no privacy.........

[xxPerryPlatypusxx]

I am getting so fucking pissed off with my boyfriend
he goes onto my online stuff and reads everything and then gets mad
he went on this account and found nothing so then he signed onto my teen forumz account and teen hut and got pissed off with what he found
i wrote a thread about hating my life and wanting to kill myself
he doesn't trust me. i screw up everytime he goes away
whenever he goes away i talk to my ex
i cheated on him with my ex over a year ago.. and he still won't let it go
this relationship is starting to really stress me out
he doesn't trust me.... he even didnt believe me when I had a friend over the other night and he made me send him a picture to make sure it wasn't a guy
he assumes I am gonna cheat on him with everyone or anything
I just can't take this privacy problem anymore
he knows all my passwords. hes so insecure....
ps: we have been together for 15 months
idk what to do :(

[Abyssal Echo]

according to my mom Trust and open communication is the foundation to a good/solid relationship. No trust = No relationship. I've seen it twice My Father and my X step dad both cheated on my mom. both times she forgave them and tried to make it work.
both ended the same. Divorce
I can't tell you what to do. if it was me I'd break up with him then change all my user names and pass words.

[xxPerryPlatypusxx]

alright thanks for the help

[justinglives]

1) change ure passwords, then dont vive them to him so he cant access
2) change the locks.
3) dump him and ***RUN*** . It is never gunna get better than what ure seeing right now, and u deaerve SSSOOOOOO much more than this abuse! (and thats exactly what it is)

[sprouse530]

i agree trust is key if you have no trust then you have no relationship, keep us posted on how everything went thanks and good luck PM me if you need to talk

[Ryhanna]

I think some people in this thread are being a bit too hard on the guy. It sounds like he's just scared of losing her and overly worried that she's going to hurt him, if you ask me.

Try asking him to trust you and respect your privacy. That's the only way that a relationship can work. A relationship we're either party fails to be able to trust just turns into them being paranoid.

Also, if this relationship is stressing you out, it's a good idea to re-evaluate it. Are you still happy in this relationship?

[bored4evah]

Dump him

[kye.]

I am getting so fucking pissed off with my boyfriend
he goes onto my online stuff and reads everything and then gets mad
he went on this account and found nothing so then he signed onto my teen forumz account and teen hut and got pissed off with what he found
i wrote a thread about hating my life and wanting to kill myself
he doesn't trust me. i screw up everytime he goes away
whenever he goes away i talk to my ex
i cheated on him with my ex over a year ago.. and he still won't let it go
this relationship is starting to really stress me out
he doesn't trust me.... he even didnt believe me when I had a friend over the other night and he made me send him a picture to make sure it wasn't a guy
he assumes I am gonna cheat on him with everyone or anything
I just can't take this privacy problem anymore
he knows all my passwords. hes so insecure....
ps: we have been together for 15 months
idk what to do :(
Like the other person said, trust is the most important thing in the relationship. If there's no trust, there's no relationship.