A guy likes me

[Eupher]

So I had oral with my friend (the one I mentioned in "Help!!!") an now he is convenced I like him and I think he is gonna ask me out soon. What should I do? I don't want to hurt his feelings but at the same time I don't want to date him!

[NTTHRASH]

Just say no. Simple as that.

[dufus]

Tell him u don't want to date, but just have some fun...

[crepesuzette]

tell him no, and that the act you performed on him was just a one time thing.if you think my advice is going to hurt his feelings, don't take it. but it's better to be straight up with him than lead him on.

[Iam_1]

Just tell him that it was a one time thing and you have no feelings for him.

[virtualteen97]

I would just tell him that youre unsure about who you are as a person and just are exploring your curiosities and arent quite sure who you wanna be with right now! And he should respect that and if not well for sure dont date him!

[Evancosta]

I would just wait until he does it and tell him that you aren't having a relationship with him. That you don't want to ruin the friendship. Tell him to think of the blowjob as a bonding experience. Because it can be.

[DerBear]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating -- this would be a more relevant section for this question.

I understand why you wouldn't want to hurt his feelings. However, do you want to live a lie and the truth come out and destroy your friendship entirely? I personally wouldn't want that and I don't think you do either. I'd suggest if the time comes, letting him down gently and say you aren't looking for a relationship. I'm sure he'll understand, he will be sad but if you tell him and say you want to remain friends, he won't be too upset.

[FreakOfNature]

I would recommend that you just say you aren't interested in dating anyone at the moment

[johnsmith1]

If he's not asked you out yet, you can always get in there first, and talk about what the experience you had with him in a positive way, and steer it in a direction that you want to go. That way you're not waiting for an akward moment of having to say no.

[dontfiguremeout]

Well yeah, I'm not surprised he probably wants to ask you out, because doing something like that can probably be a lead on in his view. So yeah, you need to be honest and tell him you were only experimenting. Yeah it will hurt his feelings, but everyone will go through that once in their lives.

[thatguywhosaysEH]

Just tell him the truth, if you lead him on things might not go well. Best to be straightforward and assert that you don't want a relationship

[xmojox]

Since you sucked each other's dick I'm guessing you're probably pretty close friends. So just be honest with him. He's your friend and he deserves honesty. Explain how much his friendship means to you and how much you enjoyed what happened between you, and how the last thing you wanna do is to hurt him, but you just don't want a relationship of that kind. I wouldn't do it until he asks, though, in case you're misreading things. That'd be all kinds of embarrassing! Good luck, man.

[Albino Nega]

Give him oral before you do it, he will be utter confused for the rest of his life.

[Srhmrh]

Same thing happened to me but he straight away made out with me before I could even answer. I didn't resist though, felt really good haha was quite hot. then I told him and now we're cool.

[xmojox]

Give him oral before you do it, he will be utter confused for the rest of his life.

That's really helpful :what: