How do you do it?!

[Superman_23]

Ok, so first let me start off by saying, I believe I am bi curious (Yes, I know about hormones and all that great stuff). Those of you that are bicurious, or bi, how did you..."jump" into it? In other words, did you experiment with a guy to confirm that you were what you were?

Today, a guy was 100% ready to come over & help me confirm what I was (If you get what I mean), but I chickened out, & that's my biggest problem; chickening out.

So my question to you is: How/When did you confirm what you were? & Were you nervous?

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Honestly, in my case it accidentally happened in world geography 2 days ago.
I dodged being hit by a text book, and my butt touched a guys penis (of course covered by pants and underwear) It felt kinda good and that's how I proved I was sexually attracted to men. I've known I was romantically for 4 years.

[xxPerryPlatypusxx]

when I was 15 I was completely straight
I dated a girl and kissed her and I took it from there
I discovered being with a girl turned me on just as much as being with a guy
I did go lesbian at one point.
I was ashamed at first considering my dad is strictly christian and raised me to hate gays so coming out to him was hard but I was surprised he took it better than my mother and nanny did. his reason was because I couldn't get pregnant having sex with a woman.

[teen.jpg]

No, experimenting is one way, but is not the ONLY way.

I found out when I was 11, when I was sexually attracted to guys.

[BandedKlepto]

I wasn't exactly raised with a sexuality, I had no idea what straight or gay was for the longest time- and I liked both male and female- I saw no difference in gender, so I never had the "curious" problem. I just liked whoever I liked and that was that. :u

[RCT109]

i was just with a guy friend and it came out

[xxPerryPlatypusxx]

i was just with a guy friend and it came out

thats usually the best way to do it
I came out to my best friend :)
she accepted it almost immediately and then told me she was bi
we dated teehee :P

[RCT109]

thats usually the best way to do it
I came out to my best friend :)
she accepted it almost immediately and then told me she was bi
we dated teehee :P


my firend was like ' i think you're bi' and i started thinking about the past

[xxPerryPlatypusxx]

ahh I see
well when someone brings it up its usually easier to reflect and decide from there where things lie

[RCT109]

yeah it is

[Faolan]

I confirmed it last fall when I realized that I had a crush on a girl and on a boy. I think I was more attracted to the boy, though. He's one of the only people I've come out to personally.

[kye.]

Ok, so first let me start off by saying, I believe I am bi curious (Yes, I know about hormones and all that great stuff). Those of you that are bicurious, or bi, how did you..."jump" into it? In other words, did you experiment with a guy to confirm that you were what you were?

Today, a guy was 100% ready to come over & help me confirm what I was (If you get what I mean), but I chickened out, & that's my biggest problem; chickening out.

So my question to you is: How/When did you confirm what you were? & Were you nervous?

Well since I was little I liked guys & girls....and when I was very little I did things with guys and I liked it. But now that I'm older I haven't done anything lol but I'm still sure I'm bi.