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Electrovx
April 2nd, 2013, 11:21 PM
So,where to start...I have known this girl for a couple of years...and I had never had a girlfriend before (still don't). When I met her we became friends instantly; however, I never persued her in aany romantic way because I never thought I felt that way towards her and every girl I have ever "liked" shot me down(so only 1 person but at that time it was a big deal) Now its been a couple of years and all of a sudden i began to thik about hher....think and think and when i try not to i begin to fantasize...(not sexual fyi to the perverts) about being with her....and what if i actually had tried to persue her wheb we met or ya know...etc. also i used to be able to communicate with her jbefore/after school and then my phone breaks my cpu breaks an at first i didnt care ...until that odd moment in my life where i had to punch myself in the face to snap back into reality.Also...she always got some kind of boyfriend that just....not right in the head or something
and it worries me and my god im confused....sorry my story is so long.Please tell me honestly how to begin to resolve my situation....:confused:

peaceNlove
April 2nd, 2013, 11:28 PM
Wait so does she have a boyfriend right now?

Electrovx
April 2nd, 2013, 11:45 PM
Yes she does...

peaceNlove
April 3rd, 2013, 01:05 AM
Maybe try to tell her how you feel. Tbh you can't really do much with her having a boyfriend. If they break up try to make a move on her.

xmojox
April 3rd, 2013, 12:34 PM
I agree with Aneesah. Since she's with someone, there's nothin you can really do. If and when she's single though, tell her how you feel and go from there.

DerBear
April 3rd, 2013, 01:22 PM
Like the others said, she has a boyfriend you can't do much. If they break she'll need a friend and you can comfort her and later (make sure you leave it for awhile) you can maybe review the situation and maybe you can think about entering into a relationship then.

A word of caution though; sometimes friendships are best left at friendships as dating can ruin what would be a very good friendship.