Trying to find a girlfriend. Advice please?

[peaceNlove]

Okay so, i recently accepted that I'm bisexual, I've known for a while now but recently decided to accept that that was who i am know(hopefully that made sense) i came out to two people so far and will continue to come out to different people. Okay anyways, so i want a girlfriend really bad. I just feel like i could have a better connection with a girl than with a guy so i want to see how a relationship with a girl goes. But I don't know where to start. I guess what I mean is, I don't know how to find out if a girl is bi or lesbian. So how do I find out? Sorry for my ignorance, I'm new to this, lol.

[ReginaGeorge]

If your school has some sort of LGBTQ+ club, like a Queer-Straight Alliance, definitely get involved in that. If you don't look into starting it up yourself! Other than LGBTQ+ clubs, other than actually asking a girl, there's no way to know. Of course actually asking can be embarrassing for both of you, and it may stir up feelings if the girl is in the closet, but it's still worth a shot. The more open you are about your own bisexuality, the more others may be with theirs with you. You know? Gay people usually have gay friends. It can be hard, but don't worry, you'll find someone. You just gotta put yourself out there. Also keep community/local LGBTQ+ groups in mind. Google for ones in your area that you could join. :) Also *again lol* to make yourself a little more open, like LGBTQ+ related Facebook pages so it's a bit more obvious (not all people who like those pages will be bi/gay, but there is a higher chance).

[peaceNlove]

Okay, thanks so much! Well, I'm already apart of a GSA, but non of the girls are my type. But I will do all of the other stuff. Thanks again:)

[Smeagol]

Where I live there's a gay teens center called ten Rainbow Room. Is the something like that in your town?

[peaceNlove]

I actually don't know, but that would be awesome! I'll look into it and see if my city has it. Thanks:)

[JoeHillsTSD]

Cheek around. Bi girls,especially at my school, seem to be extremely open about their sexuality. I've had girls let me know within 5 mins of meeting them that they are bi. Check with your friends, they should know who is what. Especially your gay or bi friends, they are more likely to know who is and isn't gay/bi. Check out any LGBTQ clubs or groups, they will definitely have girls who are gay or bi. And, if you have to, simply ask someone.

[peaceNlove]

Oh yea i could do that. Thanks!:)

[Smeagol]

Wear a rainbow bracelet, I always check people's wrists for rainbow bracelets! That way I can tell whether to approach them or not.

[peaceNlove]

Wear a rainbow bracelet, I always check people's wrists for rainbow bracelets! That way I can tell whether to approach them or not.

Oh yea! Lol, I'll do that.