The fact of the matter.

[NTTHRASH]

OK, I need some help from you guys. There's this girl I really like(I know, I know, so cliche), and she really likes me too. She keeps asking me to the dances at our school, and I repeatedly say no because I want to ask her to a dance later in our junior/senior years so that is is more special. However, when I try to ask her out, she is always busy(for real, she is out of state AGAIN this week) and I can't set a date with her. What do you think? Should I continue attempting to ask her out outside of school dances, or finally go with her to one and see if it sticks?

[NTTHRASH]

Can anybody help me?

[ReginaGeorge]

Say yes when she asks you! Come on, dude. You can still make it special later, you can get rose petals and get down on one knee or whatever you were planning, but for now, if you want any kind of relationship with her, you need to suck it up and accept her offers! If you don't, you may not even get the chance to ask her later. So do it! You are wasting valuable time!

[NTTHRASH]

I kind of see what you mean, but I don't want it to be too early, and I'm not just in it for the hell of it. I just personally wanted her to feel like I really care. Perhaps she would feel better this way, but I'm not going to act all I deserve you and things of that sort...

[NTTHRASH]

Is there any more advice from anyone?

[peaceNlove]

I think you should go with the dances that she's inviting you to. I know you want to do something special for her, but just save that for another time. You guys need to just start going out first. And you don't want her to move on to so one else because you guys haven't had a date yet.

[NTTHRASH]

Well, she doesn't seem to like anyone else, so I have at least some time, but I really, really don't want to lose her. I just don't know how to ask when she is always busy, and I don't want to be pushy or clingy.

[unnamed94]

if you keep saying no every time she asks you to a dance maybe she will get tired of waiting for you to accept or to make your move. she could just decide to move on. go with her to a dance. plan ahead if you keep having problems with her being busy all the time, and that way you can prepare something nice for her. then if you later end up in a relationship with her you can make all those things that you feel are special. dances can be special for her even if they arent on your junior/senior years.

[NTTHRASH]

if you keep saying no every time she asks you to a dance maybe she will get tired of waiting for you to accept or to make your move. she could just decide to move on. go with her to a dance. plan ahead if you keep having problems with her being busy all the time, and that way you can prepare something nice for her. then if you later end up in a relationship with her you can make all those things that you feel are special. dances can be special for her even if they arent on your junior/senior years.

Maybe I'm just being too cautious. I really don't want to screw up with her, and so I've been overly concerned. Thanks to all who helped out! ^_^

[peaceNlove]

Maybe I'm just being too cautious. I really don't want to screw up with her, and so I've been overly concerned. Thanks to all who helped out! ^_^

Good luck with her! I hope everything works out well:)