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DarkWingedAngel
April 2nd, 2013, 11:57 PM
I don't even know what to think anymore. I thought I was gay and now I dont know. I have been with an ftm transman. I am with an mtf transgender in a different kinda of relationship. And I see myself doing everything with her. I mean the heart is what counts right?. But Idont know. when Itake a look on how I see myself 20 years from now I see myself with a man. So why am I having these feelings for this girl? Please help.
peaceNlove
April 3rd, 2013, 01:36 AM
Maybe you're just bisexual. Would you have sex with and have a relation with a girl? If yes, then your most likely bi(if you're okay with labels, some people don't like them).
DarkWingedAngel
April 3rd, 2013, 08:13 AM
No I can't see myself with a girl. But at the rate that things are going....it might happen. I mean I've thought maybe I'm just pansexual but leads more towards cis men, but when it comes down to everything its not the body that counts, I fall for the heart. If they have a good heart, love, care for me, and wouldn't hurt me then I could fall for a girl. But that's not to say that I would be happy sexually. Because I probably wouldn't be happy sexually. But again it is still the heart that counts. I don't know how to explain it.
peaceNlove
April 3rd, 2013, 11:06 PM
No I can't see myself with a girl. But at the rate that things are going....it might happen. I mean I've thought maybe I'm just pansexual but leads more towards cis men, but when it comes down to everything its not the body that counts, I fall for the heart. If they have a good heart, love, care for me, and wouldn't hurt me then I could fall for a girl. But that's not to say that I would be happy sexually. Because I probably wouldn't be happy sexually. But again it is still the heart that counts. I don't know how to explain it.
Oh yea i know what you mean. Well, maybe you are pansexual. But are you only confused because you are trying to label yourself? Just go with the flow. If you end up with a girl, you end up with a girl. It just means you're attracted to both sexes which is bisexual or pansexual.
teen.jpg
April 3rd, 2013, 11:41 PM
Possibly you're pansexual. Who knows. Just continue doing what you do and it'll sort itself out, trust me.
bored4evah
April 5th, 2013, 08:54 AM
i think your just curious to be honest, try expierimenting and see whats best for you
ASMRCHICK96
July 7th, 2013, 09:11 PM
you sound to me like your just curious like others said
just see how this current relationship plays out and go from there. who knows you could find yourself attracted to her in more ways than one. explore yourself. find out your true feelings inside. hope this helped :)
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