Constant failure with girls

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[CharlieHorse]

It's good that you're open about your feelings like this. Venting IMO is the best way to feel better. :)
I've had similar situations. Girls just don't seem to like me. All my family and friends have their special someones and they're constantly reminding me of my loneliness. :( sometimes it makes me cry :(... I know... pathetic right?

All I want is someone special that I can give everything for and love.

[Gandalf]

I really wouldn't rush looking for a relationship, these things happen eventually and it's often better to work on becoming a better person while single, so that you can deal with the pressures of a relationship later on.
There's no shame in not having kissed anybody or been romantic with anybody, these things really do come in time.

It's human nature to desire companionship, I dont know what exactly to say about these specific situations, but it is most certainly normal to feel inadequate, and these feelings will probably pass in time. Again, don't rush things, you seem to have a good range of social activities and friends, you'll probably meet somebody when you least expect it...

:)

[Hunter_Steel]

What gandalf said.

Also: Keep looking, never give up. Thats when the shit hits the fan. I had my first girlfriend when I was 14, and did somethings that would reach up into a sexual relationship. I am not proud of it because I felt it was rushed. We only lasted for like 4 months before we felt our feelings for eachother disappear. I've only ever had 2 girlfriends in my whole life. So its nothing to be ashamed of.

The current girl I am with has never had her first kiss or been in a serious relationship with any guy. So I don't want to ruin it for her.

Now, in your cases, when talking to a girl, just relax, be yourself. Its no a battle to talk to a girl and asking her out is not a ticking time bomb. Just get out there, relax, be yourself and be straight forward. Otherwise you lose out. But sometimes a girl will come a long, find your failing cute or funny and might get interested in you and might say yes. (Happened to me lol).

Your failure also means that life is showing you your mistakes and is hoping to make you learn from them in order to find the right girl. Look out for signs, personality, and all that. NOT JUST LOOKS. Thats the one thing you can always fall for, is how a girl looks, but looks are NOT everything. They're like an accessory. To me, a girl's personality is worth more than how she looks.

If you look for personality, get to know her and everything, your most likely rarely gonna fail.

Reason I have been with only 2 girls is because I never wanted to go from one girl to the next like you do island or train hopping, its just stupid.

Sorry if I offended any girls or anyone for that matter.

~Hunter

[nice]

Just be chill about the situation and calm your tits lol. My best friend who's a girl had the same problem for a little while she used to get into guys but they wouldn't like her and couldn't tell her to her face so I always did. On the end she had a nice strong 7 month relationship that ended because of her jack ass of an ex. But just take your time and be yourself I know that sounds stupid and like you've heard it a million times but it really does work. A friend of mine she really like this guy everyone thinks he's somewhat ugly but she doesn't care because he has a nice personality. And if you have problems talking to girls try talking about music. I may be single but at any place I've been I've never had trouble making friends with girls. Another thing you could do is try talking to girls your confidant around and working your way up talking to girls you find more attractive or that other guys do. I guarantee you if you do that you'll have no problem talking to girls after a while.

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