000000000&nfstatusdescription=ERROR%3a+No+local+token) and leave it laying around. It's from a well-respected doctor's organization.
One problem lol they are divorced and my dad doesn't know of my uh personal life
Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 03:17 PM
It's your mother but there are certain boundaries she should not cross. This is one of them. Masturbating or not it is your decision and not hers. BTW her talking to you about masturbating this way is WAY weird imho.
I'd simply massively ignore her or tell her harshly that it is your business and she shouldn't try to pry into your privacy!
Man, no offense but it's disgusting, she's behaving like a hillbilly.
Lol she's not a hillbilly she's a very smart woman but I guess it could relate lol
Stronk Serb
April 7th, 2013, 04:22 PM
in class, in the bathroom, locker room, other places as well. just have to do it in ways that no one else notices. its not hard.:cool:
Did it once in class, almost got spotted.
Back on topic, tell your mom that it is your body, your junk, your genetic material which gets spent and restored every time you wank. Print that article denisss suggested and put it down somewhere where she can find it. She is, as you say, an educated woman, so she will probably see reason in that article.
xmojox
April 7th, 2013, 04:51 PM
One problem lol they are divorced and my dad doesn't know of my uh personal life
That means you've gotta do it. I hope that article helps. If she reads it, it should clear up her misinformation. Good luck man.
ECSTASY
April 7th, 2013, 05:14 PM
i got caught 1 time :p but after a dlfew hours , she just acted like nothing happened. well whats wrong about masturbation ? make her understand that it doesnt have bad effects on you ;)
eggs2006
April 7th, 2013, 05:20 PM
Okay, bud. You're gonna have to keep details like that to yourself. Stop doing it in the bathroom and do it before you go to bed. If she talks to you about it just brush it off. It's your business.
Do you mean he never should have told her that he does it?
Evancosta
April 7th, 2013, 07:23 PM
Well, he did tell her and there's no changing that. He just needs to find ways to not let her find out. It's his personal life and he's entitled to it.
Ashleigh
April 7th, 2013, 08:03 PM
Hey there... Ask her if she would rather you have sex and potentially wind up with a baby or stick with the way things are.... I am almost positive she would rather things remain how they are. At the end of the day she should accept you for who you are and I think you need to talk to her and explain how you feel about how she is treating you. I know it is embarassing trust me I do but communication is important in families.
Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 08:05 PM
Hey there... Ask her if she would rather you have sex and potentially wind up with a baby or stick with the way things are.... I am almost positive she would rather things remain how they are. At the end of the day she should accept you for who you are and I think you need to talk to her and explain how you feel about how she is treating you. I know it is embarassing trust me I do but communication is important in families.
That's a nice idea but ill look like and idiot if I talk to her again after we agreed not to
Ashleigh
April 7th, 2013, 08:10 PM
OK, so if you both agreed not to discuss it why is she still being awkward about it and telling you what to do? Because she is making it open for discussion by telling you not to when you had both already agreed the subject was off limits, if that made any sense at all.
Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 08:15 PM
OK, so if you both agreed not to discuss it why is she still being awkward about it and telling you what to do? Because she is making it open for discussion by telling you not to when you had both already agreed the subject was off limits, if that made any sense at all.
Lol true
Lonely teen
April 7th, 2013, 08:17 PM
No wait oops the part about not talking about it again I thought it was another thread sorry for the confusion
Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 09:33 AM
1. Your mom's wrong
2. Don't tell her! Eww, when I grow up I don't want to know my kids do that! Ick!
Don't want your kids to do what?
natedash1
April 21st, 2013, 04:50 AM
Well, don't make it obvious. Do it when she's gone, asleep, or when you're bathing.
Nio369
April 21st, 2013, 09:59 AM
Soooo,how often do you masturbate until your mom start to nags you?
Lonely teen
April 23rd, 2013, 12:14 AM
Any time she just doesn't like me doing it
Jasperf
April 23rd, 2013, 01:04 AM
Hello guys i have been having a problem with my mom, she knows i masturbate because she made me tell her a while ago but the point is i masturbate quiet allot and my mom is always nagging on me to stop masturbating so often telling me its going to like affect me in the future and when i do it I'm in the bathroom 95% of the time and she just strongly tells me to get out. What can i do to get my mom off my back. Thanks guys
tbh no offence but your mum is fucked up :O hasnt she heard of privacy! masterbation is totally normal and 95% of males over 12 do it!
why dont you just do it in your bed? at night when your meant to be sleeping?
highway814boy98
April 23rd, 2013, 05:06 AM
i agree jack it in school or in the woods in ur room garage something it doesnt hurt anyone it relieves my stress! fuk wat ur mom thinks
Nio369
April 23rd, 2013, 01:23 PM
Any time she just doesn't like me doing it
Do you mean almost EVERYDAY???
Oh yeah, I read an article on the internet about a teenager(male) who dies of addiction of masturbating.....Weird...
Lonely teen
April 23rd, 2013, 11:55 PM
Do you mean almost EVERYDAY???
Oh yeah, I read an article on the internet about a teenager(male) who dies of addiction of masturbating.....Weird...
Yes and now she is trying to prevent me of doing it at night I have no idea how she guesses that I am I take every step to ensure that I am not noticed. I have absolutely no privacy :mad:
Leftyxx69xx
April 24th, 2013, 12:05 AM
Do it while you are in the shower?
Lonely teen
April 24th, 2013, 12:10 AM
I'll give it a go
Leftyxx69xx
April 24th, 2013, 12:13 AM
Also, no need to clean up afterwards if u do it in the showers lol
teen.jpg
April 24th, 2013, 12:36 AM
You dont have to tell her those kinds of things.
jak926
April 29th, 2013, 09:48 PM
It will have no future effect. Sometimes it can actually be good.
Michael Anthony
April 30th, 2013, 08:01 PM
masturbate when you go to bed at night. she'll never know.
likemike
May 1st, 2013, 10:36 PM
The shower. Do it in the shower
GigglyAbby
May 31st, 2013, 09:51 PM
Tuff call -- if she asks you or nags you on it -- tell her that it's your NONE of her business -- if she nags more it's your choice -- it's healthy and if she has an issue on it -- have her discuss it with your doctor. Agree that try to later in the day when she won't barge in or scream.
SniperKing
May 31st, 2013, 11:56 PM
Switch it up a bit. do it in bed late at night so she doesnt know you still do it or something
willrob
June 8th, 2013, 10:57 PM
my mom has caught me a lot! she never tells me i should not masturbate though
riverboy
June 9th, 2013, 12:43 AM
J/O in the morning before getting ready.
silentscreamer
June 27th, 2013, 05:03 AM
Your mom is right, you'l face prob in future if you masturbate with this rate. It would cause to damage your penis tissues and erection would be difficult for you after 5-10 years.
Jasperf
June 27th, 2013, 05:11 AM
Hello guys i have been having a problem with my mom, she knows i masturbate because she made me tell her a while ago but the point is i masturbate quiet allot and my mom is always nagging on me to stop masturbating so often telling me its going to like affect me in the future and when i do it I'm in the bathroom 95% of the time and she just strongly tells me to get out. What can i do to get my mom off my back. Thanks guys
What is wrong with doing it in your bed?!?!
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