Lasting Too Long? And some other questions

[XxReaper454xX]

So i recently my friend and i have became FWB. Well we had are first "experience" on Thursday. We started out cuddling and stuff, and then making out. Eventually she decided it was time to whip out Mr. Peeps. I was hard and ready and she started giving me a blowjob. I thought since it was only my second one ever i would go fast(my first one i was terrible becasue she used teeth, not cool) well anyways, she gave me head for almost 30 mins and stopped because i lasted too long. I then fingered her. She told me she want to have sex but i just couldn't get up. So my questions are: Is it bad to last too long? And is the reason i couldn't get up because i was kinda numb from her giving me head and me not cumming?

[Wanderer_]

Hmmm - are u cut?

[XxReaper454xX]

Yepp.

[ethan 27]

no its good to last long especially when it feels good!

[brockfalcon]

its a mental thing too..

[GigglyAbby]

I'd rather have it take longer especially if both of us are satisfied. To me intimacy is about pleasing us both in a loving manner not a quicky.

[Josh Schlacter]

You're probably just less sensitive than the average guy, probably because your cut.

[ozzy]

so not tru im cut and last around 10-15 minutes its more of a mentle thing though

[Josh Schlacter]

Cut people are less sensitive.

[paulw]

Is it bad to last too long? And is the reason i couldn't get up because i was kinda numb from her giving me head and me not cumming?

I think it's only bad if it becomes a problem for you. Not all sex has to be about cumming believe it or not lol.

But yeh I think you could be right that numbness can have an effect. If you have been going at the same thing a while and you start to think "hmm this isn't happening right now" (like a 10 minute bj) maybe it's better not to keep pounding at it, you will piss your dick off. Change it up, make her the focus and let ur dick have a rest. And then you can go back to it later.

But don't worry if your dick isn't doing exactly what you expect. They have a mind of their own. That's why porn is full of edits!! Dicks are stupid and difficult to control but it's guaranteed that if you think about it too hard or worry about it, or think OMG what if it doesn't get hard enough, then it's all over, it will go to sleep! Make sure you are happy and not stressed about what you are doing and just relax, it'll do whatever it feels like.

[gotstyle]

Kinda makes no since just bc ur cut doesn't mean it less sensitive down there