hate my life

[Maras]

I think I hate my life. I am not very smart, handsome, rich, athletic, etc. I have no real close friend. I just want to die. Is it good way?

[xxPerryPlatypusxx]

no you need to have better self esteem and confidence in yourself
don't hate your life. you have so much potential
don't give up just yet. imagine the things you would miss out on
starting a new future. getting married. kids education career
little things like that keep me going :)
just be strong and have faith in yourself
don't kill yourself your life is too valued

[Harley Quinn]

I think I hate my life. I am not very smart, handsome, rich, athletic, etc. I have no real close friend. I just want to die. Is it good way?

You don't need all those things you've mentioned to happy, sure they're a bonus but you don't actually need them. You can be happy with yourself regardless of what you have or don't have. Pick yourself up, brush the dirt off and continue trying. You want to give up? Go ahead. It will not make you feel better though. It never does. Sure it feels great to relapse every once in awhile however, you end up getting sucked straight back into the cycle of hating yourself.

Sometimes, it helps to take a step back and look at the grand scheme of things. Perhaps then you’ll realise just how stupid it would be to spend another minute worrying and stressing about things you won’t even care about or remember a year from now. No, I’m not saying what you’re feeling and worrying about is stupid, I’m saying will you really remember in a years time what you were pissed off about? I doubt it. The only things to really care about are the things in the present. You can’t predict the future. Just take it one day at a time, and you’ll see it does get easier. Why worry about things that you can’t change, you shouldn't want to change those things. Yes, it’s shit. Yes what you've been through and what you’re going through is real, it doesn't mean you have to let it define you.

Think about things that make you happy, things that you want to achieve and keep a hold of that and just fight for it. Everyone has ambitions, if you don't find one, and fight with all your heart for it. Just don't give up or give in, you're stronger than that and you will be okay. You will be.

[crepesuzette]

I think I hate my life. I am not very smart, handsome, rich, athletic, etc. I have no real close friend. I just want to die. Is it good way?

you don't need to be rich, handsome, athletic, or smart. I am neither handsome nor rich nor athletic. I cannot even play basketball well. But am i gonna go on moping about something like that? no.

[Maras]

Thanks you for repplies. I always wanted to run marathones. My parents don't let me practice. They think I am too young. I wanted to go to one of the best school in my country, they said I am not enough smart. Sometimes I want to pack my things into a backpack and go out from home.

[Harley Quinn]

Thanks you for repplies. I always wanted to run marathones. My parents don't let me practice. They think I am too young. I wanted to go to one of the best school in my country, they said I am not enough smart. Sometimes I want to pack my things into a backpack and go out from home.

You don't have to do what your parents say, if you want to run, you go run whenever you have time. You don't have to tell them that's what you're doing. If that's what you want, that's what you do. Sometimes you'll realise the things that happen now, don't define your future. Only you can define it. Ask if you can stay at a friends place for a couple of days, assuming they'll let you.

[Maras]

You don't have to do what your parents say, if you want to run, you go run whenever you have time. You don't have to tell them that's what you're doing. If that's what you want, that's what you do. Sometimes you'll realise the things that happen now, don't define your future. Only you can define it. Ask if you can stay at a friends place for a couple of days, assuming they'll let you.

I haven't really close good friend to do that. ;( I was always lonely.