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bach92
March 30th, 2013, 08:08 AM
Well here is my issue I'm Virgin I mean I have never had sex before but sometimes I feel like the pressure from other people to get involve with someone honestly I don't feel ready and I want to live that moment when I really feel in love but at the same time I feel curious about having sex with a girl what do you think I should do??

Harley Quinn
March 30th, 2013, 08:20 AM
I think you need to stick with your gut reaction. If you aren't ready, you aren't ready and you shouldn't be forced into something. If you want to have sex, go ahead no one is stopping you, however, if you don't want to have sex until you're ready, don't have sex. It's all down to you. Peer pressure should not force you into anything, be your own person.

darkie
March 30th, 2013, 08:38 AM
Don't let other people tell you whether you should do something, especially if that something is having sex. Sure, it's teenage hormones going overdrive and making you curious about girls and sex in general, but in my opinion just hold it out if you don't feel right about doing it. Once you do it for the first time, chances are you might regret it, but whatever floats your boat.

I actually think it's a lovely sentiment hearing from someone that they'd rather wait for a moment where they're totally in love with another person before engaging in that. :)

randomme
March 30th, 2013, 08:44 AM
Dont be forced into it if you want it do it but dont feel like you haveto do it

LitBlackRose
March 30th, 2013, 02:22 PM
well it really all depends on you but i think its best not to ust jump into stuff like that if you really dont ant to yet. dont let other people presser you into something you are not sure about doing yes. its all really up to what you want to do in the end

Jamesison
March 30th, 2013, 02:38 PM
Its up to you I would take my time and make sure it is the right time....

FergusDunn
March 30th, 2013, 04:41 PM
Well here is my issue I'm Virgin I mean I have never had sex before but sometimes I feel like the pressure from other people to get involve with someone honestly I don't feel ready and I want to live that moment when I really feel in love but at the same time I feel curious about having sex with a girl what do you think I should do??


You just have to ake up your own mind about what you want and do not allow anyone to pressure you.

Be curious is ok - you can do whatever really -

Evaboo
March 30th, 2013, 05:26 PM
Wait till ur ready!

Poopie
March 30th, 2013, 08:18 PM
It's a good thing you're not having sex some people here "claim" they had sex at like 12/13. Which is really weird and gross. And people in my class think I have sex all the time. Some girls even ask "how many times have you had sex" and I'm like "hey I'm a virgin" some people believe me and some don't. I think they think this way because I'm like a 'player' or a 'frat boy'. im honestly not. my friends see im not. I'm as Virgin and I'm proud of it I don't need sex until I'm like married. Don't get me wrong ive been pressured to have sex with my Ex but I chose not to. I agree you should wait until you're ready. It's your decision man. Good luck.

ChrisA1998
April 4th, 2013, 04:18 PM
Well here is my issue I'm Virgin I mean I have never had sex before but sometimes I feel like the pressure from other people to get involve with someone honestly I don't feel ready and I want to live that moment when I really feel in love but at the same time I feel curious about having sex with a girl what do you think I should do??

We're all different so we are not ready at the same time. Just dont do it just to say you did it. sex must be something really special, especially the first time. So take your time to find the right girl, if it works between you, it will come naturally ;)

Byzantium
April 4th, 2013, 10:05 PM
If you think youre not ready for it, or dont want to have sex yet, then dont do it. Dont let other people peer-pressure you into having sex, or anything, for that matter

thatguywhosaysEH
April 4th, 2013, 10:10 PM
Don't do it if you aren't ready

justin 13
April 11th, 2013, 02:07 PM
Dude wait until u feel ready.

GigglyAbby
May 24th, 2013, 06:01 PM
You summed it up yourself with reasons why you're not ready to do it. It's your choice and when you feel that you and a female want to share such a precious moment and have explored and discussed it to see if you're aware of the risks, birth control, and if you can trust one another you may to explore making love and losing your virginity.

Appypollylogges
May 24th, 2013, 06:19 PM
Don't have sex because everybody says you should, have it when you say you should.