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brendacat
April 1st, 2013, 05:41 AM
im not sure but i think my brother has a crush on me

Ryhanna
April 1st, 2013, 05:48 AM
What are you asking, exactly?

brendacat
April 1st, 2013, 06:00 AM
if you guys think he does

Tristin.
April 1st, 2013, 06:03 AM
how can we have any idea if he does with an ambiguous statement such as "im not sure but i think my brother has a crush on me" details would be needed. but, i highly doubt he does.

brendacat
April 1st, 2013, 06:03 AM
hes been really nice to me lately
and keeps texting me winks --->

and on the way home from disneyland he was giving me a footrub and put my toe in his mouth

ethan 27
April 1st, 2013, 06:09 AM
more information.

Jinxxy
April 1st, 2013, 06:10 AM
... No, I think your brother is just a bit weird...

brendacat
April 1st, 2013, 06:10 AM
more than what i just gave?

Tristin.
April 1st, 2013, 06:17 AM
he is probably being a brother and trying to weird you out. however, if you feel uncomfortable, talk to him about it. he is the best person to tell you if he likes you or not

brendacat
April 1st, 2013, 06:21 AM
he is probably being a brother and trying to weird you out. however, if you feel uncomfortable, talk to him about it. he is the best person to tell you if he likes you or not

im not really sure how i wud bring it up

im a really shy person so this wud be kinda hard for me

and im pretty sure he likes me kinda alot

Tristin.
April 1st, 2013, 06:21 AM
just sit down with him and talk to him. i cant tell you how, but when you feel the situation is right to talk, talk to him :)

brockfalcon
April 3rd, 2013, 10:05 AM
ask him!

Southside
April 3rd, 2013, 10:16 AM
im not really sure how i wud bring it up

im a really shy person so this wud be kinda hard for me

and im pretty sure he likes me kinda alot

I dont really know how to respond to this, maybe you can try talk to him about it?

roadwarrior
April 3rd, 2013, 10:24 AM
ask him furthermore ...

Snowfall
April 3rd, 2013, 10:49 AM
Sounds more like a creepy pervert than a crush.
More details might've cleared this up somewhat, but for now I'm just gonna assume your brother might be sexually interested in you. Stuff like it happens you know.

brendacat
April 3rd, 2013, 02:14 PM
i asked him why he did it

sophiaLockhart
April 3rd, 2013, 02:55 PM
i asked him why he did it

and what did he say?

brendacat
April 3rd, 2013, 03:04 PM
and what did he say?

cuz my toes are yummy

johnsmith1
April 3rd, 2013, 03:08 PM
Toes are apparently a common fettish. How old is your brother? It might just be hormones. They do affect boys emotionally, so even though logically you are his sister, they do have an effect. If it bothers you, it may just be the case of having a quick word with him. Is he older or younger tha you?

NTTHRASH
April 3rd, 2013, 04:24 PM
Or maybe he just wants to be nice to you and is trying to strengthen your relationship...

Wanderer_
April 3rd, 2013, 06:15 PM
Brenda - it's entirely possible he does (and u r super cute do its understandable)
Just be careful, it's hard going back if I go to far

sophiaLockhart
April 3rd, 2013, 07:28 PM
I agree with both posters above, it could just be he enjoys feet and is doing it because he enjoys it and it doesn't have to be for a sexual reason,

and it could be to keep you relaxed and have a good relationship with his sister

brendacat
April 3rd, 2013, 08:00 PM
Toes are apparently a common fettish. How old is your brother? It might just be hormones. They do affect boys emotionally, so even though logically you are his sister, they do have an effect. If it bothers you, it may just be the case of having a quick word with him. Is he older or younger tha you?

hes 16

Lonely teen
April 3rd, 2013, 08:55 PM
Ok... And how do you feel about it

brendacat
April 4th, 2013, 04:32 AM
Ok... And how do you feel about it
im not sure what to feel really

gipsy danger
April 4th, 2013, 04:43 AM
it seems like you are accepting it. I'm not here to judge you because that isn't my place. but just watch out and think and think about the consequences of letting him do more then a foot rub

johnsmith1
April 4th, 2013, 08:32 AM
im not sure what to feel really

Sounds like you're a little curious (and there's nothing wrong with that). If you're OK with what he's doing, let him, as long as it keeps as harmless fun. If it start's going further and it bothers you, you just need to sit down with him alone (if that bothers you, at least do that with your parents somewhere else in the house, and walk away if need be).

Lonely teen
April 4th, 2013, 06:42 PM
It's ok to be curious but don't take it too far cause you can't really go back

BebeFleur.
April 4th, 2013, 07:14 PM
Should this be in Relationships&Dating?

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 01:41 AM
i talked to him some more and he said he does have a crush on me

im not sure what to do, i wanna do something but idk what to do.
i like him too

Lonely teen
April 5th, 2013, 06:37 PM
im not sure what to do, i wanna do something but idk what to do.
i like him too

well you guys should hang out with each other just a bit of advice if you guys get curious don't take it too far cause then comes the issues

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 06:41 PM
What is the status of you and your brother's relationship in the past?
Are you two close in general?

Reanne
April 5th, 2013, 06:51 PM
I know that sometimes brothers and sisters can share sexual curiosity. It's not unheard of for them to experiment sexually and this might be what's happening.

He might be sexually excited by you and want to touch you and please you. You might be feeling the same way.

It sounds like your both going through that curiosity stage :o

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 07:34 PM
we hung out all night last night

were both too shy to really do anything tho

we just held hands while watching a movie and he gave me a kiss on the cheek

What is the status of you and your brother's relationship in the past?
Are you two close in general?

normally we wud hate each other

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 07:52 PM
normally we wud hate each other

I mean have you lived with him your whole life?
Sometimes siblings that live separate for most of their life fall in love when they meet.
Idk what I'd do... :/
I guess if it makes you two happy, then that's alright, but keep in mind that it has a sort of taboo and might freak out some people. It's also frowned upon by some types of people.
I would avoid any sex because incest is probably illegal and will probably make things awkward for you two.

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 07:57 PM
I mean have you lived with him your whole life?
Sometimes siblings that live separate for most of their life fall in love when they meet.
Idk what I'd do... :/
I guess if it makes you two happy, then that's alright, but keep in mind that it has a sort of taboo and might freak out some people. It's also frowned upon by some types of people.
I would avoid any sex because incest is probably illegal and will probably make things awkward for you two.
yes weve lived together our whole lives

we did end up sleeping in the same bed tho cuz i fell asleep during the movie

idk if thats bad or not

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 08:27 PM
we did end up sleeping in the same bed tho cuz i fell asleep during the movie

idk if thats bad or not

I don't think that's a bad thing. :/

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 08:34 PM
I don't think that's a bad thing. :/

it was nice and warm and cuddly tho :)

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 08:51 PM
it was nice and warm and cuddly tho :)

That's cute :)

BebeFleur.
April 5th, 2013, 08:55 PM
I can't tell you what to do...but I wouldn't suggest doing anything. I mean he is your brother. It could just be hormones, or whatnot.

Don't do anything you'll later regret :)

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 08:56 PM
Agreed.
This is probably just a phase. Don't do anything you'll regret.
Play it safe.

BebeFleur.
April 5th, 2013, 08:58 PM
And have you talked this through with your brother?

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 08:59 PM
(Sorry wrong thread) edit

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 09:10 PM
And have you talked this through with your brother?

yeah

we want to do stuff but were both too shy

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 09:13 PM
Has your brother ever had a gf before?
Or have you ever had a bf before?

And we know your bro is 16, but how old are you?

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 09:43 PM
Has your brother ever had a gf before?
Or have you ever had a bf before?

And we know your bro is 16, but how old are you?

no we havent

im 14

BebeFleur.
April 5th, 2013, 09:47 PM
It could be hormones and curiosity if you've never been in a relationship.

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 09:55 PM
It could be hormones and curiosity if you've never been in a relationship.

That's what I'm thinking... :/ hmmm

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 09:58 PM
what shud i do?

Lonely teen
April 5th, 2013, 10:02 PM
we did end up sleeping in the same bed tho cuz i fell asleep during the movie

idk if thats bad or not

Nope not bad at all to my standards

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 10:04 PM
I would ask him a few things:
-Ask when he started crushing on you.
-Ask him how he feels about you specifically.
-Ask him how he feels about the (i'm going to call it a) mini-relationship.
-Ask him what he expects to get from it.
-Ask him why he feels this way.

It'd be helpful to know these things.

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 10:06 PM
I would ask him a few things:
-Ask when he started crushing on you.
-Ask him how he feels about you specifically.
-Ask him how he feels about the (i'm going to call it a) mini-relationship.
-Ask him what he expects to get from it.
-Ask him why he feels this way.

It'd be helpful to know these things.ok il get back to you in a bit

Lonely teen
April 5th, 2013, 10:07 PM
I would ask him a few things:
-Ask when he started crushing on you.
-Ask him how he feels about you specifically.
-Ask him how he feels about the (i'm going to call it a) mini-relationship.
-Ask him what he expects to get from it.
-Ask him why he feels this way.

It'd be helpful to know these things.

Good ideas

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 10:09 PM
One for you: does he know that it is really risky to have sex?

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 10:14 PM
I would ask him a few things:
-Ask when he started crushing on you.
-Ask him how he feels about you specifically.
-Ask him how he feels about the (i'm going to call it a) mini-relationship.
-Ask him what he expects to get from it.
-Ask him why he feels this way.

It'd be helpful to know these things.

- he said for a few months now
- he said he thinks im really cute and that he fantisezes about me alot
- he said that he wants that more then anything in the world
- he said he wants to love me and enjoy time with me
- cuz he thinks im cute and that he wants to be with me

Lonely teen
April 5th, 2013, 10:19 PM
- he said for a few months now
- he said he thinks im really cute and that he fantisezes about me alot
- he said that he wants that more then anything in the world
- he said he wants to love me and enjoy time with me
- cuz he thinks im cute and that he wants to be with me

Well do you have any probs with this info

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 10:19 PM
- he said for a few months now
- he said he thinks im really cute and that he fantisezes about me alot
- he said that he wants that more then anything in the world
- he said he wants to love me and enjoy time with me
- cuz he thinks im cute and that he wants to be with me

Hmmm...
He definitely likes you :P

Does he know that having sex with you isn't right?
What are your opinions about sex in general?
Tell us more about your brother. What's he like? What does he do?
Do your parents know about this?

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 10:42 PM
Hmmm...
He definitely likes you :P

Does he know that having sex with you isn't right?
What are your opinions about sex in general?
Tell us more about your brother. What's he like? What does he do?
Do your parents know about this?

idk
i dont have any optionions
he spends most of his time in his room playing video games
no they dont know

Lonely teen
April 5th, 2013, 10:47 PM
It's best if your parents stay out of this and you should ask him about if he knows having sex with you is not ok

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 10:50 PM
It's best if your parents stay out of this and you should ask him about if he knows having sex with you is not ok

he said he knows its bad but he really wants too

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 10:52 PM
hmm... well in that case, I'd just enjoy being close with him. I'm just worried that it will end with a sort of awkward heartbreak. Just make sure to steer clear of any sex. It's the best thing for both of you to not do it.

brendacat
April 5th, 2013, 10:59 PM
hmm... well in that case, I'd just enjoy being close with him. I'm just worried that it will end with a sort of awkward heartbreak. Just make sure to steer clear of any sex. It's the best thing for both of you to not do it.

thats what ive been trying to do.

i really enjoyed being close to him last night and having cuddles

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 10:59 PM
he said he knows its bad but he really wants too

If you two were to have sex, it would mess up your sibling relationship. It would make you both feel really guilty, and things would never be the same.

Also, if you were to get pregnant, then you'd be then looking at telling your parents that you two need help paying for either raising a baby (which could have some complications due to you being siblings and your genetics) or an abortion which is a terrible experience that messes with your hormones a lot.
Either way, it is a bad experience.

If I were you, I would tell him directly that it is wrong and that you won't do it with him.

__
I like cuddling too. In fact it's probably the best thing in the world. :)

Lonely teen
April 5th, 2013, 11:03 PM
If you two were to have sex, it would mess up your sibling relationship. It would make you both feel really guilty, and things would never be the same.

Also, if you were to get pregnant, then you'd be then looking at telling your parents that you two need help paying for either raising a baby (which could have some complications due to you being siblings and your genetics) or an abortion which is a terrible experience that messes with your hormones a lot.
Either way, it is a bad experience.

If I were you, I would tell him directly that it is wrong and that you won't do it with him.

__
I like cuddling too. In fact it's probably the best thing in the world. :)

Yup and the last part lol

CharlieHorse
April 5th, 2013, 11:09 PM
and the last part lol

Well it is! :P
Cuddling is the best. It's wonderful, and warm, and loving, and relaxing, and...

...and...

...I've never been cuddled :(

Lonely teen
April 5th, 2013, 11:09 PM
Well it is! :P
Cuddling is the best. It's wonderful, and warm, and loving, and relaxing, and...

...and...

...I've never been cuddled :(

Same :(

Lonely teen
April 5th, 2013, 11:10 PM
Lol it's funny how we are going off topic

Reanne
April 6th, 2013, 02:07 AM
I would think it's ok to touch and feel each other and talk about it, but I wouldn't have intercourse with him. You don't want the risk of pregnancy and have to explain that.

I have had show and tell with my younger brother, but that's all it was.

Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 01:11 PM
Also dont get me wronge i would totally have a curious mind if it came to this but its just i dont have a sibling of the opposite gender to experiment with. I just dont want to seem like a borning person with no sence of adventure lol

CharlieHorse
April 6th, 2013, 03:14 PM
Brenda you still there?

Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 04:13 PM
i wonder what happened

brendacat
April 6th, 2013, 07:08 PM
Brenda you still there?

i fell asleep

Lonely teen
April 6th, 2013, 07:10 PM
i fell asleep

Oh ok lol so nothing happened last night

brendacat
April 6th, 2013, 09:28 PM
Oh ok lol so nothing happened last night

just cuddles

BebeFleur.
April 6th, 2013, 09:30 PM
Okay...remember not to do anything spontaneous or that you will regret.

brendacat
April 7th, 2013, 10:33 AM
whats safe to do and not safe to do?

tundravortex
April 7th, 2013, 10:48 AM
needs a bit more detail but he sounds like a perv,ask him to stop if u dont like it

brendacat
April 7th, 2013, 02:00 PM
i didnt say i dont like it

BebeFleur.
April 7th, 2013, 05:42 PM
Not safe: Sex
Not MORAL: Kissing, cuddling sexually, sexual touching, etc.
Okay: Talking, cuddling non-sexually, etc.

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 04:03 PM
Not safe: Sex
Not MORAL: Kissing, cuddling sexually, sexual touching, etc.
Okay: Talking, cuddling non-sexually, etc.

oh :(
am i in trouble then?

BebeFleur.
April 8th, 2013, 04:05 PM
Well did you have sex?

By moral I mean that it is SAFE but it really shouldn't happen. I mean, sometimes in the moment things can get out of hand.

CharlieHorse
April 8th, 2013, 04:11 PM
I would say to not let him take your virginity.

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 04:24 PM
Well did you have sex?

By moral I mean that it is SAFE but it really shouldn't happen. I mean, sometimes in the moment things can get out of hand.

no
but we kissed alot and he showed me his penis

BebeFleur.
April 8th, 2013, 04:28 PM
Again, that is pretty safe, to a certain extent. However, it is not moral at all. Remember, he is your brother. Try to talk about it with him.

Celtic.
April 8th, 2013, 04:33 PM
April 1st, 2013 is when this was posting....were you all fooled? nah jk.
i think its weird for a sibling to show them there stuff if there not like 3 or 4

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 04:36 PM
Again, that is pretty safe, to a certain extent. However, it is not moral at all. Remember, he is your brother. Try to talk about it with him.

so its bad?

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 05:40 PM
so its bad?

It's not bad it's just all in good fun right? Everything is ok except for sex

fast8
April 8th, 2013, 05:42 PM
it not right to be doing that but it happens alot more then what pepole can think

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 05:43 PM
ok :)

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 05:45 PM
ok :)

Gosh I feel so jealous of what you guys are doing lol :P

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 05:46 PM
Gosh I feel so jealous of what you guys are doing lol :P

lol

wat else can we do thats not bad?

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 05:49 PM
lol

wat else can we do thats not bad?

Anything you can imagine that's not intercourse lol

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 05:56 PM
he really likes my feet

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 06:00 PM
A lot of guys have feet fetishes *cough* me

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 06:09 PM
A lot of guys have feet fetishes *cough* me

lol what would he like?

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 06:15 PM
Hmm well your feet obviously lol hmm well just tease him with your feet like play footsies like play with your feet when ever you can

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 07:13 PM
i Cant Reply To Your Pm

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 10:47 PM
Hmm well your feet obviously lol hmm well just tease him with your feet like play footsies like play with your feet when ever you can

i Cant Reply To Your Pm

brendacat
April 8th, 2013, 10:48 PM
Tonight I'm Spending The Night At his Place Tho

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 10:49 PM
i Cant Reply To Your Pm

It's ok

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 10:49 PM
Tonight I'm Spending The Night At his Place Tho

Cool i guess you can't wait huh lol

niren
April 9th, 2013, 12:19 AM
remember it is a crush, think what will happen if you do more and the crush dies.

brendacat
April 9th, 2013, 01:03 PM
We Had Alot Of Fun Last Night

Haz222
April 9th, 2013, 01:49 PM
Glad to hear it went well.

Like other people have said, it's best if you stick to stuff like cuddling, holding hands and feet stuff. I have a foot fetish myself, and I know doing stuff like foot rubs and tasting feet is harmless and fun, but again, like people have said don't start getting getting his penis involved, things could get out of control quickly.

brockfalcon
April 9th, 2013, 02:12 PM
just ask him!

SAR151
April 9th, 2013, 03:04 PM
Well it is! :P
Cuddling is the best. It's wonderful, and warm, and loving, and relaxing, and...

...and...

...I've never been cuddled :(

I miss it. I loved to cuddle.

Lonely teen
April 9th, 2013, 06:48 PM
We Had Alot Of Fun Last Night

Cool lol:whoops:

Lonely teen
April 15th, 2013, 06:51 PM
We Had Alot Of Fun Last Night

So how's it going

CharlieHorse
April 15th, 2013, 09:19 PM
How're you two doing?

dvd333
April 15th, 2013, 11:24 PM
I too have a foot fetish. I guess experiment with your feet only i guess. Just know yoir limitations

Nick24
April 19th, 2013, 11:54 PM
Ok I am one of those people who hates to be judgemental but what you are doing is very wrong. I am almost gonna guarantee you guys will end up having sex. You really need to stop this now and tell your brother its over. I garauntee you tht as soon as either one of you finds a gf or bf you will regret everything you did and most likely think it was disgusting

You guys are just being " young and stupid "(its a phrase im not actually calling you supid)

Nick24
April 19th, 2013, 11:56 PM
One more thing.

Keep in mind that being close to a brother or sister is being able to talk to each othe about anything not doing sexual things with each other

CharlieHorse
April 25th, 2013, 09:52 PM
How's it going with you and your brother Brenda?

ForrestGump
April 27th, 2013, 10:00 PM
What's the update now???

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 05:03 PM
hi, sorry i didnt reply for a while

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 05:06 PM
I too have a foot fetish. I guess experiment with your feet only i guess. Just know yoir limitations

yeah :)
we did alot of experimenting

Haz222
May 4th, 2013, 05:33 PM
What do you mean by 'experimenting' just out of curiosity? :)

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 05:42 PM
What do you mean by 'experimenting' just out of curiosity? :)

him playing with my feet

Haz222
May 4th, 2013, 05:45 PM
Sounds c

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 05:48 PM
Sounds c

ya :)

Haz222
May 4th, 2013, 05:58 PM
I know myself there's nothing better than when a girl lets you play with her feet. Glad to hear you and your brother are getting along well!

Do you enjoy it when he plays with your feet though? What does he do? Tickle, massage, lick, suck? Because if you enjoy it then you've found a way of fulfilling your urges whilst there are no concequences!

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 06:08 PM
I know myself there's nothing better than when a girl lets you play with her feet. Glad to hear you and your brother are getting along well!

Do you enjoy it when he plays with your feet though? What does he do? Tickle, massage, lick, suck? Because if you enjoy it then you've found a way of fulfilling your urges whilst there are no concequences!

lick andsuck and stuff
and ya its fun :)

Haz222
May 4th, 2013, 06:17 PM
Awesome! That's pretty much as far as foot fetish stuff can go without getting penises involved, and i agree with you, foot licking and toe sucking is very fun :)

You mentioned 'and stuff' at the end, does that mean anything in particular?

Anyway if you ever need advice on your brothers foot fetish, pm me. I pretty much know everything there is to know about having a foot fetish, and I like to help :)

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 06:18 PM
Awesome! That's pretty much as far as foot fetish stuff can go without getting penises involved, and i agree with you, foot licking and toe sucking is very fun :)

You mentioned 'and stuff' at the end, does that mean anything in particular?

Anyway if you ever need advice on your brothers foot fetish, pm me. I pretty much know everything there is to know about having a foot fetish, and I like to help :)

he likes sniffing my panties too

CharlieHorse
May 4th, 2013, 06:20 PM
he likes sniffing my panties too

That's a little... uhh... strange for a brother, but I guess there's no harm.

Haz222
May 4th, 2013, 06:27 PM
That's pretty cool, I can understand where he's coming from. But, again, please don't go doing anything you'll regret. Just stick to safe stuff like feet, which can be really fun, as we both know ;D

Perhaps try different stuff with your feet to keep to keep stuff interesting? Put melted chocolate on your toes and get him to lick it off? Basically, by keeping the feet stuff varied, it means you don't have urges to take stuff further, like having sex and other unsafe stuff.

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 06:29 PM
ya :)
we did that with whipped cream :)
he loved it :)
is it ok if he masturbates or not?

CharlieHorse
May 4th, 2013, 06:31 PM
is it ok if he masturbates or not?

I'd say that that's the max.
There are a few teens here that have masturbated with their bro or sis.

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 06:33 PM
I'd say that that's the max.
There are a few teens here that have masturbated with their bro or sis.

i dont be he does

Haz222
May 4th, 2013, 06:46 PM
If he enjoyed it then great! Like I said, keep the feet stuff varied, foot fetishists like me and your brother love it when girls put food on their feet! Also your willingness to explore with feet impresses me, since most 14 year old girls say 'eww feet' and don't give them a chance.

Try chocolate cake on your feet, that's what really gets me! And still 100% safe!

I'd say since you're both young and have such hormones, him masturbating isn't such a bad thing, just as long as there's no chance of you getting pregnant or an STD / STI.

Even if he came on your feet would still be safe, but I'd avoid it since if he 'misses' I guess, it only takes one little sperm for you to get pregnant! Just keep that in mind.

Just keep experimenting, keep changing your foot fetish stuff up. Masturbating for now is okay, but maybe let him know its time to cut down in the future.

Did you enjoy the food - on - feet stuff? Just interested cause if you did then there's a whole new way for you to vary the way you let him play with them tootsies!

Krash9
May 4th, 2013, 07:15 PM
i think lots people are curious about people in their fam ... its cool you guys have found a way to check it out

brendacat
May 4th, 2013, 09:03 PM
If he enjoyed it then great! Like I said, keep the feet stuff varied, foot fetishists like me and your brother love it when girls put food on their feet! Also your willingness to explore with feet impresses me, since most 14 year old girls say 'eww feet' and don't give them a chance.

Try chocolate cake on your feet, that's what really gets me! And still 100% safe!

I'd say since you're both young and have such hormones, him masturbating isn't such a bad thing, just as long as there's no chance of you getting pregnant or an STD / STI.

Even if he came on your feet would still be safe, but I'd avoid it since if he 'misses' I guess, it only takes one little sperm for you to get pregnant! Just keep that in mind.

Just keep experimenting, keep changing your foot fetish stuff up. Masturbating for now is okay, but maybe let him know its time to cut down in the future.

Did you enjoy the food - on - feet stuff? Just interested cause if you did then there's a whole new way for you to vary the way you let him play with them tootsies!

ya i dont mind :)
he really likes socks too
he likes to masturbate into my socks

jak926
May 4th, 2013, 11:57 PM
This has grown into a large saga.

superisaiah'99
May 5th, 2013, 01:34 AM
If he does he most likely wont tell you

superisaiah'99
May 5th, 2013, 01:56 AM
never mind what i just said i just found out that there are more pages im new thats why. But i guess it happens when a brother likes her sister. You are pretty though i could understand why he likes you. But if you ever get pregnant the baby might not be born right :confused:

XjojosX
May 5th, 2013, 07:53 AM
Well Brenda i see that your brother have a crush on you and i would like to tell you my opinion about it i hope you will not get mad at me or anything :) . So i see your brother has a crush on you because you are first girl that its close to him and give him some attention and you are cute also so its ok to have crush on you ;) but to be safe just play together and cuddle but no sex if you don't want and if you do it be sure you wanted to happen and that you will not regret it . In another hand maybe your Brother do all that because he likes you and he wants to be closer to you and he wants you to feel safe with him and that you can trust him your secrets and don't be shy with him with your body and he kinda want to protect you that why he cat sweet to you ... for example i would like the same ( except foot fetish ) if i had a younger sister

well i hope you didn't get mad at me and i would like to hear what you have to say about that :)

Haz222
May 5th, 2013, 09:34 AM
I'd say him masturbating into your socks isn't such a bad thing when a guy has a foot fetish its normal for him to want to jack off into a girls socks, just make sure the cum is dealt with properly after he's done.

If he insists on masturbation, lube up an Appletizer bottle or something similar and play about with it with your feet and toes in front of him whilst he jacks off - if a girl did that in front of me that would really get me going! Does that sound like something you would both be up for? Again, keeping it varied whilst still safe!

Keep us up to date on how you and your brother are doing and what you get up to! :)

dvd333
May 5th, 2013, 10:43 AM
yeah :)
we did alot of experimenting

How far has it gone?

brendacat
May 5th, 2013, 11:18 AM
I'd say him masturbating into your socks isn't such a bad thing when a guy has a foot fetish its normal for him to want to jack off into a girls socks, just make sure the cum is dealt with properly after he's done.

If he insists on masturbation, lube up an Appletizer bottle or something similar and play about with it with your feet and toes in front of him whilst he jacks off - if a girl did that in front of me that would really get me going! Does that sound like something you would both be up for? Again, keeping it varied whilst still safe!

Keep us up to date on how you and your brother are doing and what you get up to! :)
whats an appletiezer bottle?

CharlieHorse
May 5th, 2013, 11:40 AM
whats an appletiezer bottle?

http://www.amathusdrinks.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/5e06319eda06f020e43594a9c230972d/a/p/appletiser-bottle.jpg

brendacat
May 5th, 2013, 11:45 AM
im not sure what im spose to do

CharlieHorse
May 5th, 2013, 12:08 PM
im not sure what im spose to do

It was just a thought from that other dude.
He was thinking you could... umm... "use" the bottle with your feet.

Haz222
May 5th, 2013, 12:38 PM
Do you know what a handjob is? Basically give the bottle a handjob but with your toes and soles, that will really get him going. He'll probably want to masturbate whilst you do this, but for now that's okay IMO.

Anyway, just trying to give more suggestions for how you and him can explore, without risks.

Btw, a handjob with the feet is called a 'footjob' but I wouldn't recommend you two try this. Just stick to doing the footjob on the bottle if you feel like.

Does this seem like something you and him would be up for anyway?

brendacat
May 6th, 2013, 03:02 AM
Do you know what a handjob is? Basically give the bottle a handjob but with your toes and soles, that will really get him going. He'll probably want to masturbate whilst you do this, but for now that's okay IMO.

Anyway, just trying to give more suggestions for how you and him can explore, without risks.

Btw, a handjob with the feet is called a 'footjob' but I wouldn't recommend you two try this. Just stick to doing the footjob on the bottle if you feel like.

Does this seem like something you and him would be up for anyway?

i cud if i knew how i guess

Haz222
May 6th, 2013, 11:01 AM
Fair enough, just a little suggestion, that's all.

How often do you and your brother see each other, and how often will you and him do feet stuff?

brendacat
May 6th, 2013, 11:07 AM
Fair enough, just a little suggestion, that's all.

How often do you and your brother see each other, and how often will you and him do feet stuff?

like everyday

Haz222
May 6th, 2013, 11:17 AM
I see. I'm just worried that he'll get bored and want to do unsafe stuff, which obviously we don't want.

But, just keep the feet stuff varied and things should be fine. If you want to try the little thing, just ask him how it's done. Since he has a foot fetish he's probably seen footjob porn, but like I've said; don't actually give HIM a footjob!

Sound good? :)

brendacat
May 8th, 2013, 11:27 AM
I see. I'm just worried that he'll get bored and want to do unsafe stuff, which obviously we don't want.

But, just keep the feet stuff varied and things should be fine. If you want to try the little thing, just ask him how it's done. Since he has a foot fetish he's probably seen footjob porn, but like I've said; don't actually give HIM a footjob!

Sound good? :)

we tried it :)

Haz222
May 8th, 2013, 12:53 PM
Awesome :D how did it go?

brendacat
May 8th, 2013, 11:08 PM
Awesome :D how did it go?

fun :)

Haz222
May 9th, 2013, 09:53 AM
Glad to hear it :) did you both enjoy it? Because if you did then you've got another way of having fun without the consequences of more sexual stuff!

brendacat
May 10th, 2013, 02:33 AM
Glad to hear it :) did you both enjoy it? Because if you did then you've got another way of having fun without the consequences of more sexual stuff!

yeah :)

do you think it wud be bad if i got naked?

Haz222
May 10th, 2013, 10:20 AM
I personally don't think that you getting naked for him would be very moral, but that's down you your beliefs and what you think is too far. Since you're both young and experimenting I wouldn't worry about it too much.

But, it could stimulate more sexual stuff to happen - keep that in mind.

If you want to do it then go for it, you being naked isn't going to cause an STD or anything of course lol, but make sure that nothing further happens or you will regret it!

You being naked probably will make the experience more pleasurable and he probably will cum more if you do choose to try it, just make sure that he cums in a safe place, where there's no risks of STDs or pregnancy!

Also, something to keep in mind - your bro will probably want to cum on your feet at some point since he likes them so much. This is safe, just make sure the cum is dealt with properly. If he does make sure your feet are away from your vagina and other places where cum can cause problems. He will cum so much if you put your feet up and tell him to cum on them! but it's up to you if you want to try it - just a heads up for if he mentions it...

Btw, a foot fetishist wanting to cum on feet is completely normal - I'd love to cum on a girls feet!

Anyway, I'm glad the feet stuff is working, if you have any questions then don't hesitate to ask!

Lonely teen
May 10th, 2013, 10:57 AM
yeah :)

do you think it wud be bad if i got naked?

Not bad at all still remember to stay safe :yes:

johnsmith1
May 10th, 2013, 11:29 AM
yeah :)

do you think it wud be bad if i got naked?

Just read through most of this thread. It's nice that you have such a close relationship with our brother. Socks and panties are such a huge turn on for boys. This would be a MAJOR turn on for him. Again without getting to morals (as only you two will know what's close or not), again just set boundaries to avoid sex & getting pregnant. In terns of getting naked, how do you feel in terms of the closeness with your brother? What would happen if he were to try and touch you? What were to happen if he were to masturbate and cum on you? I'm not saying if these are right or wrong, or weather or not you use these as boundaries. If it doesn't bother you, it could give you a new unique closeness for a brother and sister have. If those questions truley bother you, you have a boundary in your relationship, that you and your brother can work on. I hope they don't scare you - only you and your brother can work what's right or wrong for your relationship.
Reading this thread, it does sound like you share a very special bond with your brother.

chrisawesome
May 10th, 2013, 11:29 PM
im not sure but i think my brother has a crush on me

What the fuck?

brendacat
May 11th, 2013, 02:28 AM
I personally don't think that you getting naked for him would be very moral, but that's down you your beliefs and what you think is too far. Since you're both young and experimenting I wouldn't worry about it too much.

But, it could stimulate more sexual stuff to happen - keep that in mind.

If you want to do it then go for it, you being naked isn't going to cause an STD or anything of course lol, but make sure that nothing further happens or you will regret it!

You being naked probably will make the experience more pleasurable and he probably will cum more if you do choose to try it, just make sure that he cums in a safe place, where there's no risks of STDs or pregnancy!

Also, something to keep in mind - your bro will probably want to cum on your feet at some point since he likes them so much. This is safe, just make sure the cum is dealt with properly. If he does make sure your feet are away from your vagina and other places where cum can cause problems. He will cum so much if you put your feet up and tell him to cum on them! but it's up to you if you want to try it - just a heads up for if he mentions it...

Btw, a foot fetishist wanting to cum on feet is completely normal - I'd love to cum on a girls feet!

Anyway, I'm glad the feet stuff is working, if you have any questions then don't hesitate to ask!

he really wants a footjob

CharlieHorse
May 11th, 2013, 02:39 AM
he really wants a footjob

Lol :P
As long as you two are safe, not getting pregnant, and you won't regret it later, I say do whatever you both feel comfortable with.
Just no intercourse because that's like the boundary.

Haz222
May 11th, 2013, 03:34 AM
I'd say since you two are young and experimenting, it's alright. But NOTHING more. I think that a footjob or handjob is probably the most acceptable thing you can do with his penis. He'll certainly prefer a footjob more lol.

Ofc, it's also down to what you think is moral and too far... Do you think you two would be up for it?

A footjob IS safe, just make sure that your feet are clean beforehand.

Also, he'll be sure to cum more than he has when you were doing other stuff. He'll probably want to cum on your feet, which again, is safe, but down again to what you think is moral and too far. Again, I think that since you two are young and experimenting it's alright for now.

Make sure the cum is nowhere near where it could cause problems!

If you both decide you're up for it, just do what you've been doing on the bottle and it will go fine. But remember, this is the farthest you two can go IMO. Make sure that it doesn't go any further.

If you're going to do it, use plenty of lube.

Anyway, if you have anything else to ask, just ask! :)

Lonely teen
May 17th, 2013, 01:32 AM
he really wants a footjob

Well give it to him lol

Haz222
May 17th, 2013, 07:39 PM
Well give it to him lol
That's basically what I was trying to say aha, as long as your both up for it, are aware of the risks and use a lot of lube! :D

Matt723
May 17th, 2013, 11:35 PM
I think he is going through a faze and just likes the fact that he has a sister.

brendacat
May 24th, 2013, 02:54 AM
I'd say since you two are young and experimenting, it's alright. But NOTHING more. I think that a footjob or handjob is probably the most acceptable thing you can do with his penis. He'll certainly prefer a footjob more lol.

Ofc, it's also down to what you think is moral and too far... Do you think you two would be up for it?

A footjob IS safe, just make sure that your feet are clean beforehand.

Also, he'll be sure to cum more than he has when you were doing other stuff. He'll probably want to cum on your feet, which again, is safe, but down again to what you think is moral and too far. Again, I think that since you two are young and experimenting it's alright for now.

Make sure the cum is nowhere near where it could cause problems!

If you both decide you're up for it, just do what you've been doing on the bottle and it will go fine. But remember, this is the farthest you two can go IMO. Make sure that it doesn't go any further.

If you're going to do it, use plenty of lube.

Anyway, if you have anything else to ask, just ask! :)

weve had alot of fun with it

Sharona
May 24th, 2013, 05:03 AM
Does he check you out, try see you changing etc?

Haz222
May 24th, 2013, 10:21 AM
Good to hear your having fun :D are you using the techniques you used on the bottle? Also, did he cum on your feet? If so, did you enjoy it? Not everyone's comfortable with cum on their feet, so just making sure :) did you use plenty of lube? Cause it can really hurt if no enough lube is used.

Again, glad to hear things are working out well! :D

Stich10
May 24th, 2013, 10:27 AM
im not sure but i think my brother has a crush on me

Are you sure this isn't part of incest ?

Haz222
May 24th, 2013, 11:04 AM
Are you sure this isn't part of incest ?
Yes.

Incest is having sexual intercourse with a parent, child, sibling, or grandchild.

sixguy6
May 24th, 2013, 05:04 PM
:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

Haz222
May 25th, 2013, 01:54 PM
:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

Dude. The last two posts I've seen you make are ones where you're wierded out. If you're not going to post anything helpful / useful, don't post at all.

Rant over.

GigglyAbby
May 25th, 2013, 07:45 PM
im not sure but i think my brother has a crush on me

I would have confronted him on the footrub and asked what the texts meant. This is definitely pretty risky and cuddling together opened up a huge can of worms and I'm afraid that one or both of you will get hurt. Seriously -- please stop doing this before you get caught miss a period or get pregnant.

Are you sure this isn't part of incest ?

If you kept reading this thread -- that's what it looks like it's headed or heading to.

Tonight I'm Spending The Night At his Place Tho

You 2 don't live together or is this a different crush?

brendacat
May 25th, 2013, 08:30 PM
Good to hear your having fun :D are you using the techniques you used on the bottle? Also, did he cum on your feet? If so, did you enjoy it? Not everyone's comfortable with cum on their feet, so just making sure :) did you use plenty of lube? Cause it can really hurt if no enough lube is used.

Again, glad to hear things are working out well! :D

yeah :)

Haz222
May 26th, 2013, 03:54 AM
I would have confronted on the footrub and asked what the texts meant. This is definitely pretty risky and cuddling together opened up a huge can of worms and I'm afraid that one or both of you will get hurt. Seriously -- please stop doing this before you get caught miss a period or get pregnant.



If you kept reading this thread -- that's what it looks like it's headed or heading to.



You 2 don't live together or is this a different crush?
I don't see how cuddling can instantly put you under the threat of getting pregnant? If you DID read the thread, you'll see they've got it sorted out.

Also, it's not incest, as they've not had sex and probably not going to since they've both found a way of satisfying themselves through foot fetish.

I'm also guessing that they don't live together, to answer your third question.

GigglyAbby
May 26th, 2013, 02:35 PM
I don't see how cuddling can instantly put you under the threat of getting pregnant? If you DID read the thread, you'll see they've got it sorted out..

Brothers and sisters typically don't cuddle and secondly brothers and sisters don't do handjobs or footjobs on each other. Brothers don't typically show their sister their penis. She's posted that they agreed on a footjob but we don't know that's the furthest they've gone or will go. It's quite possible that one or both of them may defy limits set and it could be worse than we imagine.

Make sure the cum is nowhere near where it could cause problems!

I gather you mentioned this to prevent her from getting pregnant.


Also, it's not incest, as they've not had sex and probably not going to since they've both found a way of satisfying themselves through foot fetish.

I looked up incest on dictionary.com and 2 definitions call incest "sexual relations" between relatives. I then looked up sexual relations and typically that defers to intercourse. But, in today's society thanks to the Bill Clinton scandal -- some consider oral sex to be a sexual relationship. So depending on one's broad definition they may be engaging in incest.

Haz222
May 26th, 2013, 02:54 PM
It's up to Brenda and her brother to decide how far they want to go, and its up to Brenda to tell us what she wants to. I'm just trying to keep them away from pregnancy and STDs.

In reply to your 'preventing pregnancy' comment, of course.

And again, it's up to Brenda and her brother to decide what incest means for them.

Appypollylogges
May 26th, 2013, 03:31 PM
if you guys think he does

How should I know :) ?
You would be the one to know or not.

teen.jpg
May 26th, 2013, 06:56 PM
Why would that be the first thought you would have for him doing that? I doubt he actually likes you.

CyrustheGreat
May 26th, 2013, 08:42 PM
well, brenda, i think you and your brother are handling it well. but if you ask me, your giving him too much leeway. at some point he may ask for the "full package" and you wont be able to say no. YOU should be the one telling HIM what YOU want. just saying.

brendacat
May 28th, 2013, 03:41 AM
i feel like people here are mad at me

Stronk Serb
May 28th, 2013, 04:25 AM
Not really.

CyrustheGreat
May 28th, 2013, 04:15 PM
i feel like people here are mad at me

im not mad at you, but im just saying. you can have what you want out of this 'relationship' too.

Sti kid
May 28th, 2013, 06:47 PM
well i would talk to him about that...it isnt too normal but it does happen

SniperKing
June 1st, 2013, 12:25 AM
I doubt it...

Nick24
June 7th, 2013, 10:40 PM
It's up to Brenda and her brother to decide how far they want to go, and its up to Brenda to tell us what she wants to. I'm just trying to keep them away from pregnancy and STDs.

In reply to your 'preventing pregnancy' comment, of course.

And again, it's up to Brenda and her brother to decide what incest means for them.

Im sorry but are you stupid?

Incest isnt something you decide. Its a word with a meaning which is, any sexual act with blood related siblings is illegal.

dukeboy73
June 8th, 2013, 12:02 AM
people need to quit bugging and critisizing her its her life and she is aloud to live it without you negative inputs.

dukeboy73
June 8th, 2013, 12:03 AM
sorry for the blow up its just i read the whole convo and some peoples choice of words just P.M.O

dukeboy73
June 8th, 2013, 12:04 AM
Im sorry but are you stupid?

Incest isnt something you decide. Its a word with a meaning which is, any sexual act with blood related siblings is illegal.

now this is just a pefect example for my earlier post.

Haz222
June 8th, 2013, 03:15 AM
Im sorry but are you stupid?

Incest isnt something you decide. Its a word with a meaning which is, any sexual act with blood related siblings is illegal.
Incest has two meanings, sexual actions its s relative or sexual intercourse with a relative.

I don't know why there's two, there just is.

They haven't had sexual intercourse, nor are they going to.

Haz222
June 8th, 2013, 04:56 AM
Anyway, to my knowledge, what they have been doing is incest, but it's only a crime if they have sex, which they haven't done and they're not going to. That's Googles definition of it anyway...

With that, I feel that it's time for me to leave the forums. I feel like I've given all the advice I can, and in my opinion a majority of the post are dudes asking girls how they masturbate.

Say what you want to this, but I'm not going to reply.

Peace guys.

dukeboy73
June 8th, 2013, 09:45 AM
Anyway, to my knowledge, what they have been doing is incest, but it's only a crime if they have sex, which they haven't done and they're not going to. That's Googles definition of it anyway...

With that, I feel that it's time for me to leave the forums. I feel like I've given all the advice I can, and in my opinion a majority of the post are dudes asking girls how they masturbate.

Say what you want to this, but I'm not going to reply.

Peace guys.

exactly finally someone that makes sense.

MrROGERS
June 8th, 2013, 11:41 AM
so is her brother and her having sex? :O

Nick24
June 14th, 2013, 02:35 AM
people need to quit bugging and critisizing her its her life and she is aloud to live it without you negative inputs.

I am not criticizing her life at all. Its hers to do with what she wants to do. All I was saying was that it was stupid to say incest is something you can choose the meaning of. Earlier I said my view on her doing these things with her brother and said that what he is doing should stop as in most cases it doesn't matter how much you think you can keep it in line it leads to something bad. I did not criticize anything I just said it would be a good idea for her to stop.

silentscreamer
June 27th, 2013, 03:48 AM
Give your relation some space and be open to him. It seems he is confused by your attitude. Have you guys seen each others privates?

Jasperf
June 27th, 2013, 05:29 AM
im not sure but i think my brother has a crush on me

if you guys think he does

Gal, how are we supposed to know... More info! And I highly doubt it

Blablabla36489
June 27th, 2013, 03:49 PM
He's just kidding!

CyrustheGreat
July 2nd, 2013, 10:02 PM
Gal, how are we supposed to know... More info! And I highly doubt it

He's just kidding!

so is her brother and her having sex? :O

I doubt it...

well i would talk to him about that...it isnt too normal but it does happen

guys, if you would take the time to read all of the story, your questions would be answered. just sayin.

noamillr
July 2nd, 2013, 10:08 PM
That's illegal...

Jasperf
July 2nd, 2013, 10:50 PM
guys, if you would take the time to read all of the story, your questions would be answered. just sayin.

Well she should have put it in her question, not expected us to read all of the answers!

CyrustheGreat
July 3rd, 2013, 01:12 AM
Well she should have put it in her question, not expected us to read all of the answers!

well, when you were scrolling down the page to ask a question, you didnt see that there are 10 pages, and didnt think to look and see if your question has already been asked? thats just lazy man.

Jasperf
July 3rd, 2013, 01:14 AM
well, when you were scrolling down the page to ask a question, you didnt see that there are 10 pages, and didnt think to look and see if your question has already been asked? thats just lazy man.

No, because I didn't scoll, I quoted her

CyrustheGreat
July 3rd, 2013, 01:25 AM
this is pointless. she already has it figured out.