JoeHillsTSD
April 1st, 2013, 09:23 PM
I had a crush on this girl since the summer. She started going to my school in the beginning of September, and when we first started hanging out, she made it very clear that she wasn't into me the way I was into her. I immediately let it go, and found another girl to crush on. Though, I still flirted with her, but just a bit.
Recently, maybe 1 or 2 months ago, we have been really connecting. We talk alot more, and we do a lot more flirting. I can tell she likes me now. She hasn't verbally told me she likes me, but I can tell by her physical actions (she texts me a lot more, she tells me that she wants me to hold her hand and walk her to class, etc). The only problem is, I'm unsure of my feelings for her. I dismissed most of my feelings for her when she let me know she didn't like me back. So I'm not sure whether I want to be just friends or actually date her. Any advice on figuring them out (I've been confused about it for quite some time now). I was thinking about maybe kissing her, and seeing if there is "spark" and there isn't then apologizing and letting her know how I feel.
Recently, maybe 1 or 2 months ago, we have been really connecting. We talk alot more, and we do a lot more flirting. I can tell she likes me now. She hasn't verbally told me she likes me, but I can tell by her physical actions (she texts me a lot more, she tells me that she wants me to hold her hand and walk her to class, etc). The only problem is, I'm unsure of my feelings for her. I dismissed most of my feelings for her when she let me know she didn't like me back. So I'm not sure whether I want to be just friends or actually date her. Any advice on figuring them out (I've been confused about it for quite some time now). I was thinking about maybe kissing her, and seeing if there is "spark" and there isn't then apologizing and letting her know how I feel.