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XxReaper454xX
April 1st, 2013, 11:46 PM
*I think this is the right section to put it in*
Recently i have got a FWB. So far we've only hung out once. We practice sexual things, kissing, stuff like that. What i'm afraid is that she would want to move on in a relationship(but i made it clear about no relationships)... Which is not what i am looking for, hence why i have a Fwb.. Does anyone else have one? Any tips or pointers? Any experiences?
Gandalf
April 3rd, 2013, 08:43 PM
All I really know is that when a bond between two people becomes unbalanced it often becomes unhealthy, if she is looking for a relationship, and you can't commit to that you need to make that clear to her. You can't string her along because that wouldn't be fair. Likewise, if she can't accept you're choice not to be in a relationship I'd ask myself whether being a friend with benefits should continue.
Otherwise there isn't much you can do really. Just be honest and enjoy the time you spend with each other.
Aves
April 4th, 2013, 01:46 AM
If she wants a relationship, then you need to end the two of you being friends with benefits. It's not fair to her, it's not fair to you. It's pretty unhealthy emotionally and will only lead to problems down the road.
Rayquaza
April 4th, 2013, 02:41 AM
If you're going to have a friend with benefits you're going to have to make sure she's absolutely not interested in you whatsoever. Friends with benefits are two people that are single and basically want sex in the meantime whilst looking for actual partners. If one of you feels strongly then you shouldn't be having a friend with benefits. But at 15 I'm not sure why you would even need a friend with benefits.
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