How long?

[Cognizant]

How long should "sex" take? I'm just curious, because I do think I'll only last like 5-10 minutes. :P

If you aren't a virgin, how long did you last your first time?

[Reanne]

First time was about 30 mins

The thing is for a guy you don't want to be trying to cum in 5 mins, because it will be a turn off for the girl. Take your time and enjoy foreplay and when you feel the urge or close to cumming, then stop and do something else so you can make it last.

[anyone50]

The best answer to this is that it will take as long as it takes for the guy to ejaculate which is different for every one. Anywhere from under a minute and yes i had a friend tell me this actually happened to over an hour if he can last that long.

[Abyssal Echo]

I guess everyone is differant. I only lasted a few mins the first time

[Jamesison]

Everyone is not the same I can go about 25 30 min a good day under hour..

[Swagging god]

My first time was.... 20min or so and now I can go for about 30-40min. If you include foreplay its an hour

[brockfalcon]

all depends on the excitement

[xmojox]

If you're worried about not lastin long enough jerk off first. It all depends on how excited you are.

[Haz222]

xmojox has a good point there. If I found I wasn't lasting too long that's what I'd do.

[Meh Guy]

Depends on how long you can last but if you do some foreplay and try different positions you will last longer. My first time not including foreplay was 25 minutes with it I think it was like 40 or 45 minutes.

[MediaJordan]

First time I lasted 30 minutes, Quickest ever was 3-4 minutes but that was purposely.. Don't like to be too quick as it might not pleasure the girl but too long can get tiring and boring!

[jak926]

If you're worried about not lastin long enough jerk off first. It all depends on how excited you are.

Actually a good idea.

[PinkFloyd]

My FIRST time it took me like 40 minutes. After that, we didn't do anything else. We just layed there all confused and what-not...

[GigglyAbby]

There's no time limit on sex -- the key is that both people are happy and satisfied with what happened and if there are issues -- it's improved the next time.

Sex isn't just about the act itself --- it's about intimacy before during and after the event and if that can last 45 minutes to an hour or longer that's sweet to me.

[taylorbaby]

My first and only time took just about a minute and now I'm 7 months pregnant, stupid mistake.

[Sharona]

My first and only time took just about a minute and now I'm 7 months pregnant, stupid mistake.

:(
Was it something you wanted to do or something you were made to do?
My first definitely wasn't planned/my idea
Glad I wasn't 12 and pregnant

[ChrisFromKY]

If I'm really horny it doesn't take very long. Maybe 15 min. But when taking our time I've lasted for an hr before.

[taylorbaby]

it was last October and his family came to visit his uncle and Aunt and there was no one his age so they ask me to spend some time with him and after he had been here for about 3 days. He asked if I had sex yet and I said no. Long story short he popped my cherry and it hurt like a bitch. I don't think he had any idea what he was doing. he's a year younger than me.

[Sharona]

it was last October and his family came to visit his uncle and Aunt and there was no one his age so they ask me to spend some time with him and after he had been here for about 3 days. He asked if I had sex yet and I said no. Long story short he popped my cherry and it hurt like a bitch. I don't think he had any idea what he was doing. he's a year younger than me.

Did he convince you to try or force/rape?????

[sixguy6]

i lasted about 15 minutes or so

[sixguy6]

i dont know if its short or not