Gay to experiment?

[boringkid]

Do you think it is gay to experiment?What do your friends think about experimenting

[Kevin Bacon]

It is not gay to experiment. You are just trying to figure out your sexuality when you experiment, nothing wrong with that.

[KingdomHearts]

It's Completely Normal To Experiment.
I Have Experimented With A Few Friends, So Their Okay With It ;)

[boringkid]

Now there is 1 problem with me experimenting, everyone in my school, not to offend any1 here, seems to be homophobic

[DerBear]

I don't think its gay to experiment. However I feel their is a line. If you are having oral sex with a friend every single week then I would begin to view the sexuality as something different.

However the odd case of experimenting or for a short period I wouldn't classify as gay.

[virtualteen97]

It is definitely not gay to experiment! Everyone does it and it only means youre curious which is not gay!

[boringkid]

Derbear I saw that u posted and I thought at first u locked the thread lol


It is definitely not gay to experiment! Everyone does it and it only means youre curious which is not gay!

U should explain that to the people at my school lol

[Kevin Bacon]

Now there is 1 problem with me experimenting, everyone in my school, not to offend any1 here, seems to be homophobic

And it could be that they are homophobic (more likely) but there is also the slight chance that they are just afraid to experiment as well... Try bringing it up with a friend for example.

[boringkid]

And it could be that they are homophobic (more likely) but there is also the slight chance that they are just afraid to experiment as well... Try bringing it up with a friend for example.

I tried bringing up penis size and I'm now thought of as gay

[FreakOfNature]

And it could be that they are homophobic (more likely) but there is also the slight chance that they are just afraid to experiment as well... Try bringing it up with a friend for example.

How on earth would you be able to bring it up without them saying you are weird/gay

[boringkid]

How on earth would you be able to bring it up without them saying you are weird/gay

I don't know either, I personally would be uncomfortable talking about it unless we were great friends

I just finished explaining that experimenting doesn't mean you are gay, he is so stubburn

[FreakOfNature]

I just finished explaining that experimenting doesn't mean you are gay, he is so stubburn

Who are you talking about?

[boringkid]

Who are you talking about?

Lol I didnt notice my error, I am talking about my friend

[Kevin Bacon]

How on earth would you be able to bring it up without them saying you are weird/gay

But is it weird? Is it gay? No, you are trying to figure out if you are gay. And there is nothing weird/wrong with being gay.

[boringkid]

But is it weird? Is it gay? No, you are trying to figure out if you are gay. And there is nothing weird/wrong with being gay.

I know there isn't but I don't want to be know as the gay kid,no offence, because I'm already known as the ugly kid :(

[FreakOfNature]

But is it weird? Is it gay? No, you are trying to figure out if you are gay. And there is nothing weird/wrong with being gay.

Then how would you bring it up to a judgemental friend?

[boringkid]

Another thing is I'm not sure if I'm straight or if I'm Bi

[Kevin Bacon]

Then how would you bring it up to a judgemental friend?

If they are going to be judgmental, are they really a true friend? If they can't accept who you are, you need to find new friends, JMO, no offense meant.

[FreakOfNature]

Well if you dunno it would be a good idea to explore it. i never have and never will because of where i live and the people im friends with.

[boringkid]

Well if you dunno it would be a good idea to explore it. i never have and never will because of where i live and the people im friends with.

I can't because of my friends either

[Kevin Bacon]

Another thing is I'm not sure if I'm straight or if I'm Bi

If you aren't sure, you just gotta think. Could you ever imaging yourself/get horny having sex with the same gender? Both? Just oppisite?

[boringkid]

If you aren't sure, you just gotta think. Could you ever imaging yourself/get horny having sex with the same gender? Both? Just oppisite?

I can but I can not see getting married or having a relationship with a guy

[Kevin Bacon]

I can but I can not see getting married or having a relationship with a guy

Then you could be a heteromantic bisexual.

[Lovelife090994]

An action in it of itself is never homosexual unless it is done by a homosexual and involves homosexual actions. Get it? No? Like, if two guys experiment but neither are gay, but curious then no, not gay. Judgement is something natural as is curiosity... i wouldn't worry too much. Sexuality is a taboo subject at my school. You are either straight or quiet. If neither, no one messes with you but you are seen as odd and eccentric.
My school does not approve much of homosexuality and given the low numbers of homosexuals, the topic is rarely discussed. Homophobic is an insult in my high school and an embarrrassing term to those who are homosexual. Kind of interesting hmm? Plus most of the students are Catholic or Protestant, a few Antitheists and fewer Atheists, so yeah... different.

[boringkid]

English please

Nvm thanks lovelife for the explaination

Please don't double post, use the edit button

[Lovelife090994]

Then you could be a heteromantic bisexual.

Hetero-romantic bisexual? That's a first I've heard that!

English please

To whom are you asking to speak in "English"? I saw no bilingual or otherwise commentary on this discussion.

Please don't double post, ~DerBear

[FreakOfNature]

Its the long, complicated words that confuses me

[boringkid]

Then you could be a heteromantic bisexual.
That is what I was talk in about, can u explain that a little prey allez

[Lovelife090994]

Its the long, complicated words that confuses me

Forgive my diction, I am in a college course but besides that, I am very proper naturally. Speaking in common terms isn't always easy for me, let alone typing...

[Kevin Bacon]

That is what I was talk in about, can u explain that a little prey allez

Sure! Who you are romantically attracted to and sexually attracted to, while most of the time are the same, can be different. In that case, the heteromantic means you are romantically (marriage, etc) to the opposite sex, but you are sexually attracted to both genders.

[boringkid]

That describes me perfectly

[Lovelife090994]

Sure! Who you are romantically attracted to and sexually attracted to, while most of the time are the same, can be different. In that case, the heteromantic means you are romantically (marriage, etc) to the opposite sex, but you are sexually attracted to both genders.

That sounds like me... I want a wife, I see myself with a girl, can't with a guy, find girls attractive yet guys turn me on often... Girl's... not physically unless I have feelings for her... if ever... Yeah sorry I am odd... I hate labels anyway.

[boringkid]

But I also don't see myself being attracted to guys in 10 years from now

[Jasperf]

Do you think it is gay to experiment?What do your friends think about experimenting

Being gay is all about your emotional feelings towards someone. Is experimenting gay? It is if the people who are doing it feel emotional pation or connection too each other. Feel free to debate me on the issue, I am completely straight but, boys will be boys

Now there is 1 problem with me experimenting, everyone in my school, not to offend any1 here, seems to be homophobic

There is no such thing as homophobic, people arenot afraid of homosexualsthey are just being ass holes.

Please don't double post, use the edit button or multi quote button instead of reply to each individual post with a new post. ~DerBear

[DerBear]

Derbear I saw that u posted and I thought at first u locked the thread lol

I don't lock everything :) Just a lot of things :)

[FreakOfNature]

Being gay is all about your emotional feelings towards someone. Is experimenting gay? It is if the people who are doing it feel emotional pation or connection too each other. Feel free to debate me on the issue, I am completely straight but, boys will be boys

Umm what he said :D

[boringkid]

I don't lock everything :) Just a lot of things :)

Not saying u do but almost every time I've seen a moderators name as the last post its normally locked :D

[FreakOfNature]

Locking/bottling everything up isnt always something you should do but i do it and i dont see any consequences

[Jasperf]

Umm what he said :D

Haha thankies :)

[boringkid]

Being gay is all about your emotional feelings towards someone. Is experimenting gay? It is if the people who are doing it feel emotional pation or connection too each other. Feel free to debate me on the issue, I am completely straight but, boys will be boys



There is no such thing as homophobic, people arenot afraid of homosexualsthey are just being ass holes.

Please don't double post, use the edit button or multi quote button instead of reply to each individual post with a new post. ~DerBear


Have u ever experimented

[Jasperf]

Have u ever experimented

Have I experimented, no. Am I comfortable with my body around my mates, eg showers, Jo together, yes. I go to a boarding school where our privacy is limited.

[Ryhanna]

Technically, yes, it is 'gay' to experiment with other people of the same sex. Having any sort of sexual contact with the same sex is a gay action.

But it doesn't make you gay. Being attracted to the same sex is what makes you gay.

[Mirage]

:arrow: Sexuality

[adam16]

everyone does it, its not gay

[FreakOfNature]

everyone does it, its not gay

Not really everyone

[adam16]

A lot of people do it mane

[ChrisA1998]

Sure! Who you are romantically attracted to and sexually attracted to, while most of the time are the same, can be different. In that case, the heteromantic means you are romantically (marriage, etc) to the opposite sex, but you are sexually attracted to both genders.

That describes me perfectly

But I also don't see myself being attracted to guys in 10 years from now

You're the same as me, I only have feeling for girls, with boys its just for sex, fun, and pleasure ^^

I guess in 10 years you will prolly have a girlfriend and consider having children, so no wonder you dont think you will be attracted by doing stuff with other guys ;)

[Throwaway24]

not gay but can help you decide if u are gay

[Unsolvedmind]

No i dont think it is gay because your hormones are all over the place and your just curious

[Alex_3869]

I don't think it is gay, but, i don't see the problem with it if it was. I haven really gone into it that much, but honestly, they're probably curious too.

[Luminous]

No it's not, but there is a thin line between experimenting and actually having a relationship with someone of the same sex.

[hockeyfan]

Not gay, it's the reason curiosity exists.

[satarra3180]

Experimenting is completely normal and does not make you gay, straight or otherwise.

[schoolgirlz]

Experimenting is totally normal. :eek: I have experienced with a girl before but it wasn't for. I only like penises. LOL