need opinions. i'm so mad at my bf.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

i cant belive him.
he's so fucking stupid><
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i told him i feel depressed and i dont want him to try to cheer me up, what i need from him is to accept thats how i feel, and to let me have my spcae.
so i tell him that i dont want to hang out at all today, i want to have a day to myself inside.

so what does he do?
he talks to my bestfriends boyfriend (his friend) and tells him to get my bestfriend to convince me to hang out.
so i tell him that i'm pissed off that he would go behind my back to try to get his own way.
and i logg off.
i log back on to talk to a friend
and apparently he had been lurking my facebook,
and copy and pastes what i said to a guy in my school

"awww you want to get rid of the dreads? they look really good. well please dont tell me your shaving them off"

and he goes "so apparently you think he's hot too" (my bff said hes hot)

i'm like "excuse me? i'm sorry i LIKE HIS HAIR. big fucking deal. i cant belvie you brign this up NOW. i'm not in the mood to deal with your b.s"

and he replys with "mmkay i miss you"
so i logged off.

i cant belvie he replyed with "mmkay i miss you"
like i feel like i'm not even being taken srsly.
let alone i cant belive he would bring this up WHILE I"M MAD AT HIM.

i'm so angry.
what do you think?

[Serenity]

Wow I'm completely and totally with you. "mmkay i miss you"?? Wtf?? You want to be left alone for a bit, he should be able to accept that. Your world doesn't revolve around him and he has no right to assume it does or try to make it that way- like getting other people to convince you to spend more time with him. You have every right to be angry, he's just being ridiculous and self-centered.

[mixedupfool]

wow what a dumbass...
i ass wouldnt been dumped like, right then if i did that.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

ok so he called
(and asked if i was mad Btw can you beilvie that?)
so we talked about his clingyness adn clingyness was the reason my other relaitonships ended, he said he was worried when i'm in a bad mood or if i'm angry and i todl him i'm nto stupid, i'm not just going to break up with him, i'll talk to him about these problems, i told him he was handling my depression really badly. he said he'll learn from this.
so basically if he skrews up again, i'm not putting up with it,
is that a good comprimise?

[Whisper]

wow what a dumbass...
i ass wouldnt been dumped like, right then if i did that.
I don't think...anyone..understood that.....

ok so he called
(and asked if i was mad Btw can you beilvie that?)
so we talked about his clingyness adn clingyness was the reason my other relaitonships ended, he said he was worried when i'm in a bad mood or if i'm angry and i todl him i'm nto stupid, i'm not just going to break up with him, i'll talk to him about these problems, i told him he was handling my depression really badly. he said he'll learn from this.
so basically if he skrews up again, i'm not putting up with it,
is that a good comprimise?

Okay from what I can tell he is a lil clingy but that could also mean that hes just really worried
I understand that when your upset you don't want people to be in your face and bubbly as hell when that happens to me I'm just like ".......DIIIIIIIEE!!!!!"

So he needs to learn how better to deal with it
Inorder for him to do that you need to help him explain to him to try and fix it
and when your upset and depressed and wanna be left alone

either
A explain to him camly that your just tired and depressed and just would like to hang in your room alone for awhile but don't get angry if he checks up on you

or B
Let him come over and the two of you can just chill in your room nobody else and just talk or watch a movie w/e

The reason he buggs you so much when your upset is because he really cares about you and when you shut him out he gets scared

as far as the jealousy factor thats kind of a good sign it means he likes you and is being protective like who the fucks this asshole kinda thing

[Gumleaf]

i have to say that i have some sympathy for him. he is obviously worried about you. although he shouldn't have gone behind your back, he did it for the right reasons.