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rockburntm
April 1st, 2013, 08:21 PM
Ok so I've made another post regarding this, but this is sort of an update on the situation.

So basically I swim for a club every week, and also every 2 weeks I have to help out as a tutor and mentor for the younger classes which are mostly 12 year old/13 year old girls. In the previous post I mentioned that my flaccid penis naturally stands out a lot because I have to wear tight shorts for the club. I also mentioned that when I'm mentoring the girls they always seem to be immature and giggle about my bulge and I always hear them talking about me behind my back saying stuff like "he's so hot, have you seen how big his cock looks", which is annoying and sort of embarrassing. Also if i'm swimming alongside them in the water, they sometimes accidentally kick or nudge my bulge and then they start acting all over the top and giggling and apologising loads.

So I posted a thread about it and people told me to wear speedos underneath my shorts to make it look smaller, and that sort of worked, except the 2 materials were very slippery on each other and I had to pull my shorts up a few times so they wouldnt slip off(especially after doing dives)The girls didn't giggle about me as much but they still tried flirting with me. Close to the end of the session I had to take this girl into a swimming lane so we were by ourselfs, and this girl was 13 and I guess i sort of liked her so it was fun talking to her. Then as the session ended I got out of the pool and put my arm out to help her climb out, but she slipped and grabbed onto my shorts for support and as you would expect, they easily slipped down and actually got a rip in them and they were ruined so I was just in my speedos in front of most of the group, and these made my bulge look absolutely massive, even worse than just shorts on their own. And all the 12 year old girls from the rest of the group turned around to look at me, and started staring and giggling again. I had to walk from the side of the pool to the changing room in just my speedos with my ripped shorts in my hand which was so embarrassing. It outlined my bulge so much that I literally felt naked. But it got worse.

This next part seems really unbelievable but I assure you it's all true and it actually happened. I was in the boys showers a few minutes later washing the pool water out of my hair, and since it was a mostly girls class, it was only me and this other boy in the mens showers on our own. He was only about 12 or 13 and he was looking at me in my speedos and eventually he said to me "why do you stuff your pants with socks", i said that i didn't and he was like "i don't believe you, you're such an asshole man". I asked him if he wanted proof and he said sure so I was in an annoyed mood and i couldn't give a fuck about anything so I just dropped my pants right in front of him and he just stood there for a few seconds, then told me i was a dickhead and walked out of the shower room with shampoo still in his hair. So then I had the whole shower room all to myself and I calmed down a bit and stayed in the shower room for longer than usual, and i didn't put my pants back on because I knew I was going to be alone so i just started washing myself and enjoying a free shower. Then about 5 minutes later I heard some girls standing outside the shower room giggling, then one of them called my name and asked if i was in there, I said yes and then tried to ignore them, BUT THEY FUCKING WALKED INTO THE SHOWER ROOM. They knew I was alone but they didn't expect me to be naked. As soon as they walked in I literally had a heart attack, I don't think I've ever ran so fast when I went to grab my towel to cover up. But they had all seen me naked and one of them actually screamed. So they all walked out giggling and covering their eyes, then I followed them out with my towel wrapped around me and just said to them "Thats why you dont go in the boys room" then walked off to the changing stalls. It was one of the scariest moments in my life though, I don't think I can keep going to this swimming club, everything went wrong and now since about 5 girls have seen me nude, they're going to be even more giggly and immature now. What should I do?

RedRaider03
April 1st, 2013, 09:33 PM
Wow it just gets worse I mean you could talk to their parents or just except t how it is unless you wanna quit which I wouldn't do sorry man

NTTHRASH
April 1st, 2013, 09:53 PM
Quite simply, you are the unluckiest man of the year. If you can just go somewhere else, and for the love of all that is holy, make sure these girls' parents are aware that you weren't showing them your dick and whatnot.

BebeFleur.
April 1st, 2013, 10:10 PM
Geez, girls that age are THAT immature? Gosh, gals at my school would never do that!

Here are some suggestions (coming from a girl!)

Tip A) Talk to the girls. Speak calmly and maturely as if it doesn't bother you. The more girls see that something annoys you, the more we want to do it ;) (Though I would never do something like that!) Don't say anything about them seeing you naked, the bulge, whatever. Just say that the girls are not allowed in the boys room no matter what. Talk to them like they are 6, since they're acting like it. Speak as if they know no better. Tell them that they are here to swim.

Tip B) I know its hard, but try to ignore their teasing and laughing. They obviously think you're hot, which is better then them thinking you're super ugly.

Tip C) I know I said above to treat them like they're young, but that may backfire depending on the girls (you would know better than I) since they are only a couple of years younger than you.

Tip D) Talk to them about the kicking. Say that any physical contact (unless you do physical contact) is prohibited and will get them into serous trouble.

Tip E) Talk to the parents. This is a last resort as the girls may hate you with resentment if you do this first. Tell them you don't know if a boy should be teaching girls of this age due to gender differences and that maybe they should be taught by a female until they are older and more mature. Do not mention the seeing you naked, kicking, and stuff unless they ask or it may seem as if you are "whining". Tell them the girls don't listen to you (if you have followed the above steps and they still aren't listening) and are not following directions, which are for their own safety


Hope that helps :)

BebeFleur.
April 1st, 2013, 10:13 PM
Just remember **Talk as if it doesn't bother you! This is crucial in their decision to listen to you or not. Talk like a mature and calm adult. Like a father explaining things to his daughter in a calm nice manner.**

ethan 27
April 1st, 2013, 10:29 PM
talk to their parents.

PinkFloyd
April 1st, 2013, 10:39 PM
Wow.... That-that is really unlucky, man. If I were you, I would pretend that they don't bother you. In fact, make jokes about it without sounding pervy. I mean if you say something like how one of them stuck around to see, THEY would get uncomfortable.

BebeFleur.
April 1st, 2013, 10:44 PM
Also: Do you have a sister, friend, girlfriend, etc. who is around 13-17 years old and a good friend?

Things that may help (optional):
-the girl is good with kids
-the girl is somewhat pretty (medium breasts, largeish butt, fair skin, etc.)
-the girl will wear a flattering bikini
-the girls is really girly (or at least can act it)

These are things girls that age respond best to.

Ask her to "girl talk" about boys. Have her tell them the "universal boy truths" like 'boys are stupid, icky, secretive, etc..' Sometimes a girl role model makes girls move.

asg666
April 1st, 2013, 10:51 PM
Dude that's hilarious. Talk to their parents

BebeFleur.
April 2nd, 2013, 07:16 AM
But no matter what way it HAS to stop.

rockburntm
April 2nd, 2013, 02:07 PM
Also: Do you have a sister, friend, girlfriend, etc. who is around 13-17 years old and a good friend?

Things that may help (optional):
-the girl is good with kids
-the girl is somewhat pretty (medium breasts, largeish butt, fair skin, etc.)
-the girl will wear a flattering bikini
-the girls is really girly (or at least can act it)

These are things girls that age respond best to.

Ask her to "girl talk" about boys. Have her tell them the "universal boy truths" like 'boys are stupid, icky, secretive, etc..' Sometimes a girl role model makes girls move.

I'm not the only helper at the club, there is also a girl there who's 14 like me and we both take turns teaching. She thinks it's hilarious the way they tease me and she joins in some times haha, but she has a boyfriend of her own and whenever the younger girls are annoying me she always laughs and says stuff like "they want your dick!", she makes it worse if anything

BebeFleur.
April 2nd, 2013, 02:43 PM
Well, I guess if things get too worse, you could pass the girls off to her, right?
Also, if she's 14 she SHOULD be mature. Ask her to please stop, that you are trying to teach and that she's making it difficult (doesn't she have something SHE should be doing?) and to set an example. And maybe even help is possible.

Wanderer_
April 2nd, 2013, 04:26 PM
I'm sorry you were embarrassed but also know that was probably the most exciting moment of their lives - you are clearly a cool, good looking guy - so be cool
If you keep overreacting or getting really embarrassed it might not stop - just be cool
If they tease again about seeing you nude just say to be ready for you to go into their change room and see how they like it or something

And the girl who accidentally ripped your shorts... You should probably let her know no hard feelings and ask her out to lunch or something

rockburntm
April 2nd, 2013, 08:44 PM
I'm sorry you were embarrassed but also know that was probably the most exciting moment of their lives - you are clearly a cool, good looking guy - so be cool
If you keep overreacting or getting really embarrassed it might not stop - just be cool
If they tease again about seeing you nude just say to be ready for you to go into their change room and see how they like it or something

And the girl who accidentally ripped your shorts... You should probably let her know no hard feelings and ask her out to lunch or something

It wasn't the changing room, just the showers. You're not allowed to shower naked at our club because it's all public and stuff, but I was on my own so I just stayed naked. It's not the first time the girls have walked in, but usually im in my swimming shorts and I just chat to them in there

Wanderer_
April 2nd, 2013, 08:56 PM
Ohhhh ok
Still, I think if you play your cards right and try be as cool as possible girls are gonna know you are awesome in a lot of ways ;)

Seriously - u do realize they would have been m'bating to you that night and more

BebeFleur.
April 2nd, 2013, 10:18 PM
If you encoiraged them to come in, I don't know how you can hold it against them. You can always back track and follow the steps in my very first post, but you can't let it happen again.

If you really do want this to stop, you need to take action.

Troy35216
April 2nd, 2013, 10:59 PM
As soon as they walked in I literally had a heart attack . What should I do?

first, look up the definition of the word "literally". then, if what the girls are doing is bothering you report them to whoever is in charge. that's harassment.

RecklesslyMe
April 2nd, 2013, 11:47 PM
I agree with all who are saying this shower incident needs to be brought to the attention of an adult who is in charge. If the wrong story gets out about u being naked and what not, u could get in trouble. As far as the 'teasing' goes, learn to live with it man. At that age, its hard to expect them to be mature about something like that. The giggling and the comments are not meant to harm u theyr just flirting. Take it all as compliments, smile it off and be proud bud.

Wanderer_
April 3rd, 2013, 01:34 AM
I agree with all who are saying this shower incident needs to be brought to the attention of an adult who is in charge. If the wrong story gets out about u being naked and what not, u could get in trouble. As far as the 'teasing' goes, learn to live with it man. At that age, its hard to expect them to be mature about something like that. The giggling and the comments are not meant to harm u theyr just flirting. Take it all as compliments, smile it off and be proud bud.

Good points

Jango45
April 3rd, 2013, 01:44 AM
Ok so I've made another post regarding this, but this is sort of an update on the situation.

So basically I swim for a club every week, and also every 2 weeks I have to help out as a tutor and mentor for the younger classes which are mostly 12 year old/13 year old girls. In the previous post I mentioned that my flaccid penis naturally stands out a lot because I have to wear tight shorts for the club. I also mentioned that when I'm mentoring the girls they always seem to be immature and giggle about my bulge and I always hear them talking about me behind my back saying stuff like "he's so hot, have you seen how big his cock looks", which is annoying and sort of embarrassing. Also if i'm swimming alongside them in the water, they sometimes accidentally kick or nudge my bulge and then they start acting all over the top and giggling and apologising loads.

So I posted a thread about it and people told me to wear speedos underneath my shorts to make it look smaller, and that sort of worked, except the 2 materials were very slippery on each other and I had to pull my shorts up a few times so they wouldnt slip off(especially after doing dives)The girls didn't giggle about me as much but they still tried flirting with me. Close to the end of the session I had to take this girl into a swimming lane so we were by ourselfs, and this girl was 13 and I guess i sort of liked her so it was fun talking to her. Then as the session ended I got out of the pool and put my arm out to help her climb out, but she slipped and grabbed onto my shorts for support and as you would expect, they easily slipped down and actually got a rip in them and they were ruined so I was just in my speedos in front of most of the group, and these made my bulge look absolutely massive, even worse than just shorts on their own. And all the 12 year old girls from the rest of the group turned around to look at me, and started staring and giggling again. I had to walk from the side of the pool to the changing room in just my speedos with my ripped shorts in my hand which was so embarrassing. It outlined my bulge so much that I literally felt naked. But it got worse.

This next part seems really unbelievable but I assure you it's all true and it actually happened. I was in the boys showers a few minutes later washing the pool water out of my hair, and since it was a mostly girls class, it was only me and this other boy in the mens showers on our own. He was only about 12 or 13 and he was looking at me in my speedos and eventually he said to me "why do you stuff your pants with socks", i said that i didn't and he was like "i don't believe you, you're such an asshole man". I asked him if he wanted proof and he said sure so I was in an annoyed mood and i couldn't give a fuck about anything so I just dropped my pants right in front of him and he just stood there for a few seconds, then told me i was a dickhead and walked out of the shower room with shampoo still in his hair. So then I had the whole shower room all to myself and I calmed down a bit and stayed in the shower room for longer than usual, and i didn't put my pants back on because I knew I was going to be alone so i just started washing myself and enjoying a free shower. Then about 5 minutes later I heard some girls standing outside the shower room giggling, then one of them called my name and asked if i was in there, I said yes and then tried to ignore them, BUT THEY FUCKING WALKED INTO THE SHOWER ROOM. They knew I was alone but they didn't expect me to be naked. As soon as they walked in I literally had a heart attack, I don't think I've ever ran so fast when I went to grab my towel to cover up. But they had all seen me naked and one of them actually screamed. So they all walked out giggling and covering their eyes, then I followed them out with my towel wrapped around me and just said to them "Thats why you dont go in the boys room" then walked off to the changing stalls. It was one of the scariest moments in my life though, I don't think I can keep going to this swimming club, everything went wrong and now since about 5 girls have seen me nude, they're going to be even more giggly and immature now. What should I do?


I fell ur pain bro i had the same problem looking after those 13 years girls except mine wasn’t with ripped swimming trunks but in fact a girl accidentally grabbed my privet area and gave me a stiffy and the worse thing was it was a girl i really liked. Actually it wasn’t so bad i did get to have sex with her in the boys change rooms in the shower. :cool:

Jango45
April 3rd, 2013, 01:46 AM
Ok so I've made another post regarding this, but this is sort of an update on the situation.

So basically I swim for a club every week, and also every 2 weeks I have to help out as a tutor and mentor for the younger classes which are mostly 12 year old/13 year old girls. In the previous post I mentioned that my flaccid penis naturally stands out a lot because I have to wear tight shorts for the club. I also mentioned that when I'm mentoring the girls they always seem to be immature and giggle about my bulge and I always hear them talking about me behind my back saying stuff like "he's so hot, have you seen how big his cock looks", which is annoying and sort of embarrassing. Also if i'm swimming alongside them in the water, they sometimes accidentally kick or nudge my bulge and then they start acting all over the top and giggling and apologising loads.

So I posted a thread about it and people told me to wear speedos underneath my shorts to make it look smaller, and that sort of worked, except the 2 materials were very slippery on each other and I had to pull my shorts up a few times so they wouldnt slip off(especially after doing dives)The girls didn't giggle about me as much but they still tried flirting with me. Close to the end of the session I had to take this girl into a swimming lane so we were by ourselfs, and this girl was 13 and I guess i sort of liked her so it was fun talking to her. Then as the session ended I got out of the pool and put my arm out to help her climb out, but she slipped and grabbed onto my shorts for support and as you would expect, they easily slipped down and actually got a rip in them and they were ruined so I was just in my speedos in front of most of the group, and these made my bulge look absolutely massive, even worse than just shorts on their own. And all the 12 year old girls from the rest of the group turned around to look at me, and started staring and giggling again. I had to walk from the side of the pool to the changing room in just my speedos with my ripped shorts in my hand which was so embarrassing. It outlined my bulge so much that I literally felt naked. But it got worse.

This next part seems really unbelievable but I assure you it's all true and it actually happened. I was in the boys showers a few minutes later washing the pool water out of my hair, and since it was a mostly girls class, it was only me and this other boy in the mens showers on our own. He was only about 12 or 13 and he was looking at me in my speedos and eventually he said to me "why do you stuff your pants with socks", i said that i didn't and he was like "i don't believe you, you're such an asshole man". I asked him if he wanted proof and he said sure so I was in an annoyed mood and i couldn't give a fuck about anything so I just dropped my pants right in front of him and he just stood there for a few seconds, then told me i was a dickhead and walked out of the shower room with shampoo still in his hair. So then I had the whole shower room all to myself and I calmed down a bit and stayed in the shower room for longer than usual, and i didn't put my pants back on because I knew I was going to be alone so i just started washing myself and enjoying a free shower. Then about 5 minutes later I heard some girls standing outside the shower room giggling, then one of them called my name and asked if i was in there, I said yes and then tried to ignore them, BUT THEY FUCKING WALKED INTO THE SHOWER ROOM. They knew I was alone but they didn't expect me to be naked. As soon as they walked in I literally had a heart attack, I don't think I've ever ran so fast when I went to grab my towel to cover up. But they had all seen me naked and one of them actually screamed. So they all walked out giggling and covering their eyes, then I followed them out with my towel wrapped around me and just said to them "Thats why you dont go in the boys room" then walked off to the changing stalls. It was one of the scariest moments in my life though, I don't think I can keep going to this swimming club, everything went wrong and now since about 5 girls have seen me nude, they're going to be even more giggly and immature now. What should I do?

I fell ur pain bro i had the same problem looking after those 13 years girls except mine wasn’t with ripped swimming trunks but in fact a girl accidentally grabbed my privet area and gave me a stiffy and the worse thing was it was a girl i really liked. Actually it wasn’t so bad i did get to have sex with her in the boys change rooms in the shower.

xmojox
April 3rd, 2013, 02:52 AM
first, look up the definition of the word "literally". then, if what the girls are doing is bothering you report them to whoever is in charge. that's harassment.

Absolutely this.

Ryan660
April 3rd, 2013, 06:31 PM
Although it may create some embarrassing situations, you should just ignore them and not let it bother you at all. They will eventually outgrow their immaturity. There is no reason for you to let this make you stop attending that swimming center as if it really bothers you, you can just report them to ensure they leave you alone.

Wanderer_
April 3rd, 2013, 06:35 PM
Just stare at parts of them back, turnabout is fair play

Ryan660
April 3rd, 2013, 06:52 PM
Haha. This too. ^

Harry Smith
April 3rd, 2013, 07:03 PM
From the sound of it mate the girls are just being stereotypical girls, just act like it didn't happen. I mean as bad as it sounds at least the girls are taking the piss due to you being small in that region if you get my drift. Everyone has a moment which embarrasses them, literally everyone can tell a story about it. I know it seems shit now but you'll look back and laugh ( or cringe).

NTTHRASH
April 3rd, 2013, 08:48 PM
first, look up the definition of the word "literally"

Best quote of the year right there folks! :D

Jango45
April 4th, 2013, 02:33 AM
Just stare at parts of them back, turnabout is fair play

ohh i like the way you think :cool:

rockburntm
April 7th, 2013, 03:42 PM
ohh i like the way you think :cool:

Honest answers please..

BebeFleur.
April 7th, 2013, 05:39 PM
Seriously. All you can do is:

A) Tell them to stop going into the Men's room and kicking you
B) Tell the parents
C) Leave the club
D) Ignore them

They're just being girls. It's not the end of the world. When they start to make a sexual move on you is when you really need to take it seriously.

Haydenn3
April 10th, 2013, 02:17 PM
Maybe just tell them to stop or get a bigger sized spedo
But i would embrace it and just have fun but nothing serious ahaa

SwimRunSleep
April 10th, 2013, 02:53 PM
Wait, so you were wearing shorts over your speedo? Just wear your jammer dude, it's practice. Don't quit just because these girls are being immature.

Try these...I wear the two on top for practice and the TYR for races. It's a Tracer C Series and just normal Aqua Blades by Speedo.
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/picture.php?albumid=6058&pictureid=32851

fast8
April 10th, 2013, 03:04 PM
yea i think you be better off talking to an adult letting them know what happen so you dont get in trouble

phoenixboy
April 10th, 2013, 07:57 PM
Seriously - u do realize they would have been m'bating to you that night and more[/QUOTE]


She is right enjoy the fact girls are mastrubateing to u and haveing dreams about youthat is a good thing right now if you realy want them to shutup just kiss one of them look bet thell never come in the locker room agian kiss one of them and it will always be quite in your class

Coolguy10890
April 10th, 2013, 08:00 PM
Hey, the girls like you if they are calling you hot! (Unless you thinm its sarcasam) but anyways, I don't think u should leave the club cuz of them. Maybe ignore them or if they keep going to the boys change room and make fun of u or something, tell the person who created the club/is in charge. (Don't tell them bout the naked part tho)

TheFSM
April 10th, 2013, 11:02 PM
Oh, my God, dude. I know just how you feel. I've had girls walk in on me nude in the locker room before too. It just... Oh, man.

rockburntm
June 3rd, 2013, 04:44 PM
bumping because i need help

Ethan15
June 3rd, 2013, 06:17 PM
What is the problem so some people have seen you naked it will happen in the future it will happen now. They are younger so they probably will bring it up in some 'gossip' or whatever it is; however that is as far as it will go and face it, is it a bad thing being known as a guy with a big penis? I have had similar happen to me, I was at a hoise part a few girls and I were in the bathroom, one was quite drunk and fell to the floor. I know it is not. I found it fun to be known as the guy who is "Hung like a horse". Hope this helped. But if it affects you that much then I would suggest saying to them you would prefer if they did not talk about what happened.

riverboy
June 3rd, 2013, 09:14 PM
Why not wear something over your speedos when you mentor that is looser or better made. You should talk to someone in charge of the simming program. You might be the one getting into trouble if something does happrn.

riverboy
June 3rd, 2013, 09:51 PM
It wasn't the changing room, just the showers. You're not allowed to shower naked at our club because it's all public and stuff, but I was on my own so I just stayed naked. It's not the first time the girls have walked in, but usually im in my swimming shorts and I just chat to them in there

Wow. Why didn't you tell them to get out the first time they walked in? Maybe they thought it was ok to come in since you have talk to them brfore. Another way to solve the problem is to get another mentor to help you. One who won't edge the girls on and never be alone with the girls.

PinkFloyd
June 3rd, 2013, 10:11 PM
How would joking about it go? I mean, if you make fun of them by calling them perves, [in a joking way] then the uncomfortableness gets transferred to them! I am not positive, but it's what I'd do.

JohnJack
June 18th, 2013, 03:07 PM
I am not sure I can really relate to how you feel about this, however, I wouldn't be that bothered. I think people have brought up a good point about ensuring everyone knows the right story and nothing gets twisted, but in the end you are a male and you have a dick, it's just a fact. While swimming you're bound to have a bit of a bulge showing, so I would just embrace the fact that you have a cock nice enough to attract a little bit of attention, but on the other hand, I do see that you wouldn't want to much attention from it, so I would just try to reduce the size and not accentuate the fact that it's there because then people are bound to notice.

Sasha M
June 18th, 2013, 08:44 PM
First of all, it's a bit of an acomploshment if 12 year old girls think your hot with a big penis.
Second of all: From everything you said about this situation, I find this both hellarias and sorta serious. Definitely do somthing about it.
If your un sure/ scared/ shy about telling someone, I know how you feel. I can't tell people about anything... :P

At the end of the day, imbrase the large gentleman sausage, I wish mine attracted a bit of attention. :D

curiouskid15
June 20th, 2013, 01:16 AM
I don't see anything wrong with girls thinking your package is huge, but if you really dont like it, have a little chat about it, as some people have suggested, or with their parents if it doesn't stop after your talk with them. Or what I'd probably do is just let it slide, and be proud!

imcoolbro
June 25th, 2013, 08:21 AM
Talk to your parents

Blablabla36489
June 28th, 2013, 01:15 AM
You should think up something and stop going to that club.

UserName00
August 2nd, 2013, 09:20 AM
humiliate them and say this to the guys "hey at least I got something down their what do you wear size 1" and the girl if they try that again calmly grab her arm and get her off

Milky Joe
August 2nd, 2013, 07:43 PM
So, you're 15, you have a big cock, and all the girls fancy you? Your life sounds tough ;)

The only thing I can think of is asking someone senior to have a talk to them, not mentioning you specifically, just about being respectful to the tutors etc.

Other than that, it seems inevitable that’s the kind of environment you'll get really. I can imagine what me and my mates would have been like when we were 12 if there was an attractive 15 year old girl in a swimsuit teaching us swimming rather than what we actually got which was a scary old man in a track suit :(

Lonely teen
August 3rd, 2013, 04:36 AM
*Cough* I don't really see the problem I may even consider you lucky *cough* yah it absolutely horrible *said sarcastically* ha

irishmaniac2000
August 3rd, 2013, 04:49 AM
Don't worry about it too much. Being seen nude by chicks that obviously like you seems ok. don't be worried.

Deltaphi
August 5th, 2013, 09:44 PM
i feel you man. i have a big flaccid which gives me a big bulge when swimming. i know how immature people can be.

rockburntm
August 9th, 2013, 04:55 PM
Ahahahahha cheers bud

RavleIncarnate
January 13th, 2014, 02:57 PM
I'm taking up swimming at my new boarding school, and this kinda caught my attention, and since I have a...rather massive bulge too, I thought it might be of some advice. Man, we are in almost the same situation, and I wish you luck...if you love swimming as much as I do, then you won't stop. Tell them that you expect better from them, and you trust them not to be so immature and infantile.

Hanson
February 23rd, 2014, 02:26 PM
I used to have the same problem like you as I am also active in water sports. Tell them how you feel and what you want them to do. You should be proud of your body which is created by god.

Ben101
February 23rd, 2014, 03:16 PM
Geez, girls that age are THAT immature? Gosh, gals at my school would never do that!

Here are some suggestions (coming from a girl!)

Tip A) Talk to the girls. Speak calmly and maturely as if it doesn't bother you. The more girls see that something annoys you, the more we want to do it ;) (Though I would never do something like that!) Don't say anything about them seeing you naked, the bulge, whatever. Just say that the girls are not allowed in the boys room no matter what. Talk to them like they are 6, since they're acting like it. Speak as if they know no better. Tell them that they are here to swim.

Tip B) I know its hard, but try to ignore their teasing and laughing. They obviously think you're hot, which is better then them thinking you're super ugly.

Tip C) I know I said above to treat them like they're young, but that may backfire depending on the girls (you would know better than I) since they are only a couple of years younger than you.

Tip D) Talk to them about the kicking. Say that any physical contact (unless you do physical contact) is prohibited and will get them into serous trouble.

Tip E) Talk to the parents. This is a last resort as the girls may hate you with resentment if you do this first. Tell them you don't know if a boy should be teaching girls of this age due to gender differences and that maybe they should be taught by a female until they are older and more mature. Do not mention the seeing you naked, kicking, and stuff unless they ask or it may seem as if you are "whining". Tell them the girls don't listen to you (if you have followed the above steps and they still aren't listening) and are not following directions, which are for their own safety


Hope that helps :)

This pretty much

mattdude_12345
February 24th, 2014, 11:15 AM
The exact same thing worries me.

pconnor2001
June 6th, 2014, 07:26 PM
We have boys only locker rooms so nudity is no big deal. We all shower together naked.

yami_no_kitsune
June 6th, 2014, 07:29 PM
i would defiantly talk to their parents

Living For Love
June 7th, 2014, 03:57 AM
This was bumped in January. :locked: