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crepesuzette
March 31st, 2013, 01:24 PM
After I masturbate, I feel a little bit guilty every time. Then again, I'm not the only guy who jerks off and I'm only human. Plus, my hormones are raging, so there's no reason why I should be worried.
So does anyone ever feel guilty about doing it?

ChanChan976
March 31st, 2013, 01:31 PM
You just might feel like your hiding part of yourself from the world, which is fine. The world doesnt always need to know what your doing in your private time.

Xpert
March 31st, 2013, 01:38 PM
Never feel guilty. First, understand that what you are doing is enjoyable and you like it. And whatever you do which brings pleasure to you should not make you feel guilty. Also, know that almost everybody do this!

johnsmith1
March 31st, 2013, 01:45 PM
I don't feel guilty. Quite often I hear people that say that have been brought up by parents (or other people) telling them it's wrong, when in fact pretty much every male starts once through puberty. Enjoy it.

Poopie
March 31st, 2013, 01:51 PM
I never feel guilty. After I jack off I feel great I'm calm and stress less. I don't no why you feel guilty because everyone does it. Your not a freak the ones who don't are odd.

The captain
March 31st, 2013, 01:55 PM
yep...sometimes happened to me, but not all the time

crepesuzette
March 31st, 2013, 01:58 PM
You just might feel like your hiding part of yourself from the world, which is fine. The world doesnt always need to know what your doing in your private time.

I don't really want to hide. If I can't do it in public, what makes you think I can in private?
Plus it seems like everybody knows when I walk out into the streets. There are just people staring at me as though they had been told.

brodyk15
April 1st, 2013, 07:18 PM
I don't feel guilty anymore. I feel energy drained but fulfilled. It has its own feeling really.

VirtualGuy012
April 1st, 2013, 08:05 PM
I used to be the same way. After a while i got over the guilty feeling, and sometimes i still feel guilty but for the most part i don't.

JoaoBraz
April 2nd, 2013, 12:56 PM
It happens to me 2.
So i guess by the post's here that its normal

RunnerRunner
April 2nd, 2013, 03:20 PM
never felt guilty, but i think ive felt something similar.

Jose
April 2nd, 2013, 04:19 PM
I never feel guilty i believe masturbation is a natural and normal part of human nature also and certain othes speies also do it like ape and 6nkey s

itsthat0n3kid
April 2nd, 2013, 05:32 PM
i used to when i was younger, but not as much anymore.

russjr08
April 2nd, 2013, 05:49 PM
I used to, but not as much anymore. Just remember though that you're not the only person in the world who masturbates and your def. not the only one who feels guilty about it in the end.

Srhmrh
April 2nd, 2013, 09:27 PM
still feel guilty until now cause I'm tied to a strict religion. but I still do it because the pleasure I get is stronger than the guilt I feeel haha :)

boring_guy
April 2nd, 2013, 10:19 PM
I've never been told masturbating is wrong, I've been brought up pretty well, but still I can't help but feeling like total shit, either. It's like, I'll do it one night, and the next day the fact that I did so will always pop up in my mind in social interactions with people, and I wont be able to focus. My corrupt mind takes over and just....bleheheh bad things happen in my mind

PinkFloyd
April 2nd, 2013, 10:21 PM
I feel guilty after I have sex. I mean I am positive that my girlfriends parents would never have any respect for me like they do now if they ever found out.

Alec0987
April 3rd, 2013, 01:30 AM
IDK, I sometimes feel guilty.

Hermes
April 4th, 2013, 07:34 PM
I feel relaxed, content and a bit sleepy afterwards and not at all horny.

The guilty feeling is not an inevitable part of the feeling after orgasm. It is more the case that if you have received messages, even unconscious ones, from those around you that sex and/or masturbation is wrong that feeling is overridden by being horny and once your horniness has gone the feeling about it being wrong is once again exposed.

It may be that you have picked up that fine from adults hiding sexual things from you to "preserve your innocence". If so they will tend to do that less as you get older and sex will be more openly discussed which can help with this. In some places masturbation seems to be a particular taboo even amongst sexual discussion. Then reason for this may be religious or it may simple be the perception that masturbation is a second rate activity compared to sex and only done by those not good enough to get the sex they want. Of course this is a false perception. If most guys were asked directly choose masturbation or sex most would go for sex but very few guys get their whole sexual appetite satisfied from sex and for many guys masturbation is their only sexual outlet or a big part of their sexual outlet; they do it frequently, get a lot of pleasure from it, are calmer as a result and at the same time help protect themselves from prostate cancer later in life.

crepesuzette
April 4th, 2013, 07:49 PM
I don't feel guilty anymore. I feel energy drained but fulfilled. It has its own feeling really.

yeah me too. i feel like hitting the hay afterward.

crepesuzette
April 4th, 2013, 07:53 PM
I feel relaxed, content and a bit sleepy afterwards and not at all horny.

The guilty feeling is not an inevitable part of the feeling after orgasm. It is more the case that if you have received messages, even unconscious ones, from those around you that sex and/or masturbation is wrong that feeling is overridden by being horny and once your horniness has gone the feeling about it being wrong is once again exposed.

It may be that you have picked up that fine from adults hiding sexual things from you to "preserve your innocence". If so they will tend to do that less as you get older and sex will be more openly discussed which can help with this. In some places masturbation seems to be a particular taboo even amongst sexual discussion. Then reason for this may be religious or it may simple be the perception that masturbation is a second rate activity compared to sex and only done by those not good enough to get the sex they want. Of course this is a false perception. If most guys were asked directly choose masturbation or sex most would go for sex but very few guys get their whole sexual appetite satisfied from sex and for many guys masturbation is their only sexual outlet or a big part of their sexual outlet; they do it frequently, get a lot of pleasure from it, are calmer as a result and at the same time help protect themselves from prostate cancer later in life.

i wish i felt like you. relaxed after doing it. but i feel warm inside because i guzzle down a bottle of water to filter out any impurities. i used to be under the impression that if i ejaculated often, then i would be able to get rid of the cancer causing substances in there. i would do it when i was hot or itching like heck.
i feel like the even the smallest urge cannot be resisted.

justinglives
April 4th, 2013, 08:14 PM
I never feel "guilty" or wanna hide.
I just loose all horniness for a while and clean up the mess.

crepesuzette
April 4th, 2013, 08:27 PM
I never feel "guilty" or wanna hide.
I just loose all horniness for a while and clean up the mess.

and how do you do that?

virtualteen97
April 4th, 2013, 09:05 PM
i only get guilty sometimes but if i do its pretty bad lol

billys-big-gun
April 5th, 2013, 12:52 AM
After i masterbate i feel a strong tingling release and i cant get enough. i have to do it more or have sex because my penis stays fully hard until i cant jerkoff or cum anymore then im happy. idk i guessed im messed up in my brain when it comes to masterbating or having sex i like it too much i guess.

Byzantium
April 5th, 2013, 12:58 AM
When I first started, I couldnt help feeling a little guilty afterwards, but that doesnt happen anymore.

justinglives
April 5th, 2013, 01:01 AM
and how do you do that?

Usually, if I jo dry, I have a couple of tissues handy and either shoot right into them, or wipe off my chest and stomach if I just let it fly.........

Young Wolf
April 5th, 2013, 01:37 AM
Its normal to feel that way after jo but the older you get the less you feel that way until it stops altogether.

justinglives
April 5th, 2013, 01:40 AM
and how do you do that?

Dry? 6 out of 7 times.
Clean up? Every time.
I let it fly o.ly when im really friggin horny, and im gunna shoot rather than dribble......

cashyy
April 5th, 2013, 01:53 AM
When I first started, I felt guilty, but now, I just want to relax lol

Dominic Aesch7
April 5th, 2013, 08:34 PM
A strange mixture of guilt,relief, pleasure, and shame. It confuses me so much

crepesuzette
April 5th, 2013, 11:30 PM
discussion closed.

Mark20
April 6th, 2013, 01:41 AM
yeah sometimes i'll feel a little bit guilty haha

benang
April 6th, 2013, 08:11 AM
Sometimes i feel guilty to

Macman11
April 6th, 2013, 11:30 AM
idk...sometimes

andrew1997
April 6th, 2013, 02:11 PM
I used to a little bit, but not anymore

YOUR BROTHER
April 6th, 2013, 02:13 PM
im always feeling guilty but i love to do it so i really dont care about my guilty feeling anymore

PaPa
April 6th, 2013, 04:52 PM
I do and hate that feeling...

Haydenn3
April 6th, 2013, 04:54 PM
I feel a little sleepy and content may i ask why do you guys feel guilty?

Volleyballboy98
April 6th, 2013, 04:55 PM
That is normal

iAmJB
April 8th, 2013, 05:44 PM
I use to feel this way , all guilty but now I just feel relaxed .

Lonely teen
April 8th, 2013, 05:48 PM
No I don't I feel like all my probs in the world are gone for that short, good moment lol

crepesuzette
April 13th, 2013, 01:23 AM
No I don't I feel like all my probs in the world are gone for that short, good moment lol

yeah and then your problems rush back to you later.

Lonely teen
April 13th, 2013, 04:19 AM
yeah and then your problems rush back to you later.

Exactly

Rima
April 13th, 2013, 04:29 AM
If you are enjoying why should you feel guilty ?

JoshMacca95
April 13th, 2013, 09:34 AM
I just feel awesome afterwards honestly haha

Pete_Dude
April 24th, 2013, 04:02 PM
Only happened to me once and that was after the first time me and my best mate jacked each other off..

DerBear
April 26th, 2013, 12:22 AM
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