Girl problem

[Cretapsos]

Here is my dilemma:
I've known this girl(lets call her Sarah-not her real name-) since pre-school. Then we were best friends. I mean totally inseparable. At the time we both had sort of crushes(in the sense of a crush at 6 years old). Sadly Sarah moved out to a neighboring state. We still see each other during the summer as our families have summer houses at basically the same beach. Throughout this time(both of us are 14 now) I have always had a little crush on Sarah, however this last summer I fell for her hard.
As far as I know Sarah doesn't know I have a crush on her(unless my sister found out and told her,but that unlikely) So the main point of my dilemma is what to do.
Im nervous to when I see her or talk to her next whether or not I should tell her, ask her out or something. Im afraid that one, she will say no and then it would be weird for basically the rest of our summer and Im not sure if she has feelings for me or not.

also I've had crushes on other girls but none as strong as this one(not sexual just wanting to be closer with her)

Ive never had a girlfriend and am unsure what to do:(

[Harley Quinn]

Well the first thing you have to do is communicate your feelings towards her, only if you think you won't ruin that friendship and that your feelings will be mutual for each other. If you do it and she rejects you, know it isn't the end of the world. Pick yourself back up and keep trying, we all get rejected at some point. If she says that she likes you too, that's great! Ask about what she wants to do and whether she wants the relationship to become official, if so, ask her out. If you're friends with any of her friends you could always ask if this Sarah girl has a crush on anyone, things like that. Communicating is key to anything so I think you should go ahead and tell her only if you feel comfortable and you need to prepare yourself for whatever answer she gives, good or bad.

[BebeFleur.]

Start slowly, since you're not too sure. Maybe ask for her # (help with hw is a good excuse :P) or Skype with her.

I would suggest: Do not come right out and say it.

As a girl around your age, I would prefer not be asked out by someone I rarely see, but someone I have become closer to.

[Cretapsos]

Start slowly, since you're not too sure. Maybe ask for her # (help with hw is a good excuse :P) or Skype with her.

I would suggest: Do not come right out and say it.

As a girl around your age, I would prefer not be asked out by someone I rarely see, but someone I have become closer to.


We used to be really close :( not really know that she moved out of state. And sadly I cant use skype really on my computer because of no mic or cam :(:(

[BebeFleur.]

Do you have a phone you could Skype with?

[thatguywhosaysEH]

I say go for it, you've been friends with her so long that even if she says no you guys will remain friends.