Confuse

[Phoenix911]

hey everyone i dont what to do right now.. have a girlfriend for 1 year now and recently met this guy.. dont know what is happening to me but i just grew those feelings for him and its really bad.. i think about him every single day.. morning, noon and night.and the worst part i dont know if he feels the same way about me.i like my girl but sadly the feelings i have for her doesnt compare to the feelings i have for him..

[CaliKiDD]

Thats cute...But seriously this sounds bad but break up with her, she will only get hurt in the end. but Talk to the guy.. privately though.. See how he feels make sure he likes guys too. If you guys feel the same way about each other take it to the next level.

[Phoenix911]

Thanks for ur advise.. but here the other thing. im not open about like guys mean im in the closet. so it kina makes it even harder to talk to him about that..

[cpkid09]

i say be true to your heart. ask yourself what will my future be like with her and what will my future be with him? Which of those futures make you happier?

[Kevin Bacon]

Hey man, just go with the flow. I kind of went through a denial stage before I admitted to myself I was gay. First off, you need to end it with your girlfriend. As much as you think it may hurt now, you are only hurting you and her in the long room hiding your feelings about this male/ other males to her. Then, don't feel the need to rush and come out of the closet, especially if you aren't sure yourself. Spend time with him, get to know him, and when you feel comfortable, tell him you have feelings for him, but ask if he won't out you because you aren't ready. Then, gradually work your way out when you feel comfortable. Above all.....



Being gay is NOT wrong, be comfortable with yourself!

[DerBear]

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