Sex with someone new

[Lucyluulee.x]

Hey there,
This is my first post and i think i've put it in the right place...
Well basically i lost my virginity to my ex-boyfriend of 2 years and we broke up and now ive got a new boyfriend and im really nervous about having sex with him...

So what are your thoughts on having sex with someone new?
Was it different, were you scared?

[Clum]

This could be different because im a guy and i dont think we tend to care that much, i too, lost my virginity to a girlfriend and when we break up i didn't get into anything serious for a good 6 months after. Then i had sex with this new girl and admittedly i was a bit nervous about it but in the end it turned out to be better! Haha, don't worry about it its usually fine and could even be a better experience for you

[Taryn98]

I think it's fun and exciting

[sophiaLockhart]

sex is something that should feel right when it happens, so my only advice i can give to you, is if it feels right then go for it, if it doesn't wait till it does :)

[Jamesison]

I think it is cool its something New

[Harry Smith]

It's understandable to be nervous, but if your still concerned sit you boyfriend down and just ask him to be patient with you. It's certain that it will be different from your last boyfriend but often different is better. I'm sure it will be fine

[Kevin Bacon]

If you really care about him, and he really cares about you, and you both are comfortable with it, go for it! If you aren't ready, tell him, and if he really cares about you, he'll understand.

[Olliemithcrazy]

If you are happy together and comfortable go and try it

[TinyDancer]

I'm looking forward to it with the right guy. No rush.

[Bungelz]

Just relax and if you really love him and want to show him then have sex with him and I'm sure if he doesn't rush you into having sex he is the right guy for you :)

[GigglyAbby]

It's understandable to be nervous, but if your still concerned sit you boyfriend down and just ask him to be patient with you. It's certain that it will be different from your last boyfriend but often different is better. I'm sure it will be fine

Couldn't disagree with this. Your first time with a new guy may be more special than it was during your first time or maybe anytime with your ex. The key for people in similar situations is to give it some to the point you both discuss going down that road (since it's possible that you both may have acted on this in 7 or so weeks since you started the thread).

[ChrisFromKY]

Just be yourself and enjoy each other. He might just be better then your old BF.

[HockeyLovesMe]

ya just do it when u wanna do it :)

[helene97]

I think its a mixed feeling. Its intense, heart is pumping like crazy, waiting too find out how it looks and how big it is, but it rearly last more then 5 min, then u feel his cuming and its over... but its a nice experience because u can sense how mutch he want me, but that just me.

[Adam17]

I love having sex with someone new cause it's like a whole new adventure and it's always different then it was with the last girl.